The ultimate list of holiday books for kids of every age

Stocking-sized readers for every little book lover.

winter holiday books

Winter holidays are right around the corner, and with them comes the opportunity to share books with our kids about why we celebrate. Books also help mamas get into the holiday spirit and quietly reconnect with our kids.

The team of teachers and librarians at Best Kids' Books selected books about different holidays celebrated by American families including Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Lunar New Year (sometimes called Chinese New Year) and Nochebuena. Use these as an opportunity to teach your children about the traditions that other families celebrate, as well as your own.

Enjoy a hand-picked selection of books to read to kids to celebrate the winter holidays:


Newborn - 2

Hanukkah Lights by David Martin, illustrated by Melissa Sweet

Hanukkah Lights by David Martin, illustrated by Melissa Sweet

This board book, with its lovely, detailed illustrations, is a nice introduction to the traditions of Hanukkah. Lots of smiles here and a sense of fun.

$5.99

The Little Drummer Boy by Ezra Jack Keats

The Little Drummer Boy by Ezra Jack Keats

Ezra Jack Keats' paper collage artwork accompanies the lyrics of the popular Christmas song The Little Drummer Boy, with its beautiful cadence and all the fun-to-sing rum-pum-pum-pums. It tells the story of Mary, baby Jesus and a boy who has no gift to offer other than what he can create on his drum, a tune which reverberates through time and creates calm. Little ones as well as older children will enjoy the rhythm of these lyrics being spoken or sung, and may even join in or memorize them.

$6.99

Ten Mice for Tet! by Pegi Deitz Shea and Cynthia Weill

Ten Mice for Tet! by Pegi Deitz Shea and Cynthia Weill

This counting book helps toddlers and preschoolers master their numbers, but it includes gorgeous illustrations and an entrance point to learn about Tet, the Vietnamese New Year's celebration. The illustrations were embroidered onto cloth and then photographed, making them interesting to study, but the vibrant color choices steal the show.

$8.33

Merry Christmas, Little Pookie by Sandra Boynton

Merry Christmas, Little Pookie by Sandra Boynton

Little Pookie, the sweet little pig star of many of Sandra Boynton's popular toddler board books, is at it again with Christmas antics this time. A pig couldn't look much cuter in a snowsuit! Toddlers will appreciate this one.

$41.68

Age 3 - 5

Li’l Rabbit’s Kwanzaa by Donna L. Washington

Li\u2019l Rabbit\u2019s Kwanzaa by Donna L. Washington

This is a cute, cuddly one. Li'l Rabbit feels too small to help prepare for Kwanzaa, and with his grandma sick, decides to go in search of a special treat for her. He thought he failed at his task, when in fact he helped pull off the "best Karamu ever" with all the forest animals contributing to the Rabbit's holiday feast.

$7.99

Little Santa by Jon Agee

Little Santa

This book imagines what Santa would be like as a child—it's the origin story of the reindeer, the elves and even the sleigh. Pick this book to add some silly to your holidays.

$10.99

A New Year’s Reunion by Yu Li-Qiong

A New Year\u2019s Reunion by Yu Li-Qiong

This is a special book. It will pull at the heartstrings of anyone missing a loved one who is far away, or separated due to the pandemic. Readers unfamiliar learn about Chinese New Year in a subtle way, and even those accustomed to the holiday will enjoy the perfect complement of outstanding illustrations and gentle storytelling.

$6.29

Hanukkah Bear by Eric A. Kimmel

Hanukkah Bear by Eric A. Kimmel

In this kooky tale, Bubba Brayna seems to not be able to see or hear very well in her old age and mistakes a bear for her Rabbi. She treats him to all the latkes in her house and shrugs it off with a giggle after realizing the case of mistaken identity. Combine a reading with the recipe for latkes at the end for a holiday treat.

$15.99

‘Twas Nochebuena: A Christmas Story

\u2018Twas Nochebuena: A Christmas Story

This rhyming book describes the Latino Nochebuena celebration. A great choice for any child learning either Spanish or English, as well as bilingual children, as a heavy dose of Spanish is included here.

