If I controlled the American holiday calendar, I would nix the October 31st rule and make Halloween always fall on weekend. When Halloween falls on a Friday or Saturday, it’s easier to navigate and have fun.
Until I’m deputized to change the holiday schedule, though, I’ll have to deal with Halloween falling on weeknights most of the time. But, there are a few ways to have fun, regardless of the date.
Here are some tips I’ve gathered to celebrate Halloween on a school night to make sure it’s stress-free, but still fun.
1. Set your kids’ expectations in advance.
Part of the fun of any holiday is the anticipation leading up to the event, so incorporate the logistical plans into your talks about costumes, makeup and candy. Take it a step further and describe specific words, events, or environmental cues that your kids should watch for that will signal transitions to different activities throughout the night.
Try phrases like:
- “When I get home from work, you’ll be able to put on your costume.”
- “When we are done cleaning up from dinner, we will go trick-or-treating.”
- “When it turns dark, and I say ‘Time to head for home,’ we will be done trick-or-treating.”
- “After you’ve eaten three pieces of candy and watch a show, we will brush your teeth.”
Identifying clues like this helps children translate the hypothetical schedule you’ve laid out for them into the real world, when they’re engaged in the moment. It mitigates that look of shock and anguish kids tend to adopt when they’re having fun and have to stop what they’re doing.
2. Go early.
Besides saving your own sanity by preempting the relentless questions like, “Can we go trick-or-treating yet?!” planning early means you won’t feel pressure to rush through the fun to get the kids home and in bed at a reasonable time.
Plus, going out earlier is safer. Halloween can feel chaotic with so many children darting from house to house. The lighter it is outside, the easier it’ll be to keep track of your kids and for people driving cars to see them.
3. Serve them a light, healthy dinner.
Whether you go trick-or-treating before or after dinner, assume that the kids will be eating candy that night. But, what’s more important is to prevent overeating.
Rather than completly filling them up with dinner, encourage them to leave room in their tummies for a few sweet treats.
4. Have a candy plan.
The best way to limit the amount of candy your children consume is to actually limit how much they collect. To do this, be mindful of how many houses you visit. An easy hack, is to leave the pillowcases at home and use smaller trick-or-treating bags, so that the kids feel like they’ve scored a lot.
Finally, while checking the safety of the candy they collected, have them sort through it, identifying their favorites and the things they don’t like. Get rid of the unpopular candy, so that they (and you!) aren’t tempted to eat it just because it’s there.
5. Allow extra time to wind down.
Accept that bedtimes will be delayed on Halloween night due to the time spent trick-or-treating, the post-trick-or-treating candy inventory, evaluation, and consumption, and the costume removal.
Interestingly, while it’s safe to assume that your kids will be full of energy after their trick-or-treating stint, it may not actually be due to a sugar rush. Numerous studies have debunked the idea that sugar causes kids to be hyperactive. It’s the context in which they’re consuming sugary treats and our perception that it will make them bounce off the walls that leads us to blame the sugar.
To help kids mentally shift gears for bedtime, stick to the rest of the usual bedtime routine, even if the timing is delayed.
6. Organize for the next morning.
Step up your usual nighttime routine to prep for the next day and give everyone a few extra minutes of rest in the morning. Do homework before trick-or-treating, pack lunches and backpacks that night, and let your kids sleep in the clothes they’ll wear to school. They’ll feel like they’re getting to wear another costume, and you’ll be one step ahead for the morning.
7. Plan for a pumpkin detox.
If possible, keep the schedule for November 1st low key. Chances are, trick-or-treating was just one of many Halloween events in which your family participated. While that’s a great way to spread out the excitement of the holiday and take the pressure off trick-or-treating as being the major event, it can also lead to Halloween fatigue. Give everyone some time to relax and get ready for the turkey indulgence that’s coming at the end of the month.
It’s only just beginning. Enjoy, and good luck!