5 Extreme Baby Skills

5 ways to take your baby's skills to the next level.

5 Extreme Baby Skills

Every so often, we hear the story of a baby (genius?) who’s potty-trained at 9 months or knows more sign language than any adult we know. The truth is, with a little bit -- or sometimes a lot -- of work, most babies can learn to do some pretty spectacular things at a young age. Here's 5 few ways to get your baby on the fast track, if you're feeling up to the task.


What it is: Say no to diapers with this potty practice that involves teaching baby to communicate about her elimination needs. Parents get in tune with baby’s bathroom patterns, and quickly respond by holding her over a toilet or sink to get the job done. Advocates point out that elimination communication is not potty training, but rather, a method of better understanding your baby’s needs.


Benefits for you and/or baby: You’ll save tons on diapers (and save the planet a little too). Plus when all of your friends are potty training in two years, you’ll be sitting back and relaxing, dry floor and all.

Get ready for these challenges: Expect accidents - there will inevitably be missed cues or slow response times. For city dwellers, there may be some awkward public exposure since bathrooms are not always at the ready.

Difficulty rating (on a scale of 1 to 10): 8

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What it is: We know: sometimes baby food looks as appetizing as cat food. So why not hand over whatever you’re eating? Baby Led Weaning means letting your child move from breast milk or formula right into big people food, at around 6 months.

Benefits for you and/or baby: Skip the annoying -- and often unhealthy -- purees, and jump right into wholesome family food.

Get ready for these challenges: Many mamas that try Baby Led Weaning say gagging is a natural reflex...but it can still be terrifying. If you’ve got a caregiver, you may be out of luck -- try telling your nanny that baby can nosh on a big broccoli stalk and let us know what she says.

Difficulty rating (on a scale of 1 to 10): 2 for the actual skillset of handing your baby food as is; 10 for getting through the fear factor.

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What it is: Before we had babies, we hoped we’d have a “Look Who’s Talking” type -- you know, the one who could speak full sentences by 4 months. But in case you don’t get one (we didn’t), you can still find ways to get your little one to communicate, like sign language. As early as 6 months, you can teach baby hand gestures to tell you he’s hungry, wants more, is all done, or wants to watch another episode of Girls. Just kidding on that last one.

Benefits for you and/or baby: You and babe will both be less frustrated when there’s more to say than just goo-goo ga-ga. Many believe there’s also cognitive benefits like earlier speech.

Get ready for these challenges: Well first, assuming you don’t already know it, you have to learn some sign language. Also, consistency is helpful; if you’re a working mom, you’ll need to get your caregiver on board.

Difficulty rating (on a scale of 1 to 10): 7

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What it is: If you haven’t already heard, you can get your baby on the nightlife circuit early with Baby DJ school. Seriously, we were pretty skeptical too, but at the crux of it, the class is all about exposing your little one to new interesting sounds, textures and movements -- like any other music class.

Benefits for you and/or baby: Not only does it help develop motor skills, but the class is an early intro to technology, which -- like it or not -- is the way of their life. Also, the music is way more fun to listen to than the usual kiddie fare.

Get ready for these challenges: People are going to totally roll their eyes when you tell them you signed up.

Difficulty rating (on a scale of 1 to 10): 5. Unless you're also a DJ, this is not something you can teach at home. Thankfully, there's now several Baby DJ locations around the city.

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What it is: If you’ve ever been in labor, you know the term “positive energy” is no joke. So we take it pretty seriously when someone says that Reiki can help us to balance and uplift baby, while addressing discomforts like teething and gas.

Benefits for you and/or baby: Reiki is not only safe for babies, pregnant women and according to our friends at Purple Reiki, even plants (!). It is even used in some hospitals around the country to complement traditional Western therapies. Reiki can help restore energy and calm nerves for mama, while easing and relaxing baby.

Get ready for these challenges: "You must be open and willing to receive it."

Difficulty rating (on a scale of 1 to 10): 3. You can't do it at home, and it's not free.

More info: Shanti Baby Yoga

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I felt lost as a new mother, but babywearing helped me find myself again

I wish someone had told me before how special wearing your baby can be, even when you have no idea how to do it.

My first baby and I were alone in our Brooklyn apartment during a particularly cold spring with yet another day of no plans. My husband was back at work after a mere three weeks of parental leave (what a joke!) and all my friends were busy with their childless lives—which kept them too busy to stop by or check in (making me, at times, feel jealous).

It was another day in which I would wait for baby to fall asleep for nap number one so I could shower and get ready to attempt to get out of the house together to do something, anything really, so I wouldn't feel the walls of the apartment close in on me by the time the second nap rolled around. I would pack all the diapers and toys and pacifiers and pump and bottles into a ginormous stroller that was already too heavy to push without a baby in it .

Then I would spend so much time figuring out where we could go with said stroller, because I wanted to avoid places with steps or narrow doors (I couldn't lift the stroller by myself and I was too embarrassed to ask strangers for help—also hi, New Yorkers, please help new moms when you see them huffing and puffing up the subway stairs, okay?). Then I would obsess about the weather, was it too cold to bring the baby out? And by the time I thought I had our adventure planned, the baby would wake up, I would still be in my PJs and it was time to pump yet again.

Slowly, but surely, and mostly thanks to sleep deprivation and isolation, I began to detest this whole new mom life. I've always been a social butterfly. I moved to New York because I craved that non-stop energy the city has and in the years before having my baby I amassed new friends I made through my daily adventures. I would never stop. I would walk everywhere just to take in the scenery and was always on the move.

Now I had this ball and chain attached to me, I thought, that didn't even allow me to make it out of the door to walk the dog. This sucks, I would think regularly, followed by maybe I'm not meant to be a mom after all.

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Sorry, you can’t meet our baby yet

Thank you for understanding. ❤️

In just over three weeks, we will become parents. From then on, our hearts will live outside of our bodies. We will finally understand what everyone tells you about bringing a child into the world.

Lately, the range of emotions and hormones has left me feeling nothing short of my new favorite mom word, "hormotional." I'm sure that's normal though, and something most people start to feel as everything suddenly becomes real.

Our bags are mostly packed, diaper bag ready, and birth plan in place. Now it's essentially a waiting game. We're finishing up our online childbirth classes which I must say are quite informational and sometimes entertaining. But in between the waiting and the classes, we've had to think about how we're going to handle life after baby's birth.


I don't mean thinking and planning about the lack of sleep, feeding schedule, or just the overall changes a new baby is going to bring. I'm talking about how we're going to handle excited family members and friends who've waited just as long as we have to meet our child. That sentence sounds so bizarre, right? How we're going to handle family and friends? That sentence shouldn't even have to exist.

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Thinking they are is what's burning moms out.

A friend and I bump into each other at Target nearly every time we go. We don't pre-plan this; we must just be on the same paper towel use cycle or something. Really, I think there was a stretch where I saw her at Target five times in a row.

We've turned it into a bit of a running joke. "Yeah," I say sarcastically, "We needed paper towels so you know, I had to come to Target… for two hours of alone time."

She'll laugh and reply, "Oh yes, we were out of… um… paper clips. So here I am, shopping without the kids. Heaven!"

Now don't get me wrong. I adore my trips to Target (and based on the fullness of my cart when I leave, I am pretty sure Target adores my trips there, too).

But my little running joke with my friend is actually a big problem. Because why is the absence of paper towels the thing that prompts me to get a break? And why on earth is buying paper towels considered a break for moms?

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