$13.99

Age 6 - 8

Seven Spools of Thread: A Kwanzaa Story by Angela Shelf Medearis

Seven Spools of Thread: A Kwanzaa Story by Angela Shelf Medearis

This is a striking book in every way. The bold illustrations—created with intricate woodcuts—complement the story of seven African brothers who leave behind arguing to work together for the greater good. The preface explains the origins and principles of Kwanzaa. A real standout.

$6.48

Simon and the Bear: A Hanukkah Tale by Eric A. Kimmel

Simon and the Bear: A Hanukkah Tale by Eric A. Kimmel

This moving story of a young boy who journeys from his village to New York, only to be stranded on an iceberg after his ship sinks, is action-packed and dramatic. The boy relinquishes his seat in a lifeboat to a fellow passenger, befriends a polar bear and is rescued. Description of Hanukkah traditions are woven into the story, making it educational as well.

$12.99

The Night Before Christmas by Rachel Isadora

the night before christmas

Created with gorgeous collage by the talented Rachel Isadora, this rendition of Clement Moore's famous 1822 poem allows children with brown skin to see characters that look like them. This poem and presentation are a perfect combination of the old and new—a fantastic opportunity to make 200-year-old language accessible to our little screen sophisticates. Make a tradition of reading this book every Christmas Eve for extra fun.

$26.68

The Gift of Nothing by Patrick McDonnell

the gift of nothing

Written by a famous cartoonist, this book is the story of a cat on a hunt to get his dog-bestie an amazing gift. TYhe lesson learned: love and companionship are the best gifts of all. Pick this as a conversation starter on why we give gifts, on our cultural tendency toward consumerism, or just as a sweet nudge to pull your little loved ones a little closer.

$11.49

The Miracle of the First Poinsettia: A Mexican Christmas Story by Joanne Oppenheim

The Miracle of the First Poinsettia

A small girl searches for a gift to bring the Baby Jesus at Christmas Eve midnight Mass, only to find nothing. She hears a voice tell her to bring the weeds outside the church inside as her gift; she does so, only for them to turn into beautiful star-shaped red flowers as she approaches the altar. This book is inspiring and full of hope.

$22.23

Age 9 - 10

The Nutcracker in Harlem by T.E. McMorrow

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This book, gorgeously illustrated by James Ransome, introduces young ones to the fantastical plot of the popular holiday season ballet, The Nutcracker, complete with a mouse army battling toy soldiers. With characters named after Adelaide Hall and Cab Calloway, performers popular during the Harlem Renaissance, it also offers an opportunity to introduce children to the music of the 1920's, the setting for the story.

$14.47

The Trees of the Dancing Goats by Patricia Polacco

The Trees of the Dancing Goats by Patricia Polacco

This book tells the true story of the author's mother as a little girl on her grandparents' farm in Michigan—and one particular holiday when scarlet fever was going farm to farm bringing serious sickness with it. Her grandparents, having come to Michigan from Ukraine and Soviet Georgia, celebrate Hanukkah. Their neighbors celebrate Christmas, but can't decorate or cook for the holidays due to illness. Her family remedies this, bringing decorated trees, gifts and food to their neighbors homes.

$7.49

One Candle by Eve Bunting

One Candle by Eve Bunting

This book is a heartbreaking look into the lives of two older women who spent time during their childhoods in a Nazi work camp for Jews in Germany during World War II. The story centers on the beloved candle they were able to burn in their barracks during Hanukkah all those many years ago, and the hope and resilience it engendered. A touching, beautiful and unfortunately necessary book that should definitely be considered when the time is right.

Note: this book should only be shared with children developmentally ready for the content and only when the adult reader has the time and background knowledge to answer questions and talk through the delicate and complex subject matter.

$43.09

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When you ask any two mamas to share their experience with breastfeeding, you are bound to get very unique answers. That's because while the act of breastfeeding is both wonderful and natural, it also comes with a learning curve for both mothers and babies.

In some cases, breastfeeding won't be the right path for everyone. But with the right tools, resources and social support systems, we can make progress toward the American Academy of Pediatrics' recommendation to continue breastfeeding through the first year of a child's life. After all, breastfeeding helps nourish infants, protects them against illnesses, develops their immune systems and more. Not to mention that mothers who breastfeed experience reduced risk for breast and ovarian cancer, type 2 diabetes and high blood pressure.

