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Around the world, nations are looking to their leaders in this time of crisis and in many nations that means people are looking to women.

As CNN reports, the counties with the best responses to the coronavirus pandemic are led by women.

We can learn so much from these foreign leaders as we fight COVID-19 at home. Here's how these women are beating it:



Norwegian Prime Minister Erna Solberg's win: Daycares + preschools have reopened

On April 20, as parents in the United States and Canada were working from home while trying to keep their kids occupied, parents in Norway were dropping their kindergarteners off at school for the first time in weeks.

This came after Prime Minister Erna Solberg's announcement in early April, when she told her people "Norway has managed to get the virus under control."

On April 15 she addressed her nation's children: "Next week, preschool children will be able to go back to their daycare centres, and the week after that, schools will reopen for children in years 1 to 4. But you will find that things are slightly different, and there will be some new rules you have to follow. This is because we want to make sure it is completely safe for you."

She told the children (and the rest of the country) that the reopening of daycares and preschools was possible because "not as many people are becoming infected as they were earlier. This is because we have all been good at following the rules, but we cannot relax completely yet."

Because Norway's numbers have been falling since mid-March (thanks to those rules Solberg implemented), some elementary and high schools will reopen next week, and post-secondary institutions will resume classes the week after that.

Taiwan President Tsai Ing-wen's win: She started fighting the virus in December

Made in Taiwan masks are now arriving in the United States, the New York Times reports thanks to the nation that has only seen six deaths from COVID-19.

The remarkable fatality figure is due in large part to President Tsai Ing-wen who took early action against the novel coronavirus. "As early as late December Taiwanese health officials were boarding flights from Wuhan to check passengers for symptoms," The Economist reports.

Tsai's pandemic preparedness began long before the novel coronavirus was a threat. Back in 2016, when tasked with choosing a running mate she picked an epidemiologist hailed as a hero during the SARS pandemic. That man, Chen Chien-Jen is now her Vice President and a resource to her in an era when many politicians dismiss experts and shun science.

President Tsai Ing-wen was ready for the pandemic of 2020, and the low death toll in her country proves it.

Sint Maarten's Prime Minister Silveria Jacobs win: Effective communication

There are only 41,000 people in the Caribbean nation of Sint Maarten and Prime Minister Silveria Jacobs is not taking a chance on her population's health.

Earlier this month Jacobs went viral when her address to the residents of Sint Maarten blew up on Twitter. "Stop moving. Simply stop moving," she says in the video. "If you do not have the type of bread you like in your house, eat crackers. If you do not have bread, eat cereal, eat oats, sardines."

Her straight to the point messaging worked. The latest update from her government states that 10 people have died from COVID-19, 12 have recovered and the nation remains on lockdown.

"Together we can do this," she explained in an address on April 19. "Each and every one of us. These regulations are not put in place to test your faith or to push you to your limits. It is a matter of protecting your life and to get our livelihood safe, so that we can continue and return to proper economic development so that we can all thrive. Now, we are in survival mode, however, the Council of Ministers together with the Ministries are working on the recovery plan for Sint Maarten, as soon as we can get COVID-19 contained. Help us to help you."

New Zealand's Jacinda Ardern's win: Only 14 COVID-19 deaths in her nation 

Jacinda Ardern made history when she was elected Prime Minister of New Zealand while pregnant and now she's making for her bold and effective measures against COVID-19.

The 39-year-old Prime Minister acted quickly when faced with this threat and as of this writing only 14 people have died from COVID-19 in her country. "New Zealand got everything right," Helen Petousis-Harris, a vaccinologist and Associate Professor at the University of Auckland told the Associated Press. "Decisive action, with strong leadership and very clear communications to everybody."

New Zealand's isolated geography and sparse population (only 5 million people) made controlling the spread of the virus easier, but experts say it was Arden's actions that made the country so successful in preventing community spread. She's not just trying to flatten the curve, she's trying to kick COVID-19 out of her country entirely.

