Fun as it may be to wear, lingerie isn't always the easiest to buy. For one thing, trying it on isn't always in the cards and figuring out what size to buy can feel like calculus. Honestly, it's no surprise that 80% of women are wearing the wrong bra size! Plus, there's often stress around body image or worrying about which color to pick only to realize when you try it on, the set is nothing like you imagined. Add in a C-section scar or extra skin around your midsection and many of us prefer to wear a comfy tee for the rest of time than try on lingerie.

The struggle is real, but this Valentine's day we're on a mission to find lingerie that not only fits, but makes you feel sexy and empowered because you deserve to feel special every night of the year.

Check out some of the gorgeous lingerie styles we have our eye on right now. Whether you're asleep by 9 or up all night, you'll be able to find a few minutes to slip into something.

lovesuze ever stretch leopard lace slip

LoveSuze

$55

Ever-Stretch Leopard Lace Slip

Nothing is sexier than feeling comfortable in your own skin. If strapping yourself into complicated lingerie isn’t your thing (we hear you!) throw on this mini slip with a relaxed silhouette to help you feel good all over. And, yes the hot pink leopard lace makes it chic enough to wear on Valentine’s day. (And don’t forget the matching panty!)

thistle and spire medusa bodysuit

Thistle and Spire

$98

Medusa Bodysuit

With its halter neck, mesh body and embroidered snakes that wind their way over your curves, this bodysuit rivals any superhero costume. I mean, how could you not feel ready to kick butt and take names while wearing this? I’m also completely smitten with the inclusivity of sizing (XS-3x) and skin tone options (and red, green or blue if you’d rather go that route.)

commando faux leather longline bralette

Commando

$72

Faux Leather Longline Bralette

Five second lingerie is fun (you know, the kind that looks like dental floss and is equally supportive). But, when it’s comfortable to wear enough all day long, you get to feel sexy all day long as well. And that’s even more fun. This super hot bralette from Commando taps into your inner Rihanna and puts her in charge from dinner, through drinks and beyond.

proof leak proof lace back bikini

Proof

$43

Leak Proof Lace Back Bikini

Sure, sometimes your period makes you feel the opposite of sexy. But sometimes it makes you friskier than ever. (How convenient, right?🙄) Proof has you covered with undies that are as functional as they are flirty. Their recently launched Leak Proof Lace Back Bikini offers all the protection of their regular period panties but with a lacy look that’s anything but boring.

love vera embroidered heart teddy

Love, Vera

$74

Embroidered Heart Teddy

If you’re in the market for a very special V-day look, this one checks all the boxes. Embroidered heart details, satin trim, a plunging neckline and removable garters wrap you up like the gorgeous gift you are. And like everything in the Love Vera collection it’s available in S-XL as well as curvy sizes from 1X-4X.

hips and curves slinky romper

Hips and Curves

$27.60

Slinky Romper

You can never go wrong with a satiny red romper. With its Pin-Up girl vibes and lace trim, this romantic piece feels as perfect for lounging as it does for extra curriculars. 😉Available in sizes 12-22

journelle natalia bodysuit

Journelle

$98

Natalia Bodysuit

A favorite brand among lingerie enthusiasts, Journelle always gets top marks for quality and details. A perfect example? This stunning bodysuit which comes highly recommended for its flattering fit, gorgeous art nouveau lace and exquisite silk tie at the nape of the neck. And if white feels too “wedding night,” it also comes in two shades of red and black as well.

hanky panky signature lace original rise thong

Hanky Panky

$22

Original Rise Thong Panty

Hands down the most comfortable thong ever made, Hanky Panky has been perfecting the style since 1986. They’re made from a supremely stretchy lace fabric that doesn’t creep, dig or itch and with a little bit of sorcery manage to fit an incredible range of shapes and sizes. (They legit sell a pair every 10 seconds. Clearly they know what they’re doing.) Yes, they’re pricy but trust me. They’re worth every penny. (And come in a billion colors and patterns, so apologies in advance.)

adore me corina push up

Adore Me

$19.95

Corina Push Up Set

If a little extra support is what you’re looking for, the Corina Push Up set delivers. With cleavage boosting underwire, wide straps, and a gorgeous silhouette, it’s an absolute stunner. Just like you, mama.

gooseberry full on glam set

Gooseberry

$39

Full On Glam

Why high waisted styles ever fell out of favor, I’ll never understand. The cut always flatters, adding length and definition. Whatever the reason, I’m oh-so-thrilled they’re back. This lacy duo from Gooseberry showcases the beauty of it perfectly with their uber sexy high waist thong and matching longline underwire bra. Prices start at $39.

natori lolita cami

Natori

$250

Lolita Cami

If a splurge is in order, Natori is the way to go. The luxury brand has been in the game since 1977 and the attention to detail shows. A stand out? This timeless silk and lace camisole (and matching shorts!) which demands breakfast in bed and someone to wait on you hand and foot. A girl can dream, right?

Not in the budget? Don’t worry. This affordable dupe from Asos commands the same.

lovesuze luxe stretch full bust bralette

LoveSuze

$40

Luxe-Stretch Full Bust Bralette

Comfortable, sexy and highly functional, the Luxe-Stretch Full Bust Bralette is a trifecta of fab. Like the rest of the LoveSuze line, this wireless bralette is crafted with their “Flex-Sizing” materials that stretch and mold to your unique shape. What’s better than that?