With National Breastfeeding Awareness Month this month, it's a great time for mamas (and expectant mamas!) to gather the supplies that will support their feeding journey—whether it looks like exclusively breastfeeding, pumping or combo-feeding.

Customflow™ Double Electric Breast Pump

Designed for regular use, this double electric breast pump allows mamas to customize the cycle and vacuum settings that work for them. The 100% SoftShape™ silicone shields on this pump form-fit to a wide range of breast shapes and sizes—which means more comfortable, more efficient pumping. And every pump comes with two complete Dr. Brown's Options+ bottles, giving you everything you need to go from pumping to feeding.

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With an extra-durable design and double zip seal, your breast milk will stay fresh and safe in the fridge or freezer until it's needed. Plus, the bags are easy to freeze flat and then store for up to six months, so your baby can continue drinking breast milk long after you are done nursing.

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Silicone One-Piece Breast Pump with Options+™ Bottle & Bag

Here's something they don't tell you about breastfeeding ahead of time: While feeding your baby on one side, the other breast may "let down" milk, too. With this one-piece Silicone Breast Pump, you don't have to let those precious drops go to waste. The flexible design makes pouring the milk into a bottle stress-free.

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Dr. Brown’s® Manual Breast Pump

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7 hacks for simplifying after-school snacks

Prepping delicious and nutritious foods shouldn't take all day.

When you're in the middle of the school year and managing a family, each minute of time becomes very precious. Sometimes that means healthy food choices in the household can take a backseat. But don't stress it, mama. Prepping delicious and nutritious choices for the kids to munch on doesn't need to take all day.

Remember to keep it fun, simple and interactive! Here are tips for simplifying after-school snacks once and for all:

1. Prep snacks on Sunday

This simple trick can make the rest of the week a breeze. Tupperware is your friend here, you can even write different days of the week on each container to give the kids a little surprise every day. I really like storage with compartments for snack prep. Personally, I slice apples, carrots or cucumbers to pair with almond butter and hummus—all great to grab and go for when you're out all day and need some fresh variety.

2. When in doubt, go for fruit

Fruit is always a quick and easy option. I suggest blueberries, clementine oranges, apples, frozen grapes or even unsweetened apple sauce and dried fruit, like mixed fruit. It's fun to put together a fruit salad, too. Simply cut up all the fruit options and let the kids decide how they'd like to compile. Prepped fruit is also great to have on hand for smoothies, especially when it's been sitting in the fridge for a few days—throw it in the blender with some nut milk and voila.

3. Pair snacks with a dip

Hummus is a great dip to keep on hand with lots of versatility or you can grab a yogurt-based dip. Easy and healthy dippers include pre-sliced veggies, baby carrots and multigrain tortilla chips. Plain hummus is a great way to introduce seasonings and spices too—shake a little turmeric, add fresh basil and you'd be surprised what your kids will take to.

4. Have high-protein options readily available

Snacks with high protein, like cottage cheese, Greek yogurt, hard boiled eggs and jerky will fuel kids for hours. One of my favorites is a turkey stick, which is a fun addition to the hummus platter. Just slice into bite-sized pieces. I love cottage cheese because it can go savory or sweet, use as a dip with your prepped veggies, or drizzle pure maple syrup and sprinkle with berries.

5. Always keep the pantry stocked

Monthly deliveries keeps the pantry updated without a trip to grocery store. Many kids are big fans of popcorn, granola and pretzels. We like to DIY our own snack packs with a little popcorn, pretzels, nuts and whatever else is in the pantry so there's always something different!

6. Make cracker tartines

I love the idea of replicating popular restaurant dishes for kids. Here are some of my favorite snack-sized tartines using any crisp bread, or favorite flat cracker of your choice as the base. There are no rules and kids love adding toppings and finding new combinations they love.

  • Avocado crackers: Use a cracker and then layer with thinly sliced avocado, a dollop of fresh ricotta cheese topped with roasted pepitas or sunflower seeds.
  • Tacos: The base for this is a black bean spread—just drain a can of black beans, rinse and place into a wide bowl. With a fork or potato masher, lightly smush the beans until chunky. Spread onto your cracker and top with tomato, cheddar cheese and black olives. Try out a dollop of super mild salsa or some lime zest to introduce some new flavor profiles.
  • A play on PB&J: Smear peanut butter, almond or a favorite sun butter on the cracker. I like to get a mix it up a bit and put fresh fruit (strawberries, blueberries and tiny diced apples) and a little bit of dried fruit sprinkled on top.

