What's in your Toddler's Backpack?

3 cool kids show off their daily necessities.

What's in your Toddler's Backpack?

We partnered with Skip Hop on this post to uncover the mysteries of the toddler backpack.

The purchase of a toddler backpack is a rite of motherhood passage. After spending at least a year -- and possibly up to two or three -- perfecting your own diaper bag haul, you are turning the reigns over, and placing the responsibility of packing the day’s “necessities” in your (most likely insane) toddler’s hands.

The truth is that you’ll still be saddled with your own diaper bag. We have yet to meet a 2-year-old that thinks it’s critical to pack six extra diapers, organic hand sanitizer and SPF 1 million sunscreen in her backpack, you know, just in case. But giving your toddler a backpack means empowering her to decide what will make her happy that day, whether it’s her favorite book, 25 Magiclip princesses, or your TV remote that’s been missing for a week. It means recognizing her personal style -- maybe she’s a minimalist who can calmly hit the road with a single toy car, or an anxious hoarder who fills her backpack to the brim with the entire contents of her toy bin.


And of course, it means acknowledging she’s growing up… because this first adorable toddler backpack leads to a bigger ones. And before you know it, you’ll wonder what ever happened to that adorable little kid of yours who stole your TV remote.

But not just yet! For now, take it all in and enjoy 3 adorable NYC kids showing off what’s inside their toddler backpacks. (Can’t wait to hear what’s inside yours! Tell us in the comments below.)

Sloan, 2 years old

Greenpoint, Brooklyn

What can’t she leave home without packing up?

A pair of green shamrock sunglasses, channeling her inner Elton John. No matter how many pairs of sunglasses we've bought as alternatives, she demands to wear her "shamrocks," rain or shine.

What’s the most surprising thing you’ve ever found in her backpack?

Plastic pizza and cupcakes (the breakfast of champions). Did we mention it's plastic and inedible? Sloan's obsessed with cooking 5-star meals in her Leapfrog Number Lovin' Oven though.

Arthur, 21 months

Greenpoint, Brooklyn

What can’t he leave home without packing up?

It constantly changes, but he currently can't leave the house without an Apple remote control. It's old but still works, and he calls it "dance." We use it to put on some music when he requests to dance, usually after dinner. If he realizes it's not in his backpack, he says "dance" a couple of times, spins in frustration until he falls on his bum, and starts whining. The whining usually goes on for a while, but he eventually demands that I pick him up and points to my breasts so that I nurse him.

What’s the most surprising thing you’ve ever found in his backpack?

I once found the end piece of a baguette, munched on and still wet with saliva -- a true French baby.

Dillon, 2 years old

Williamsburg, Brooklyn

What can’t she leave home without packing up?

Dillon can’t pass a playground without jumping in the water sprinklers and she knows her bathing suit is always on standby in her backpack. If she goes to do a quick change and a bathing suit isn’t in there then it becomes a very soggy trip home!

What’s the most surprising thing you’ve ever found in her backpack?

I was pleasantly surprised to find love notes to Dillon that her sister, Daisy, had secretly stuffed in her backpack. I’ll save them for when I need to remind them how much they care about each other!

Photography by Stylish & Hip Kids.

Toddler backpack reveals by 485 Creative.

After 4 kids, this is still the best baby gear item I’ve ever purchased

I wouldn't be swooning over the BABYBJÖRN bouncer after eight years and four kids if it didn't work.

I have four kids 8 and under, so you might expect that my house is teeming with baby gear and kid toys.

But it turns out that for me, the more kids I have, the more I simplify our stuff. At this point, I'm down to the absolute essentials, the gear that I can't live without and the toys my kids actually play with. And so when a mama-to-be asks me what things are worth registering for, there are only a few must-haves on my list.

The BABYBJÖRN bouncer seat is on the top of my list—totally worth it and an absolute must-have for any new mama.

In fact, since I first splurged on my first BABYBJÖRN bouncer eight years ago (it definitely felt like a splurge at the time, but the five star reviews were really compelling), the bouncer seat has become the most-used product in our house for baby's first year.

We've actually invested in a second one so that we didn't have to keep moving ours from the bedroom to the living room when we change locations.

BABYBJÖRN bouncer bliss

baby bjorn bouncer

The utility of the seat might seem counterintuitive—it has no mechanical parts, so your baby is instead gently bounced by her own movements. In a world where many baby products are touted for their ability to mechanically rock baby to sleep, I get that many moms might not find the "no-motion" bouncer that compelling. But it turns out that the seat is quite reactive to baby's little kicks, and it has helped my kids to learn how to self-soothe.


Lightweight + compact:

The BABYBJÖRN bouncer is super lightweight, and it also folds flat in a second. Because of those features, we've frequently stored it under the couch, in a suitcase or in the back of the car. It folds completely flat, which I love.

