5Qs with Vanessa

Name: Vanessa Wauchope Welstead

Neighborhood: The Haight, SF & UWS, NYC

Occupation: Founder, Sensible Sitters Inc.

Number Pregnancy: 1

How would you describe your pregnant style?

I work from a home office in San Francisco and the Sensible Sitters headquarters in NYC, so my wardrobe has always had a split personality. I am really enjoying staying comfortable, but dressing up basics. I have found showing off my bump very liberating. I began showing really early, so I have enjoyed wearing tighter fitting dresses or tops that made it evident that I was expecting. I am now in my third trimester, so heels are not as much of an option, but wedges and a wrap dress were my go-to for a dinner date in the beginning.


Have you had any challenges learning to dress your pregnant body?

I have had a lot of fun matching maternity and non-maternity pieces. Many of my shift dresses became tunics as my bump grew, coupled with maternity leggings and a stretch belt. I was surprised at how quickly my rib cage expanded, so anything with a zipper was not an option. I have stayed active throughout my pregnancy which has helped me stay comfortable. You can't beat great workout clothes! At 7 months, people ask me if I am due "any day," so it has taken some work to not feel too self-conscious. I have really enjoyed pregnancy, so I work hard to maintain a good position on self image!

So far, what has surprised you most during your pregnancy?

I'm in love with my son's kicking and movements. I wasn't prepared for how amazing that sensation is. My family and friends are probably really tired of receiving videos of my moving belly but I just find it so fascinating!

What’s been your favorite pregnancy piece or brand to show off your bump?

I have worn DVF in larger sizes a lot throughout my pregnancy, and really enjoyed the way her wrap and sheath dresses fit me. I have also lived in a pair of Pea In The Pod white stretchy jeans. They fit so well and make me feel just a bit trimmer.

What NYC experience are you most looking forward to sharing with your baby?

I founded and run a business based on understanding families lifestyles in the city. Therefor, there is so much that I have always looked forward to when having my own child. Our apartment is right by Central Park and the American Museum of Natural History, so I definitely look forward to bringing him to the park and introducing him to the Blue Whale!

Just about all of us had set assumptions about raising kids before we became parents ourselves. Some of these ideas might have been based on our own ideas of how we would absolutely do things differently than everyone else. Others, we believed what everyone else told us would happen would apply to our littles, too. But, that's not always the case, mama.

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