7. Pre-make smoothie pops

The easy part about meal prep is the prep itself, but knowing exactly how much to make ahead is tricky. Freeze a smoothie in popsicle molds to have a healthy treat ready-to-go snack. They're super simple to make: Add any fruit (I like apples, berries, pineapples and mangoes) and veggies (carrots, steamed beet and wilted kale) to a blender with your favorite nut milk until you have consistency just a bit thinner than a smoothie. Pour into your trusty reusable popsicle molds and then into the freezer to make an ice pop so good they could eat them for breakfast.

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15 toys that will keep your kids entertained inside *and* outside

They transition seamlessly for indoor play.

Keeping kids entertained is a battle for all seasons. When it's warm and sunny, the options seem endless. Get them outside and get them moving. When it's cold or rainy, it gets a little tricker.

So with that in mind, we've rounded up some of the best toys for toddlers and kids that are not only built to last but will easily make the transition from outdoor to indoor play. Even better, many are Montessori-friendly and largely open-ended so your kids can get a ton of use out of them.

From sunny backyard afternoons to rainy mornings stuck inside, these indoor outdoor toys are sure to keep little ones engaged and entertained.


Stomp Racers

As longtime fans of Stomp Rockets, we're pretty excited about their latest launch–Stomp Racers. Honestly, the thrill of sending things flying through the air never gets old. Parents and kids alike can spend hours launching these kid-powered cars which take off via a stompable pad and hose.

$19.99

Step2 Up and Down Rollercoaster

Step2 Up and Down Rollercoaster

Tiny thrill-seekers will love this kid-powered coaster which will send them (safely) sailing across the backyard or play space. The durable set comes with a high back coaster car and 10.75 feet of track, providing endless opportunities for developing gross motor skills, balance and learning to take turns. The track is made up of three separate pieces which are easy to assemble and take apart for storage (but we don't think it will be put away too often!)

$139

Secret Agent play set

Plan-Toys-Secret-agent-play-set

This set has everything your little secret agent needs to solve whatever case they might encounter: an ID badge, finger scanner, walkie-talkie handset, L-shaped scale and coloring comic (a printable file is also available for online download) along with a handy belt to carry it all along. Neighborhood watch? Watch out.

$40

Stepping Stones

Stepping-stones

Kiddos can jump, stretch, climb and balance with these non-slip stepping stones. The 20-piece set can be arranged in countless configurations to create obstacle courses, games or whatever they can dream up.

$99.99

Sand play set

B. toys Wagon & Beach Playset - Wavy-Wagon Red

For the littlest ones, it's easy to keep it simple. Take their sand box toys and use them in the bath! This 12-piece set includes a variety of scoops, molds and sifters that can all be stored in sweet little wagon.

$17.95

Sensory play set

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Filled with sand or water, this compact-sized activity set keeps little ones busy, quiet and happy. (A mama's ideal trifecta 😉). It's big enough to satisfy their play needs but not so big it's going to flood your floors if you bring the fun inside on a rainy day.

$19.95

Vintage scooter balance bike

Janod retro scooter balance bike

Pedals are so 2010. Balance bikes are the way to go for learning to ride a bike while skipping the training wheels stage altogether. This impossibly cool retro scooter-style is built to cruise the neighborhood or open indoor space as they're learning.

$121

Foam pogo stick

Flybar-my-first-foam-pogo-stick

Designed for ages 3 and up, My First Flybar offers kiddos who are too young for a pogo stick a frustration-free way to get their jump on. The wide foam base and stretchy bungee cord "stick" is sturdy enough to withstand indoor and outdoor use and makes a super fun addition to driveway obstacle courses and backyard races. Full disclosure—it squeaks when they bounce, but don't let that be a deterrent. One clever reviewer noted that with a pair of needle-nose pliers, you can surgically remove that sucker without damaging the base.

