Toddlers are cute, but they're also unpredictable and intense and, well, scary. Anything can tick them off, and they throw the biggest tantrums with the most incredible force. So if there's one person you want to please this holiday season, it is the tot in your life. The good news is: shopping for toddlers is actually pretty fun. No more rattles or teethers -- toddlerhood opens up a whole world of toys and games that will not only keep our little ones entertained, but also help them explore, create and connect with the world around them. To help you find the perfect gift for your little tot, we asked our editors to share their picks for their very own tots. From a sleeping bag to a subscription box that teaches kids about empathy, diversity and gender equality, here are 8 toddler gifts that will bring some major holiday squeals. Jessica, Co-Founder Editor's pick: Little Feminist Book Club + Activity Box, $33/month. There’s never been a more important time to teach all of our kids -- boys or girls! -- to be feminists! I love that each monthly box features an inspiring woman in history and is filled with art and science activities that teach about feminism and social justice. Editor's pick: Nailmatic Princess Story Nail Polish & Lip Gloss Trio, $28. I’m not personally one for much make-up, but my little Elsie is turning into quite the beauty junkie! This water-based set is safe for her tiny lips, fingers & toes (oh, and my carpet!), and there’s two pretty nail polish colors, which comes in handy for her signature “every other finger” manicure style. Kaity, Co-Founder Editor's pick: Talkie by Toymail, $59. We wanted to add something more meaningful to our older son's toy collection this holiday. This Toymail plush toy is not only adorable, but also a great way to keep in touch with grandma... without handing him a phone! With this screen-free voice chat device, we feel confident our son will love his new quality time with grandma and all other friends and relatives, no matter the distance. When he's not playing pretend with the doll of course. Charlene, Managing Editor Editor's pick: Melissa and Doug Fold & Go Dollhouse, $46. My oldest son makes a toy out of anything -- a dried-up baby wipe turns into a helicopter, and a sock becomes a tyrannosaurus rex. There's no doubt that his imagination lets him travel in his own beautiful world, and I want to keep it that way. That's why I plan on getting him this dollhouse -- to let his imagination run wild. This one from Melissa and Doug folds, which means I can tuck it away when it's not played with. Major score for those who live in a small space. Alexis, Associate Editor Editor's pick: Land of Nod toddler sleeping bag, $99. Now that my six-year-old is approaching “friend sleepover age”, I’ve been eyeing this sweet How Do You Zoo Fox Sleeping Bag from The Land of Nod. I love that it’s not branded in a licensed character, yet I know the design doesn’t scream “babyish” or anything that would turn my big boy off. And how cute is it that the animal face can be used as a pillow? There are a range of other designs offered (Dino, Penguin, Dog, Zebra), and there’s an option to personalize them with your kid’s name (for a slight fee). I plan on buying the Penguin one for his three-year-old brother for sleepovers at Grandma’s and late-night brother cuddle sessions in Big Bro’s room. Jenny, Fashion Editor Editor's pick: CamKing Mini 1.5 Inch Screen Children's Camera, $42.99. Cultivating creativity is important to our family, and with Vida taking interest in my photo-taking, I'd like to give her a camera to explore her own skills without risking to break mine! This super cute style from CamKing allows for picture taking and even video-making. Plus, it's lightweight, adorable, functional and affordable! Natalie, Gear Editor Editor's pick: Kid O Shape Sorting House, $29.99. At 15 months old, my inquisitive little girl is in need of more challenging yet age appropriate toys. She’ll find this simple shape sorter from Kid O under the Christmas Tree this year! I love this one in particular for it’s modern take on a classic toy. Roma, Fitness Editor Editor's pick: Joovy walker, $81.99. Like me, my son is pretty active. He already stands up with our help and loves jumping in his bouncer. So I believe that the next logical step will be to get him a walker. This one from Joovy is minimalist, which I appreciate, and it's also quiet -- a big plus, since we live in a city apartment and have to be mindful of neighbors. And who knows, maybe it will be the beginning of a happy relationship with running.
