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Spa Treatments That Are Safe During Pregnancy

If there was ever a time you needed an indulgent day at the spa, pregnancy is definitely it. Unfortunately, not all spa treatments are actually safe for pregnancy, whether it’s due to the product used during the treatment, the technique of the therapist, or even the positioning of your pregnant body.

To help you book the right appointment, we asked Gabrielle Ophals, Co-Founder of Haven Spa in NYC, to share which spa treatments are off-limits for your pregnant body...and how to make modifications to make some of them a little safer. *Note: Always defer to your obstetrician before engaging in any of these services.

Body Treatments

Why do it: Think of a body treatment as a facial for your whole body! In a nutshell: it includes exfoliation, a deep cleansing/detoxifying step, and a nourishing moisturizing finish. What it does: A body treatment will makes your skin look and feel great. It's smoother, softer and healthier because of added nutrients during the wrapping step.

Is it safe for pregnancy? Generally, no. Most body treatments are detoxifying in nature -- and you don't want that when you're growing another human inside you. Even treatments that aren't detoxifying, like nut or sugar scrubs followed by a simple body moisturizer, aren’t recommended during pregnancy (and we don't perform them at our spa) because you can be really slippery after. The idea of sliding off the table is too terrifying!


Why do it: A massage is a relaxing and refreshing way to escape the stresses of life, both mental and physical.

Is it safe for pregnancy? Yes, but it's not recommended during the first trimester. The first trimester is when the fetus is at its most vulnerable. Massage can be very stimulating to the adrenal system, and it can (but rarely) causes muscle spasms. Almost no massage therapist will perform a massage during this time. Of course, there are plenty of times when you don't know you're pregnant; what happens then? Honestly, there has never been a recorded incident of a massage causing a problem with a pregnancy. Still, it’s a precaution that most reputable spas follow.


Why do it: The ultimate in #selfcare, facials can do wonders for your skin, from cleansing skin to promoting collagen production to exfoliating dead skin cells.

Is it safe for pregnancy? Most facials are totally safe for pregnancy unless it includes a peel, which can have chemicals -- like salicylic acid -- that can be harmful to your fetus. Make sure you find out about all the possible products that may be used in a facial before closing your eyes.

Manicures & Pedicures

Why do it: Admit it: getting your nails or toes done makes us look and feel pretty. When you're bloated or uncomfortable, which can happen often during pregnancy, these services can really lift your spirits. They're short and usually an inexpensive option.

Is it safe for pregnancy? We do not recommend acrylics or powder dips as they're highly toxic. It's been proven that nail technicians who perform these services on a regular basis and do not wear protective breathing gear (N95 particle masks, not the kind of mask you see at a doctor's office) have a higher incidence of lung problems. While your exposure is far less than a technician's, why take the risk?

Hair Treatments

Why do it: We know some women swear pregnancy makes your hair look fabulous, but most moms-to-be could use a little hair care pick-me-up.

Is it safe for pregnancy? When it comes to hair treatments, stick with the same strategy as you would for a mani/pedi: if it’s a simple, nontoxic treatment (think: blow dry or cut), then go for it! But stay away from anything toxic, such as some hair coloring and all Keratin straightening treatments.

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Baby stuff comes in such cute prints these days. Gone are the days when everything was pink and blue and covered in ducks or teddy bears. Today's baby gear features stylish prints that appeal to mom.

That's why it's totally understandable how a mama could mistake a car seat cover for a cute midi skirt. It happened to Lori Farrell, and when she shared her mishap on Facebook she went viral before she was even home from work. Fellow moms can totally see the humor in Farrell's mishap, and thankfully, so can she.

As for how a car seat cover could be mistaken for a skirt—it's pretty simple, Farrell tells Motherly.

"A friend of mine had given me a huge lot of baby stuff, from clothes to baby carriers to a rocker and blankets and when I pulled it out I was not sure what it was," she explains. "I debated it but washed it anyway then decided because of the way it pulled on the side it must be a maternity skirt."

Farrell still wasn't 100% sure if she was right by the time she headed out the door to work, but she rocked the ambiguous attire anyway.

"When I got to work I googled the brand and realized not only do they not sell clothing but it was a car seat cover."

The brand, Itzy Ritzy, finds the whole thing pretty funny too, sharing Farell's viral moment to its official Instagram.

It may be a car seat cover, but that print looks really good on this mama.

And if you want to copy Farell's style, the Itzy Ritzy 4-in-1 Nursing Cover, Car Seat Cover, Shopping Cart Cover and Infinity Scarf (and skirt!) is available on Amazon for $24.94.

Motherly is your daily #momlife manual; we are here to help you easily find the best, most beautiful products for your life that actually work. We share what we love—and we may receive a commission if you choose to buy.You've got this.