"We have the opportunity to do something no other country has achieved: elimination of the virus," Ardern told her country last week, "But it will continue to need a team of 5 million behind it."

It's not easy. Schools and daycares closed and an economy based largely on tourism has been hard hit, but new research and mathematical modeling show locking down quickly and avoiding compromises worked in New Zealand's favour.

Ardern's also being praised for her crisis communication skills, taking to social media to communicate directly with her people in a remarkably transparent manner.

What America can learn from the COVID-19 wins of foreign female leaders

In an email to The Atlantic's Uri Friedman, international-relations scholar at Victoria University of Wellington and a former Defense Department under the Obama administration explained why Ardern's communications style is so impactful.

"She doesn't peddle in misinformation; she doesn't blame-shift; she tries to manage everyone's expectations at the same time [as] she offers reassuring notes,"Jackson explained. "She uses the bully pulpit to cue society toward our better angels—'Be kind to each other' and that kind of thing. I think that's more important than people realize and does trickle down into local attitudes."

In American culture compassion, kindness and responsibility are seen "consistently as valued traits for women" while strength is a valued trait in men, Pew reports. In men, about half the population sees being "caring" as a negative. For a generation of moms (and voters) trying to foster empathy and kindness in the next generation this is certainly something to consider.

In the 2018 midterm elections the United States saw many women (including mothers) elected in their Congress and gubernatorial contests, but one by one, all the women in the race for the Presidency dropped out of the race, which will now be between two men, both decades older than Jacinda Ardern and without the perspective someone raising kids can provide.

There is so much that we can learn from other countries responses to COVID-19, and the value of mothers in elected office is one of them.

When I was expecting my first child, I wanted to know everything that could possibly be in store for his first year.

I quizzed my own mom and the friends who ventured into motherhood before I did. I absorbed parenting books and articles like a sponge. I signed up for classes on childbirth, breastfeeding and even baby-led weaning. My philosophy? The more I knew, the better.

Yet, despite my best efforts, I didn't know it all. Not by a long shot. Instead, my firstborn, my husband and I had to figure it out together—day by day, challenge by challenge, triumph by triumph.

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The funny thing is that although I wanted to know it all, the surprises—those moments that were unique to us—were what made that first year so beautiful.

Of course, my research provided a helpful outline as I graduated from never having changed a diaper to conquering the newborn haze, my return to work, the milestones and the challenges. But while I did need much of that tactical knowledge, I also learned the value of following my baby's lead and trusting my gut.

I realized the importance of advice from fellow mamas, too. I vividly remember a conversation with a friend who had her first child shortly before I welcomed mine. My friend, who had already returned to work after maternity leave, encouraged me to be patient when introducing a bottle and to help my son get comfortable with taking that bottle from someone else.

Yes, from a logistical standpoint, that's great advice for any working mama. But I also took an incredibly important point from this conversation: This was less about the act of bottle-feeding itself, and more about what it represented for my peace of mind when I was away from my son.

This fellow mama encouraged me to honor my emotions and give myself permission to do what was best for my family—and that really set the tone for my whole approach to parenting. Because honestly, that was just the first of many big transitions during that first year, and each of them came with their own set of mixed emotions.

I felt proud and also strangely nostalgic as my baby seamlessly graduated to a sippy bottle.

I felt my baby's teething pain along with him and also felt confident that we could get through it with the right tools.

I felt relieved as my baby learned to self-soothe by finding his own pacifier and also sad to realize how quickly he was becoming his own person.



As I look back on everything now, some four years and two more kids later, I can't remember the exact day my son crawled, the project I tackled on my first day back at work, or even what his first word was. (It's written somewhere in a baby book!)

But I do remember how I felt with each milestone: the joy, the overwhelming love, the anxiety, the exhaustion and the sense of wonder. That truly was the greatest gift of the first year… and nothing could have prepared me for all those feelings.

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