With two babies in tow, getting out the door often becomes doubly challenging. From the extra things to carry to the extra space needed in your backseat, it can be easy to feel daunted at the prospect of a day out. But before you resign yourself to life indoors, try incorporating these five genius products from Nuna to get you and the littles out the door. (Because Vitamin D is important, mama!)
1. A brilliant double stroller
You've got more to carry—and this stroller gets it. The DEMI™ grow stroller from Nuna easily converts from a single ride to a double stroller thanks to a few easy-to-install accessories. And with 23 potential configurations, you're ready to hit the road no matter what life throws at you.
2. A light car seat
Lugging a heavy car seat is the last thing a mama of two needs to have on her hands. Instead, pick up the PIPA™ lite, a safe, svelte design that weighs in at just 5.3 pounds (not counting the canopy or insert)—that's less than the average newborn! When you need to transition from car to stroller, this little beauty works seamlessly with Nuna's DEMI™ grow.
3. A super safe car seat base
The thing new moms of multiples really need to get out the door? A little peace of mind. The PIPA™ base features a steel stability leg for maximum security that helps to minimize forward rotation during impact by up to 90% (compared to non-stability leg systems) and 5-second installation for busy mamas.
4. A diaper bag you want to carry
It's hard to find an accessory that's as stylish as it is functional. But the Nuna diaper bag pulls out all the stops with a sleek design that perfectly conceals a deceptively roomy interior (that safely stores everything from extra diapers to your laptop!). And with three ways to wear it, even Dad will want to take this one to the park.
5. A crib that travels
Getting a new baby on a nap schedule—while still getting out of the house—is hard. But with the SENA™ aire mini, you can have a crib ready no matter where your day takes you. It folds down and pops up easily for sleepovers at grandma's or unexpected naps at your friend's house, and the 360-degree ventilation ensures a comfortable sleep.
With 5 essentials that are as flexible as you need to be, the only thing we're left asking is, where are you going to go, mama?
This article was sponsored by Nuna. Thank you for supporting the brands that support Motherly and mamas.
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One of the hardest areas to declutter can be your children's toy closet. Does that beeping, singing firetruck spark joy for you? Well no, in fact, it might be the most frustrating toy, but then again, having an occupied, entertained child sparks more joy than all of your household items combined.
So do more toys really mean a more engaged child? Studies say no. Having fewer toys leads to a more ordered home and encourages your child to develop creativity, concentration and a sense of responsibility for taking care of their belongings. But how do you go about reducing the number of toys your child has when there are so many "must haves" on the market? Perhaps more importantly, how do you ensure you don't bring any more toys that will be quickly forgotten into your home?
The secret: Look for toys that are open-ended, toys that will last for years, toys that encourage creativity, and toys that benefit development.
Here are some of our favorite Montessori-inspired toys.
Toys that are open-ended, rather than have just one use, empower your child to be an active participant in their own play. An example of an open-ended toy is a set of blocks, while a more limited use toy might be a talking toy robot. Blocks are only fun if your child applies their own creative thinking skills to make them fun, while the robot is a much more passive type of entertainment.
Open-ended toys also tend to keep children's interest for much longer, as they grow with your child—as their skills develop, they can build increasingly complex structures and scenarios.
There are so many beautiful sets of blocks available, but here are a few good choices.
2. Duplo Lego
Beginning in early toddlerhood, many children begin to incorporate pretend play into their repertoire. They do this all on their own, without the aid of toys, turning mud into pies and sticks into hammers.
Still, these toys will encourage their budding imaginations and also allow them to process things they experience in their own lives through role-playing and pretend play.
7. Train set
Music provides a great deal of joy to most children, and can also aid in brain development.
Providing regular opportunities for your young child to both create and listen to music will encourage him to develop an appreciation for music, an understanding of rhythm, and an outlet for creative expression.
Giving young children opportunities for movement is so important, both for their gross motor development and for giving them a daily outlet for their boundless energy. Children who spend plenty of time running around generally sleep better and are often better able to concentrate on quieter activities like reading.
Encouraging plenty of unstructured time outside is the best way to ensure your child gets enough daily movement. These toys though can help your child develop muscle coordination and strength, while also providing plenty of fun.