Entertainment zone:

Is the toy bar worth it? The toy bar is totally worth it. Not only is the toy bar adorable, but it's one of the first toys that my babies actually play with once they discover the world beyond my boobs. The toys spin and are close to eye level so they have frequently kept my baby entertained while I cook or take a quick shower.

Great style:

This is not a small detail to me–the BABYBJÖRN bouncer is seriously stylish. I am done with baby gear and toys that make my house look like a theme park. The elegant European design honestly just looks good in my living room and I appreciate that parents can enjoy it as much as baby.

It's adjustable:

With three height settings that let you prop baby up to be entertained, or lay back to rest, we get years of use. And the bouncer can actually be adjusted for bigger kids and used from newborn to toddler age. It's that good.

It just works:

I wouldn't be swooning over the BABYBJÖRN bouncer after eight years and four kids if it didn't work. But I have used the seat as a safe space to put baby while I've worked (I once rocked my baby in it with my foot while I reported on a breaking news story for the Washington Post), and as a cozy spot for my second child to lay while his big brother played nearby. It's held up for almost a decade with almost-constant use.

So for me, looking back on what I thought was a splurge eight years ago, was actually one of the best investments in baby gear I ever made.

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Time-saving formula tips our editors swear by

Less time making bottles, more time snuggling.

As a new parent, it can feel like feeding your baby is a full-time job—with a very demanding nightshift. Add in the additional steps it takes to prepare a bottle of formula and, well… we don't blame you if you're eager to save some time when you can. After all, that means more time for snuggling your baby or practicing your own well-deserved self-care.

Here's the upside: Many, many formula-feeding mamas before you have experienced the same thing, and they've developed some excellent tricks that can help you mix up a bottle in record time. Here are the best time-saving formula tips from editors here at Motherly.

1. Use room temperature water

The top suggestion that came up time and time again was to introduce bottles with room temperature water from the beginning. That way, you can make a bottle whenever you need it without worrying about warming up water—which is a total lifesaver when you have to make a bottle on the go or in the middle of the night.

2. Buy online to save shopping time

You'll need a lot of formula throughout the first year and beyond—so finding a brand like Comforts, which offers high-quality infant formula at lower prices, will help you save a substantial amount of money. Not to mention, you can order online or find the formula on shelves during your standard shopping trip—and that'll save you so much time and effort as well.

3. Pre-measure nighttime bottles

The middle of the night is the last time you'll want to spend precious minutes mixing up a bottle. Instead, our editors suggest measuring out the correct amount of powder formula into a bottle and putting the necessary portion of water on your bedside table. That way, all you have to do is roll over and combine the water and formula in the bottle before feeding your baby. Sounds so much better than hiking all the way to the kitchen and back at 3 am, right?

4. Divide serving sizes for outings

Before leaving the house with your baby, divvy up any portions of formula and water that you may need during your outing. Then, when your baby is hungry, just combine the pre-measured water and powder serving in the bottle. Our editors confirm this is much easier than trying to portion out the right amount of water or formula while riding in the car.

5. Memorize the mental math

Soon enough, you'll be able to prepare a bottle in your sleep. But, especially in the beginning or when increasing your baby's serving, the mental math can take a bit of time. If #mombrain makes it tough to commit the measurements to memory, write up a cheat sheet for yourself or anyone else who will prepare your baby's bottle.

6. Warm up chilled formula with water

If you're the savvy kind of mom who prepares and refrigerates bottles for the day in advance, you'll probably want to bring it up to room temperature before serving. Rather than purchase a bottle warmer, our editors say the old-fashioned method works incredibly well: Just plunge the sealed bottle in a bowl of warm water for a few minutes and—voila!—it's ready to serve.

Another great tip? Shop the Comforts line on to find premium baby products for a fraction of competitors' prices. Or, follow @comfortsforbaby for more information!

This article was sponsored by The Kroger Co. Thank you for supporting the brands that support Motherly and mamas.

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A fascinating study explains why.

When your baby is crying, it feels nearly instinctual to stand up to rock, sway and soothe them. That's because standing up to calm babies is instinctual—driven by centuries of positive feedback from calmed babies, researchers have found.

"Infants under 6 months of age carried by a walking mother immediately stopped voluntary movement and crying and exhibited a rapid heart rate decrease, compared with holding by a sitting mother," say authors of a 2013 study published in Current Biology.

Even more striking: This coordinated set of actions—the mother standing and the baby calming—is observed in other mammal species, too. Using pharmacologic and genetic interventions with mice, the authors say, "We identified strikingly similar responses in mouse pups as defined by immobility and diminished ultrasonic vocalizations and heart rate."

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