Menu

Create the best sleep environment for baby with these 8 tips

2. Set the thermostat for sweet dreams.

Create the best sleep environment for baby with these 8 tips
Motherly for Nanit

As you set up baby's nursery, it's easy for your mind to wander to all the sweet moments to come as you read bedtime stories, giggle together at the changing table and study every detail of their sweet face while singing lullabies. But at the end of the day (the fun-but-exhausting day), the true purpose of a nursery is to help your baby—and you—get the best night of sleep possible. And the Nanit Smart Baby Monitor can help by giving you the information (and peace of mind) you need to rest easy.

"The place that we sleep has a huge impact on our sleep hygiene," says Motherly's Sleep Expert, Rachel Gorton, a certified infant and toddler sleep specialist. "Babies, just like any other child or adult, need a sleep promoting environment, free of distraction and stimulation to help them sleep well."

Here are eight expert-backed tips to keep in mind while setting up the sleep-inducing nursery of your dreams:

1. Limit light sources

Babies require a lot of sleep throughout the day, too. To create a snooze-able space, Gorton recommends investing in blackout shades, especially if the nursery receives a lot of direct sunlight.

At night, don't add unnecessarily bright sources of light, which Gorton says can accidentally distract or stimulate your baby when the real objective should be sleeping. With Nanit's soft-glow night light, the room will be illuminated just enough for you to navigate—without disturbing baby.

2. Set the thermostat for sweet dreams

The optimal sleeping temperature for babies and children is between 68 and 72 degrees Fahrenheit. But if your thermostat isn't exactly reliable, Gorton says it's really helpful to be able to quickly determine the temperature in your child's nursery with help from the Nanit Plus Smart Monitor.

3. Get a dependable monitor to limit interruptions

One of the perks of being a parent today? You don't have to guess what's going on in baby's nursery. With the high-tech Nanit Plus Smart Monitor, you can keep an eye not only on your sleeping baby (aww!) with a bird's eye view, but you can also instantly get data to help you better understand (and address) your child's sleep patterns. That means no more not-so-quietly sneaking into the room in the middle of the night at the risk of disturbing them.

As Gorton explains, "With the Nanit software you get alerts directly to your phone and you can watch your baby's activity from anywhere, in or outside of the home, giving you piece of mind and helping to eliminate unnecessary interruptions by not having to enter the room for check-ins."

4. Make a comfortable space for yourself

Baby isn't the only one who will be spending a lot of time in the nursery. By getting a comfortable rocker or glider, you will be more at ease during bedtime—which put them more at ease. (Read: sleepier!)

5. Make organization a priority

During those inevitable midnight visits, you don't want to bump and fumble around just to find more diapers. Keep everything accessible so you can navigate with your eyes shut. (Which, let's face it, they very well may be.) That way you can be in and out with minimal wake-up time for you both.

6. Select calming colors

Set the mood for a restful night with neutral, cool colors. Although it may seem like a small design detail, Gorton says this can make a significant sleep difference. "Many nurseries are decorated extravagantly with bright colors and many objects or toys, which can be extremely overstimulating for sleep," she says. Good color palettes include earth tones and blushes.

7. Tune out background noise

The last thing you want is to accidentally wake your peacefully sleeping baby with noise from another room. With the Nanit Plus Smart Monitor, you can turn on nature sounds so your baby can tune out whatever else is going on in the house.

8. Keep toys to a minimum

Having toys in the room can send mixed signals to your child. As Gorton explains, having playthings within reach of the crib is "confusing for your child as she may wake up thinking it is playtime if her room is filled with toys." Store those away from baby during sleepy time to make the nursery a clear snoozing space.

This article was sponsored by Nanit. Thank you for supporting the brands that support Motherly and mamas.

I felt lost as a new mother, but babywearing helped me find myself again

I wish someone had told me before how special wearing your baby can be, even when you have no idea how to do it.

My first baby and I were alone in our Brooklyn apartment during a particularly cold spring with yet another day of no plans. My husband was back at work after a mere three weeks of parental leave (what a joke!) and all my friends were busy with their childless lives—which kept them too busy to stop by or check in (making me, at times, feel jealous).

It was another day in which I would wait for baby to fall asleep for nap number one so I could shower and get ready to attempt to get out of the house together to do something, anything really, so I wouldn't feel the walls of the apartment close in on me by the time the second nap rolled around. I would pack all the diapers and toys and pacifiers and pump and bottles into a ginormous stroller that was already too heavy to push without a baby in it .

Then I would spend so much time figuring out where we could go with said stroller, because I wanted to avoid places with steps or narrow doors (I couldn't lift the stroller by myself and I was too embarrassed to ask strangers for help—also hi, New Yorkers, please help new moms when you see them huffing and puffing up the subway stairs, okay?). Then I would obsess about the weather, was it too cold to bring the baby out? And by the time I thought I had our adventure planned, the baby would wake up, I would still be in my PJs and it was time to pump yet again.