10. Balance bike
11. Pedal bike
Puzzles are wonderful toys for helping children develop spatial understanding, problem-solving skills, resilience and new vocabulary. Bonus, they also provide a quiet activity that can engage even young children for an extended period of time!
15. Peg puzzles
17. Layered puzzles
Games encourage your child to develop social skills such as taking turns and winning and losing gracefully.
Many games for young children also have educational benefits such as building memory or practicing counting.
18. Memory game
Taking the plunge and reducing your children's toy collection can be scary. If you're uncertain whether your child will miss a certain toy, try putting it away in a closet for a month to see if they notice. Take some time to observe your child with their reduced toy collection and notice how their play changes.
Once you commit to fewer toys, you'll find you can truly be intentional with what you provide your child and can also choose higher quality toys when you're only purchasing a few. There will also be far fewer little objects strewn around the house to trip over, which is a huge bonus!
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For so many parents, finding and funding childcare is a constant struggle. How would your life change if you didn't have to worry about finding and paying for quality childcare? Would you go back to work? Work more hours? Or just take the four figures you'd save each month and pay off your student loans faster?
These hypothetical scenarios have been playing in the minds of many American parents this week as presidential hopeful Senator Elizabeth Warren unveiled her plan for free or affordable "high-quality child care and early education for every child in America."
Universal childcare will be a cornerstone of Warren's campaign for 2020. It's a lofty goal, and one many parents can get behind, but is it doable?
Supporters note it's been done in other countries for decades. In Finland, for example, every child has had access to free universal day care since the early 1990s. Sweden, too, has been building its universal childcare system for decades.
Critics of Warren's plan worry about the price tag and potential for ballooning bureaucracy, and some are concerned that subsidizing childcare could actually make it more expensive for those who have a government-funded spot, as it could result in fewer private childcare providers.
But subsidized childcare had lowered prices in other places. In Sweden, parents pay less than $140 USD to send children to preschool. In Finland, the cost per child varies by municipality, household income and family size. A parent on the lower end of the income spectrum might pay as little as the equivalent of $30 USD, and the maximum fee is about $330 a month.
But Finland's population is on par with Minnesota's. Sweden is comparable to Michigan.
So could the Nordic model scale to serve the hundreds of millions of families in America?
As Eeva Penttila, speaking as the head of international relations for Helsinki, Finland's education department once told The Globe and Mail, "you can't take one element out and transfer it to your own country. Education is the result of culture, history and the society of a nation."
Right now America spends less on early childhood education than most other developed countries (only Turkey, Latvia, and Croatia spend less), but that wasn't always the case. This nation does have a history of investing in childcare, if we look back far enough.
Back in World War II, when women needed to step into the workforce as men fought overseas, America invested in a network of childcare to the tune of $1 billion (adjusted to today's money) and served hundreds of thousands of families in almost every state through center-based care. Parents paid between $0.50 and $0.75 per child per day (the equivalent of about $10 in today's money).
So America does have a historical and cultural precedent, not to mention a current model of universal preschool that is working, right now, in the nation's capital. In D.C. In Washington, D.C., 90% of 4-year-olds attend a full-day preschool program for free, according to the Center for American Progress. Seventy percent of 3-year-old are going too, and the program has increased the city's maternal workforce participation rate by more than 10%.
It won't happen overnight
While some American parents might be daydreaming of a life without a four-figure day care bill in 2020, the road to true universal childcare for all children in America would be a long one. Peter Moss, a researcher at the University of London's Institute of Education, previously told The Globe and Mail it took Sweden "many years to get it right."
Indeed, the 1990s saw long wait lists at Swedish day cares, but the growing pains of the '90s paved the way for the enviable system Swedes enjoy today.
According to Moss, governments in other countries look at the Nordic model and "tend to say, 'We can't do that.' But what they really mean is 'We can't suddenly do that.' In other countries, they just don't get to grips with what needs doing and actually plot a course."
Maybe America's starting point is found in its history books, or in the modern day preschools of the nation's capital, or in the conversations happening between now and 2020. It doesn't have to be Warren's plan, but America does need a plan for safer, more affordable childcare.