$16.99

Dumptruck 

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Whether they're digging up sand in the backyard or picking up toys inside, kids can get as creative as they want picking up and moving things around. Even better? It's made from recycled plastic milk cartons.

$22

Hopper ball

Hopper ball

Burn off all that extra energy hippity hopping across the lawn or the living room! This hopper ball is one of the top rated versions on Amazon as it's thicker and more durable than most. It also comes with a hand pump to make inflation quick and easy.

$14.99

Pull-along ducks

janod-pull-along-wooden-ducks

There's just something so fun about a classic pull-along toy and we love that they seamlessly transition between indoor and outdoor play. Crafted from solid cherry and beechwood, it's tough enough to endure outdoor spaces your toddler takes it on.

$16.99

Rocking chair seesaw

Slidewhizzer-rocking-chair-seesaw

This built-to-last rocking seesaw is a fun way to get the wiggles out in the grass or in the playroom. The sturdy design can support up to 77 pounds, so even older kiddos can get in on the action.

$79.99

Baby forest fox ride-on

janod toys baby fox ride on

Toddlers will love zooming around on this fox ride-on, and it's a great transition toy into traditional balance bikes. If you take it for a driveway adventure, simply use a damp cloth to wipe down the wheels before bringing back inside.

$79.99

Meadow ring toss game

Plan Toys meadow ring toss game

Besides offering a fantastic opportunity to hone focus, coordination, determination and taking turns, lawn games are just plain fun. Set them up close together for the littles and spread them out when Mom and Dad get in on the action. With their low profile and rope rings, they're great for indoors as well.

$24.75

Mini golf set

Plan Toys mini golf set

Fore! This mini golf set is lawn and living room ready. Set up a backyard competition or incorporate into homeschooling brain breaks that shift focus and build concentration.

$40

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Even 5 hours of screen time per day is OK for school-aged kids, says new study

Researchers found screen time contributes to stronger peer relationships and had no effect on depression and anxiety. So maybe it isn't as bad as we thought?

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If you've internalized some parental guilt about your own child's screen time usage, you're not alone. Numerous studies have shown that exposure to significant amounts of screen time in children leads to an increased risk of depression and behavioral issues, poor sleep and obesity, among other outcomes. Knowing all this can mean you're swallowing a big gulp of guilt every time you unlock the iPad or turn on the TV for your kiddo.

But is screen time really that bad? New research says maybe not. A study published in September 2021 of 12,000 9- and 10-year-olds found that even when school-aged kids spend up to 5 hours per day on screens (watching TV, texting or playing video games), it doesn't appear to be that harmful to their mental health.

Researchers found no association between screen usage and depression or anxiety in children at this age.

In fact, kids who had more access to screen time tended to have more friends and stronger peer relationships, most likely thanks to the social nature of video gaming, social media and texting.


The correlations between screen time and children's health

But those big social benefits come with a caveat. The researchers also noted that kids who used screens more frequently were in fact more likely to have attention problems, impacted sleep, poorer academic performance and were more likely to show aggressive behavior.

Without a randomized controlled trial, it's hard to nail down these effects as being caused directly by screens. The study's authors analyzed data from a nationwide study known as the Adolescent Brain Cognitive Development Study (ABCD Study), the largest long-term study of brain development and children's health in the country. They relied on self-reported levels of screen time from both children and adults (it's funny to note that those reported numbers differed slightly depending on who was asked… ).

It's important to remember that these outcomes are just correlations—not causations. "We can't say screen time causes the symptoms; instead, maybe more aggressive children are given screen devices as an attempt to distract them and calm their behavior," says Katie Paulich, lead author of the study and a PhD student in the Department of Psychology and Neuroscience. Also worth noting is that a child's socioeconomic status has a 2.5-times-bigger impact on behavior than screens.

Weighing the benefits with the risks will be up to you as the parent, who knows your child best. And because we live in a digital world, screens are here to stay, meaning parents often have little choice in the matter. It's impossible to say whether recreational screen time is fully "good" or "bad" for kids. It's maybe both.

"When looking at the strength of the correlations, we see only very modest associations," says Paulich. "That is, any association between screen time and the various outcomes, whether good or bad, is so small it's unlikely to be important at a clinical level." It's all just part of the overall picture.

