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Pink shares the (very) real questions she asks herself about raising her kids

"I feel like I had it all figured out when she was younger," says Pink.

Pink shares the (very) real questions she asks herself about raising her kids

Pink has always been open about the challenges of motherhood, and for moms of more than one, reading her latest Instagram post might feel a bit like reading your own mind.


"I feel like I had it all figured out when she was younger. When it was just her. Now that there's two, and such different ages, I feel flustered so much of the time," she wrote on Instagram.

Mom to 6-year-old Willow and 1-year-old Jameson, Pink says she (like so many of us mamas) has more questions than answers in this stage of Willow's life. Things are still pretty simple with Jameson as Pink and her husband Carey Hart have been through the toddler phase once already, but as Willow grows, the parenting challenges are new and more complex and Pink admits she worries a lot.

"The older she gets the less clear I am on how to guide her. Do I take the raw honest tough way? Do I cuddle her and tell her to not to worry? Do I let her be sassy knowing I want her to be strong and need her to be strong to survive in this world? Of course, but how do you interject subtlety and kindness?"

Pink has previously said that while her own childhood was pretty free-range, she's been taking a more hands-on approach with her own kids, believing in letting them know that she's there for them while setting boundaries. "I always tell Willow, 'I'm going to teach you the rules so that you'll know how and when to break them,'" she told People.

Willow has rules, but she also has some freedom (obviously, she rides her bike in the house sometimes) and Pink is hoping that by grounding her kids in kindness, they'll make the right decisions when they are eventually out on their own.

According to Harvard researchers, modeling kindness is one of the most important ways parents can instill that value in their children, and it's pretty clear that Pink is doing that. Last year Pink found herself crying in a grocery store with a fellow mama who felt judged herself and was inspired by Pink's social media honesty.

In the tweet, Pink wrote, "A really sweet Mama came up 2 me tonight at the grocery store and told me some nice words about how she gets strength from my parenting cause I'm not afraid to mess up in public."

If a star taking the time to cry with a stranger in the grocery store isn't kind than I don't know what is. Pink continued: "It's so hard. Y'all. I wish us mamas could give ourselves and each other a break."

We do too. Raising two children of two different ages is so hard, and it's a challenge when your parenting problems move from the realm of nap schedules and pacifiers to the subtle art of teaching strength and empathy.

Parenting isn't easy, but Pink's posts prove that we all have questions, that none of us know exactly what we're doing at all times, and that when we're doubting ourselves, we mamas can and should turn to each other.

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There's a lot going on in the world right now, but one thing that's certain? You're still mama.

There's a lot going on in the world right now, but one thing that's certain? You're still mama. No matter what is going on at work, what decision you make about heading back to school, or how you're caring for your family right now, we know you're the best mama for your family.

So in case you need a little reminder of just how incredible you are, we love this sweet necklace from Tiny Tags. And other mamas do, too, because it's been one of our top sellers for weeks.

Whether you're coveting it for yourself or want to gift it to your favorite mama, it's one of those gifts that'll keep on giving years later. It's dainty enough to easily layer with just about anything you have in your jewelry collection, but is just as beautiful as a standalone piece to wear daily. And in these tough seasons, it's honestly a gentle, much-needed reminder that you were made for this. You can do hard things. You are doing the best you can even when it feels like you can't make one more decision.

Tiny Tags script 'mama' necklace

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The charm is 1/2" long and the chain is 16", falling just above most mama's collarbones. All Tiny Tags personalized jewelry is laser engraved by highly skilled artisans to make the most elegant pieces.

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And, don't worry, it's totally low-maintenance. Simply polish with a polishing cloth every now and then for extra shine. Now to decide: gold or silver?

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Kombucha making kit

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Laetitia lipstick

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This red lipstick is perfect for your makeup enthusiast bestie who is looking to spruce up her life in quarantine. Crafted in the United States, these bee and vegan-friendly and cruelty-free lipsticks are created to flatter all complexions. Cupid and Psyche Beauty makes finding the perfect red lip way too easy!

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Jigsaw puzzle

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Matilda's Bloombox

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If we have to be stuck inside, we might as well have some gorgeous florals to brighten up the space. Matilda's Bloombox locally sources blooms, delivers them to her door and provides simple tips on how to arrange it into a beautiful bouquet.

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'I Am Enough' bracelet

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Let this dainty bracelet serve as a constant reminder to your bestie that she is enough. She'll wear this on her wrist and read this daily oath to herself, "I Am Enough."

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Glow assorted teas

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This tea gift box set covers the entire spectrum of flavors from sweet to spicy. Individually packaged in beautiful tins, your gal pal will feel like a queen sipping her morning tea. Originally $40, this set is currently on sale for just $24. We'll take two, please.

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Find your voice journal

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Premium frother

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Bath soak infusion kit

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Superfood honey

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Two weeks. I cannot believe that it has been two weeks since my second son was brought into this world. Two weeks since my husband and I welcomed baby Simon, the final piece of our little family.

But, here is the whopper: It has been two weeks since I have been the mom of a toddler and a newborn. I am now responsible for taking care of two tiny humans.

It absolutely blows my mind how much my life has changed in the last two weeks. It's definitely not all rainbows and unicorns around here, but things are going pretty well. This is me being cautiously optimistic.

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