The best time to shower if you want to fall asleep faster

According to new research, treating bathing as a nighttime ritual can help exhausted moms get the quality sleep they need.

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If there's one thing you need to know about me, it's this: I live for a hot shower. It's easily the most relaxing thing I do all day. When I was preparing to welcome my twins, all I heard was how I would barely have time to shower. But I knew one thing: I was going to make time for those long, hot showers because for me, they're the ultimate form of self-care.

A lot of people shower in the morning, but according to new research, treating bathing as a nighttime ritual can help exhausted moms get the quality sleep they need. People often tell new moms they won't have time to shower, but maybe we should be making sure they can prioritize taking one.

Researchers at the University of Texas Cockrell School of Engineering say the key to a good night's sleep is bathing in water of about 104-109 degrees Fahrenheit about one to two hours before bedtime. The researchers considered data from over 5,000 sources before determining that doing this helps you fall asleep about 10 minutes faster and get a better night of sleep overall.

The study set out to examine how passive body heating from a water source affects sleep. They looked at four factors: How quickly a person transitions from fully awake to fully asleep, how long a person sleeps, the amount of time spent sleeping as compared to the amount of time spent in bed and the quality of sleep.

The idea that body temperature and sleep may be linked isn't new. Body temperature actually drops about an hour before sleep time, dropping even lower in the middle of sleep and rising before it's time to rise. Your body temperature also decreases a bit after a warm bath or shower and this helps your body's natural circadian rhythm signal that it's time for your brain to shut down.

Taking a hot bath or shower can help your body know that it is time to power down. If you couple your bathing ritual with with a screen-time curfew for yourself instead of mentally working through your to-do list when your head hits the pillow you'll be drifting off to sleep 10 minutes sooner.

If you've been having trouble sleeping, instead of scrolling on your phone in bed tonight consider shutting off your phone and having a hot shower or bath. We know that a bath time routine helps get our kids ready for sleep and it's true for mama, too.

Make your baths and showers true self-care moments with some of our favorite clean and natural products:

Esker restorative body wash

Esker restorative body wash

Like all of Esker's formulas, the restorative body wash is made from a blend of organic oils. Relaxing lavender water and chamomile water nourish and calm dry, agitated skin while the intoxicating sweet and spicy scent help assure as restful a night's sleep as possible.


Maude Dead Sea salt bath soak

Maude Dead Sea salt bath soak

Close the door and indulge in a nice relaxing soak, mama. Made with a luxe blend of coconut milk and Dead Sea salt, this natural soak from Maude is the perfect balance of moisturizing and detoxifying.


Hill House Home soap + water bath towel set

Hill House Home set of bath towels

Getting out of the shower is easier when there's a luxurious and soft towel waiting for you. This set from Hill House Home features de-bossed letters that read "SOAP" and "WATER," inspired by Cecil Beaton's famous quote, "What is elegance? Soap and water." So true.


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