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Daycare for infants is expensive across the country, and California has one of the worst states for parents seeking care for a baby. Putting an infant in daycare in California costs $2,914 more than in-state tuition for four years of college, according to the Economic Policy Institute.

Paying north of $1,000 for daycare each month is an incredible burden, especially on single-parent families. The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services defines affordable childcare as costing no more than 10% of a family's income—by that definition, less than 29% of families in California can afford infant care. Some single parents spend half their income on day care. It is an incredible burden on working parents.

But that burden may soon get lighter. CBS Sacramento reports California may put between $25 and $35 million into child care programs to make day care more affordable for parents with kids under 3 years old.

Assembly Bill 452, introduced this week, could see $10 million dollars funneled into Early Head Start (which currently gets no money from the state but does get federal funding) and tens of millions more would be spent on childcare for kids under three.

The bill seeks to rectify a broken childcare system. Right now, only about 14% of eligible infants and toddlers are enrolled in subsidized programs in California, and in 2017, only 7% of eligible children younger than three years of age accessed Early Head Start.

An influx of between $25 to $35 million dollars could see more spaces open up for kids under three, as Bill 452, if passed, would see the creation of "grants to develop childcare facilities that serve children from birth to three years of age."

This piece of proposed legislation comes weeks after California's governor announced an ambitious plan for paid parental leave, and as another bill, AB 123, seeks to strengthen the state's pre-kindergarten program.

Right now, it is difficult for some working parents to make a life in California, but by investing in families, the state's lawmakers could change that and change California's future for the better.

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When a mama gets married, in most cases she wants her children to be part of her big day. Photographers are used to hearing bride-to-be moms request lots of pictures of their big day, but when wedding photographer Laura Schaefer of Fire and Gold Photography heard her client Dalton Mort planned to wear her 2-year-old daughter Ellora instead of a veil, she was thrilled.

A fellow mama who understands the benefits of baby-wearing, Schaefer was keen to capture the photos Mort requested. "When I asked Dalton about what some of her 'must get' shots would be for her wedding, she specifically asked for ones of her wearing Ellie, kneeling and praying in the church before the tabernacle," Schaefer tells Motherly.

She got those shots and so many more, and now Mort's toddler-wearing wedding day pics are going viral.

"Dalton wore Ellie down the aisle and nursed her to sleep during the readings," Schaefer wrote on her blog, explaining that Ellie then slept through the whole wedding mass.

"As a fellow mother of an active toddler, this is a HUGE win! Dalton told me after that she was SO grateful that Ellie slept the whole time because she was able to focus and really pray through the Mass," Schaefer explains.

Dalton was able to concentrate on her wedding day because she made her baby girl a part of it (and that obviously tired Ellie right out).

Ellie was part of the commitment and family Dalton if forging with her husband, Jimmy Joe. "There is no better behaved toddler than a sleeping toddler, and she was still involved, even though I ended up unwrapping her to nurse her. I held her in my arms while my husband and I said our vows. It was really special for us," Dalton told POPSUGAR.

This is a wedding trend we are totally here for!

Congrats to Dalton and Jimmy Joe (and to Ellie)! 🎉

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The internet is freaking out about how Peppa Pig is changing the way toddlers speak, but parents don't need to be too worried.

As Romper first reported, plenty of American parents have noticed that preschoolers are picking up a bit of a British accent thanks to Peppa. Romper's Janet Manley calls it "the Peppa effect," noting that her daughter started calling her "Mummy" after an in-flight Peppa marathon.

Plenty of other parents report sharing Manley's experience, but the British accent is not likely to stick, experts say.

Toronto-based speech and language pathologist Melissa James says this isn't a new thing—kids have always been testing out the accents they hear on TV and in the real world, long before Peppa oinked her way into our Netflix queues.

"Kids have this amazing ability to pick up language," James told Global News. "Their brains are ripe for the learning of language and it's a special window of opportunity that adults don't possess."

Global News reports that back in the day there were concerns about Dora The Explorer potentially teaching kids Spanish words before the kids had learned the English counterparts, and over in the U.K., parents have noticed British babies picking up American accents from TV, too.

But it's not a bad thing, James explains. When an American adult hears "Mummy" their brain translates it to "Mommy," but little kids don't yet make as concrete a connection. "When a child, two, three or four, is watching a show with a British accent and hears [words] for the first time, they are mapping out the speech and sound for that word in the British way."

So if your baby is oinking at you, calling you "Mummy" or testing out a new pronunciation of "toh-mah-toe," know that this is totally natural, and they're not going to end up with a life-long British pig accent.

As Dr, Susannah Levi, associate professor of communicative sciences and disorders at New York University, tells The Guardian, "it's really unlikely that they'd be acquiring an entire second dialect from just watching a TV show."

It sure is cute though.

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