Love your pregnant body: 5 ways to feel gorgeous, confident + sexy

Are you excited about the idea of growing your family, but not so excited about your growing and changing body? 

Love your pregnant body: 5 ways to feel gorgeous, confident + sexy

It’s natural to feel a little apprehensive about the massive changes that are about to happen, not only in your day-to-day routine but also to your body.

However, any negative thoughts or frustrations that you may have about your changing body shouldn’t be allowed to take away from your enjoyment during this incredible time in your life.

So buckle up your maternity pants and get ready to enjoy the ride! ?

Here are 5 simple steps to make sure that you feel confident, sexy + feminine throughout your pregnancy.

1. Shift your mindset.

Recognize and appreciate the magnitude of this change.

It’s not just your body that’s going through a major change during this time, but your entire life, too.


Nobody would ever tell you to get your pre-baby life back, so I want you to also banish the concept of getting your “pre-baby body” back.

Your body, like your life, may forever be different. But that doesn’t mean that your post-baby body and life can’t be way better than your pre-baby body and life.

2. Connect with your body.

There is no better way to feel good about and connect with your body than by moving it through exercise or dance. Take some time for yourself and try a prenatal yoga class or go out dancing with girlfriends. Rock that bump, mama!

It’s also important to take time to pamper yourself. Is there any better way than wearing a face mask while soaking in the tub surrounded by candles? Well, other than a prenatal massage, of course.

(#TreatYoSelf to both, perhaps?)

In other words, in the midst of all these changes, it’s crucial not to forget about taking time to connect with you.

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3. Ensure your small daily tasks evoke positive feelings.

Skip the scale and clean out your closet so that all you can see are clothes that fit you and that you feel incredible in. And then make time for tip #2 (connecting with your body) daily.

Be kind to yourself and remind yourself you’re beautiful. Maybe that’s by way of daily affirmations, taking time to get yourself ready in the morning or wearing a new maternity nightgown so you wake up in something fabulous. No matter how you choose to do it, be intentional about treating yourself well—now and always.

The little things we do every morning are what set our attitude for the day, so make sure you start on a high note.

4. Build a strong support foundation.

It really does take a village to raise a child, so make sure you’re getting and keeping the support that you need around you. Reach out to any friends who are pregnant or who have had babies recently and chat about what’s to come.

Also, don’t forget to ask for help often—from your partner, your family, your doctor, a nutritionist or a therapist! Nobody expects you to do it all alone, so don’t make yourself feel like you have to.

People are almost always happy to have a specific way to help you.

5. Tune in + listen.

Always listen to what your own body is telling you, not to what others are telling you.

You are the only person who truly knows what is best for you.

People will be giving you advice of all sorts throughout this time in your life, but the most important thing is to listen to your own intuition.

Kimberly Hoye is a mama and health coach at Health and Happiness Connection.

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They transition seamlessly for indoor play.

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From sunny backyard afternoons to rainy mornings stuck inside, these toys are sure to keep little ones engaged and entertained.

Meadow ring toss game

Plan Toys meadow ring toss game

Besides offering a fantastic opportunity to hone focus, coordination, determination and taking turns, lawn games are just plain fun. Set them up close together for the littles and spread them out when Mom and Dad get in on the action. With their low profile and rope rings, they're great for indoors as well.


Balance board

Plan Toys balance board

Balance boards are a fabulous way to get the wiggles out. This one comes with a rope attachment, making it suitable for even the youngest wigglers. From practicing their balance and building core strength to working on skills that translate to skateboarding and snowboarding, it's a year-round physical activity that's easy to bring inside and use between Zoom classes, too!


Detective set

Plan Toys detective setDetective Set

This set has everything your little detective needs to solve whatever mystery they might encounter: an eye glasses, walkie-talkie, camera, a red lens, a periscope and a bag. Neighborhood watch? Watch out.


Wooden doll stroller

Janod wooden doll strollerWooden Doll Stroller

Take their charges on a stroll around the block with this classic doll stroller. With the same versatility they're used to in their own ride, this heirloom quality carriage allows their doll or stuffy to face them or face the world.


Sand play set

Plan Toys sand set

Whether you're hitting the beach or the backyard sandbox, this adorable wooden sand set is ready for action. Each scoop has an embossed pattern that's perfect for sand stamping. They're also totally suitable for water play in the wild or the bathtub.


Water play set

Plan Toys water play set

Filled with sand or water, this tabletop sized activity set keeps little ones busy, quiet and happy. (A mama's ideal trifecta 😉). It's big enough to satisfy their play needs but not so big it's going to flood your floors if you bring the fun inside on a rainy day.


Mini golf set

Plan Toys mini golf set

Fore! This mini golf set is lawn and living room ready. Set up a backyard competition or incorporate into homeschooling brain breaks that shift focus and build concentration.


Vintage scooter balance bike

Janod retro scooter balance bike

Pedals are so 2010. Balance bikes are the way to go for learning to ride a bike while skipping the training wheels stage altogether. This impossibly cool retro scooter-style is built to cruise the neighborhood or open indoor space as they're learning.


Wooden rocking pegasus

plan toys wooden rocking pegasus

Your little will be ready to take flight on this fun pegasus. It gently rocks back and forth, but doesn't skimp on safety—its winged saddle, footrests and backrest ensure kids won't fall off whether they're rocking inside or outside.


Croquet set

Plan Toys croquet set

The cutest croquet set we've ever seen! With adorable animal face wooden balls and a canvas bag for easy clean up, it's also crafted to stick around awhile. Round after round, it's great for teaching kiddos math and problem-solving skills as well.


Wooden digital camera

fathers factory wooden digital camera

Kids get the chance to assemble the camera on their own then can adventure anywhere to capture the best moments. With two detachable magnetic lenses, four built-in filters and video recorder, your little photographer can tap into their creativity from summertime to the holidays.


Wooden bulldozer toy

plan toys wooden bulldozer toy

Whether they're digging up sand in the backyad or picking up toys inside, kids can get as creative as they want picking up and moving things around. Even better? Its wooden structure means it's not an eye sore to look at wherever your digger drops it.


Pull-along hippo

janod toys pull along hippo toy

There's just something so fun about a classic pull-along toy and we love that they seamlessly transition between indoor and outdoor play. Crafted from solid cherry and beechwood, it's tough enough to endure outdoor spaces your toddler takes it on.


Baby forest fox ride-on

janod toys baby fox ride on

Toddlers will love zooming around on this fox ride-on, and it's a great transition toy into traditional balance bikes. If you take it for a driveway adventure, simply use a damp cloth to wipe down the wheels before bringing back inside.


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