A novel look at screen time in adolescents

The researchers cite a lack of studies examining the relationship between screen time and health outcomes in this specific early-adolescence age group, which is one of the reasons why this study is so groundbreaking. The findings don't apply to younger children—or older adolescents, who may be starting to go through puberty.

Screen time guidelines do exist for toddlers up to older kids, but up to 1.5 hours per day seems unattainable for many young adolescents, who often have their own smartphones and laptops, or at least regular access to one.

Of course, more research is needed, but that's where this study can be helpful. The ABCD study will follow the 12,000 participants for another 10 years, following up with annual check-ins. It'll be interesting to see how the findings change over time: Will depression and anxiety as a result of screen time be more prevalent as kids age? We'll have to wait and see.

The bottom line? Parents should still be the gatekeepers of their child's screen time in terms of access and age-appropriateness, but, "our early research suggests lengthy time on screen is not likely to yield dire consequences," says Paulich.

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As a mom, I say the phrase 'let me just…' to my kids more times a day than I can count.

Yes, I can help you log into your class, let me just send this email.
Yes, I can play with you, let me just make one more call.
Yes, I can get you a snack, let me just empty the dishwasher.

I say it a lot at work, too.

Yes, I can write that article, let me just clear my inbox.
Yes, I can clear my inbox, let me just finish this meeting.
Yes, I can attend that meeting, let me just get this project out the door.

The problem is that every 'let me just' is followed by another 'let me just'... and by the time they're all done, the day is over, and I didn't do most of the things I intended—and I feel pretty bad about myself because of it.

I wasn't present with my kids today.
I didn't meet that deadline.
I couldn't muster the energy to cook dinner.
The house is a mess. I am a mess. The world is a mess.

It's okay, I tell myself. Let me just try again tomorrow.

But tomorrow comes and tomorrow goes and the list of things I didn't get to or didn't do well bears down on my shoulders and my heart, and all I can think is, "I am failing."

And I think that maybe I'm not alone.


Every mother I talk to these days, whether she has one child or five, whether she is a working mom or a stay-at-home-mom, whether she's homeschooling or not—feels like she is failing—no mother has it easy right now (or ever has, for that matter).

For working moms, the constant struggle is feeling like we are letting everyone down: our kids, our partner, our co-workers, our boss...and ourselves? We're not even on the list of priorities.

But mama, it's not our fault.

Society is not set up to support us—it wasn't before the pandemic and it certainly isn't now. The infrastructure we live in makes it unrealistic to get through the day accomplishing all the things we set out to do. The pandemic means that the resources and support we did have—the daycare, the grandparents, the steady flow of income—are gone for many of us. To put it plainly, it is impossible to get everything done.

Let me say it again: It is impossible to get everything done.

And speaking of which, let's talk about the 'everything.' The expectations placed on mothers are ridiculous. Our society prioritizes progress and work above presence and rest, and it's infiltrated our sense of worth—we feel guilty for everything. We go to bed at night focused on all the things we didn't do, and all the ways we let people down, rather than focusing on all the good we did.

But the thing is, there is so much good. Look at us! Seriously, look at what we are accomplishing every day.

It's not pretty or graceful, but my goodness, we are getting it done—during a pandemic, in a society that doesn't show us that we are important. Without resources, without help, without the security that we are going to be okay. We. Are. Getting. It. Done. I'm not sure anything could be further away from failure.

So here is what I vow to myself (and to my children and mamas everywhere):

I am going to do the best I can. Sometimes my best is exceptionally executed work projects, and sometimes my best is telling my boss that I need to take a mental health day. Sometimes my best is a magnificent day of virtual learning and home cooked meals, and sometimes it's missed assignments and cereal for dinner. I am going to allow space for all of it.

I am going to be gentler with myself, even if just a little. When my self-judgment flares and the words "I failed again" start to run through my head, I am going to place my hand on my heart, and say, "Shh. No, mama. You didn't fail. You did the best you could under ridiculous circumstances. You are worthy. You are good."

Let me just remember how hard I work every day.
Let me just acknowledge the unprecedented challenges we are facing.
Let me just love myself.
Let me just trust that I am enough. The rest will fall into place.

For the mama who needs to remember that she is more than enough.

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