Today's Video Lesson—

Common fears in new parenthood are scary, but they're also just that—common.

Money challenges—Who makes the money, and who spends it?

In-laws— How do they impact your family dynamics, habits and expectations today?

Gender roles—Who does what at home and work?

Family of origin issues—What messages did you hear growing up and how are they impacting your family now?

They're all common questions and fears that couples face. But it's important to identify what those fears are, so that we can start to address the insights and values that lie beneath them.

Your task + class comments—Can you talk to your partner about what common (or not-so-common) fears you're experiencing in parenthood? Let's start sharing them in the class comments, because you're really not alone.

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