Slowly, but surely, and mostly thanks to sleep deprivation and isolation, I began to detest this whole new mom life. I've always been a social butterfly. I moved to New York because I craved that non-stop energy the city has and in the years before having my baby I amassed new friends I made through my daily adventures. I would never stop. I would walk everywhere just to take in the scenery and was always on the move.

Now I had this ball and chain attached to me, I thought, that didn't even allow me to make it out of the door to walk the dog. This sucks, I would think regularly, followed by maybe I'm not meant to be a mom after all.


Keep reading Show less
Shop

Motherly editors’ 7 favorite hacks for organizing their diaper bags

Make frantically fishing around for a diaper a thing of the past!

As any parent knows, the term "diaper bag" only scratches the surface. In reality, this catchall holds so much more: a change of clothes, bottles, snacks, wipes and probably about a dozen more essential items.

Which makes finding the exact item you need, when you need it (read: A diaper when you're in public with a blowout on your hands) kind of tricky.

That's why organization is the name of the game when it comes to outings with your littles. We pooled the Motherly team of editors to learn some favorite hacks for organizing diaper bags. Here are our top tips.

1. Divide and conquer with small bags

Here's a tip we heard more than a few times: Use smaller storage bags to organize your stuff. Not only is this helpful for keeping related items together, but it can also help keep things from floating around in the expanse of the larger diaper bag. These bags don't have to be anything particularly fancy: an unused toiletry bag, pencil case or even plastic baggies will work.

2. Have an emergency changing kit

When you're dealing with a diaper blowout situation, it's not the time to go searching for a pack of wipes. Instead, assemble an emergency changing kit ahead of time by bundling a change of baby clothes, a fresh diaper, plenty of wipes and hand sanitizer in a bag you can quickly grab. We're partial to pop-top wipes that don't dry out or get dirty inside the diaper bag.

3. Simplify bottle prep

Organization isn't just being able to find what you need, but also having what you need. For formula-feeding on the go, keep an extra bottle with the formula you need measured out along with water to mix it up. You never know when your outing will take longer than expected—especially with a baby in the mix!

4. Get resealable snacks

When getting out with toddlers and older kids, snacks are the key to success. Still, it isn't fun to constantly dig crumbs out of the bottom of your diaper bag. Our editors love pouches with resealable caps and snacks that come in their own sealable containers. Travel-sized snacks like freeze-dried fruit crisps or meal-ready pouches can get an unfair reputation for being more expensive, but that isn't the case with the budget-friendly Comforts line.

5. Keep a carabiner on your keychain

You'll think a lot about what your child needs for an outing, but you can't forget this must-have: your keys. Add a carabiner to your keychain so you can hook them onto a loop inside your diaper bag. Trust us when we say it's a much better option than dumping out the bag's contents on your front step to find your house key!

6. Bundle your essentials

If your diaper bag doubles as your purse (and we bet it does) you're going to want easy access to your essentials, too. Dedicate a smaller storage bag of your diaper bag to items like your phone, wallet and lip balm. Then, when you're ready to transfer your items to a real purse, you don't have to look for them individually.

7. Keep wipes in an outer compartment

Baby wipes aren't just for diaper changes: They're also great for cleaning up messy faces, wiping off smudges, touching up your makeup and more. Since you'll be reaching for them time and time again, keep a container of sensitive baby wipes in an easily accessible outer compartment of your bag.

Another great tip? Shop the Comforts line on www.comfortsforbaby.com to find premium baby products for a fraction of competitors' prices. Or, follow @comfortsforbaby for more information!

This article was sponsored by The Kroger Co. Thank you for supporting the brands that supporting Motherly and mamas.

Our Partners

Errands and showers are not self-care for moms

Thinking they are is what's burning moms out.

A friend and I bump into each other at Target nearly every time we go. We don't pre-plan this; we must just be on the same paper towel use cycle or something. Really, I think there was a stretch where I saw her at Target five times in a row.

We've turned it into a bit of a running joke. "Yeah," I say sarcastically, "We needed paper towels so you know, I had to come to Target… for two hours of alone time."

She'll laugh and reply, "Oh yes, we were out of… um… paper clips. So here I am, shopping without the kids. Heaven!"

Now don't get me wrong. I adore my trips to Target (and based on the fullness of my cart when I leave, I am pretty sure Target adores my trips there, too).

But my little running joke with my friend is actually a big problem. Because why is the absence of paper towels the thing that prompts me to get a break? And why on earth is buying paper towels considered a break for moms?

Keep reading Show less
Life