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It's so unfortunate that in the working world there are still those who believe mothers are more distracted and less productive than people without children.
Research proves that just isn't true—working moms are actually more engaged than working dads and fathers and equally committed—and plenty of working mothers will say that parenthood has actually made them more productive.
Ayesha Curry counts herself among those moms who become more efficient at work after becoming parents. The entrepreneurial mom of three seems unstoppable when it comes to expanding her career, which she launched as a lifestyle blog back when the oldest of her three children was still a baby.
"You don't realize how much you can get done in a day until you become a parent and you're like, 'what was I doing with my time before'?" she recently old Cheddar's Nora Ali.
Now less than seven years later she's built her own empire as a mom, not in spite of being one.
Now a New York Times best-selling cookbook author and restaurateur, Curry has also got her own brand, Homemade, and you can find her products bearing her name in places like Target and JC Penny. She's been promoting a partnership with GoDaddy and she's an ambassador for the Honest Company, too.
Curry says motherhood taught her how to multitask and manage her time.
"I have three children, so I've had to grow four invisible arms," she explains. "I've definitely learned efficiency through being a parent. It's helped me in my business tenfold."
As a celebrity, Curry's life experience is kind of unique, but her experience of becoming better at work because of motherhood isn't, according to experts.
Career coach Eileen Chadnick previously told Motherly that motherhood is an asset in the workplace, in part because it trains women to be both empathetic and assertive at the same time, a combo that makes for great leaders. "There are incredibly nice, compassionate women who are very strong and know how to take a stand," Chadmick said. "And they're trusted and admired by others even if they need to say 'no' to their employees."
That's something Curry agrees with. Because it's her name on that frying pan, cookbook or bedspread, she doesn't shy away from saying 'no' when she doesn't like something. "I'm really good about being forceful and putting my foot down," she explains.
It's easier to put your foot down when you've already grown four invisible arms. That's the balancing act of motherhood, and it's what makes this mama so good at business.
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It may seem like there are more recalls than ever these days, but that's actually a good thing for parents. It means fewer potentially dangerous products are making it to our dinner tables and medicine cabinets.
According to food safety experts, the spike in recall notices for everything from broccoli to baby toys in recent years suggests companies are doing a better job of self-reporting, and we're actually safer than we were in the days when recalls were rare.
"It reflects a food industry that takes contamination and foodborne illnesses seriously. Increasingly companies are willing to recall their products rather than expose customers to potential harm," Dr. William Hallman, professor and chair of Rutgers Department of Human Ecology, said in an interview with Food Drive."So more companies are taking a cautionary approach."
Here are the recalls parents need to know about this month:
Dollar General Baby Gripe Water
The FDA issued a recall notice for "DC Baby Gripe Water herbal supplement with organic ginger and fennel extracts" after the company received one report of a one-week old baby who had difficulty swallowing the product, and there were three other complaints "attributed to the undissolved citrus flavonoid."
The FDA says "the product should not be considered hazardous but could result in difficulty when swallowing the product for sensitive individuals."
Basically, it's not harmful if swallowed but the undissolved flavonoid makes it a choking hazard.
The gripe water was sold at Dollar General stores in four ounce bottles with the UPC code 8 5495400246 3.
Nature's Path Envirokidz gluten free cereals
If you've got a kiddo with celiac disease you're probably familiar with the EnviroKidz kine of gluten free cereals sold at Trader Joe's and other grocery stores. Unfortunately, Nature's Path, the maker of the cereals, is recalling more than 400,000 boxes of Envirokidz cereals in the U.S. and Canada due to potential gluten contamination.
Choco Chimp, Gorilla Munch and Jungle Munch are all impacted. The best before dates are: 08/01/2019, 08/24/2019, 08/27/2019, and 09/21/2019. The UPC codes are: 0 58449 86002 0, 0 5844987023 4, 0 5844987027 2, 0 5844987024 1 and 0 5844987028 9.
If you can handle gluten they are safe, but Nature's Path says "people who have a wheat allergy, celiac disease or sensitivity to gluten and wheat should not consume the cereals."