What went viral this week: Jen Garner gets a mama paycheck + a dad's genius bottle cleaning hack

The first full weeks after the holidays wrap up can be real doozies. You're thrown right back into real life when all you really want to do is sleep off your post-holiday season exhaustion while clad in the cozy robe you got as a Christmas gift.

But January—the season of resolutions and full workweeks — is upon us. Let's get back to the real world, shall we?

Here are the headlines making us smile this week:

Viral video of triplet dad's genius hack for cleaning bottles

We all know how much work it is to clean and prepare bottles for one baby—now multiply that by three. It's a lot. The good news? One dad has a genius time-saving hack...and you're going to want to steal it immediately.

A clip featuring this triplet dad using a power tool attached to a baby bottle cleaning brush is going viral for good reason. Look how fast that thing works! The dad simply sticks the soapy-water-covered brush into the bottle, then activates the power tool so the brush really, really scrubs the inside of the bottle.

The dad is Aerol Peterson, who along with his wife Christy, welcomed triplets triplets Natashia, Arya and Trae in June. "Multiples run in my family," Aerol Peterson told 1011now. "My dad is a twin and my great-grandma was a twin, but triplets were still a surprise."

"We feed them seven times a day, every three hours, so 21 bottles," he said. "This is our normal and we just do it and we do it well."

Instagram commenters are loving Aerol's hack, with users praising the dad's ingenuity. Nothing like life with three newborns to inspire great creativity!

What do you think, Mama? Would you use this hack to make bottle washing go by a little bit faster? Obviously, it won't make the task go away entirely (oh, if only!), but hey—we'll take a shortcut where we can find one.

A viral dad joke takes over the Internet

As parents, we all dread those awkward conversations that'll inevitably come up—whether it's talking to our kids about the birds and the bees, or about their bodily functions. While both of these topics deal with completely natural human actions, they aren't always easy to discuss with kids.

Just ask Zack Riley, a real-life dad whose tweet is going mega viral this week. The tweet reads: "My son asked me 'Where does poo come from?' I was a little uncomfortable but gave him an honest explanation."

But the joke doesn't end there. The dad adds: "He looked a little perplexed, and stared at me in stunned silence for a few seconds and asked, "And Tigger?"

So funny! Not to mention relatable—as parents, we constantly find ourselves navigating awkward situations before quickly realizing we...well probably didn't need to do so. The Internet is absolutely loving this hysterical social media moment, which is so relatable for all the parents out there.

Another social media user chimed in with a similar story, writing: "Over a Happy Meal in McDs, my 3 year old daughter asked me, 'Where do babies come from?'...'Why do you want to know?' I asked, scrambling. 'Because it's not working out with Jimmy (little bro) and we need to send him back.'"


Jennifer Garner’s son wrote her a check for being his mama 😂

If there's one thing we can all agree on it's that motherhood is a whole lot of work. Of course, it's a labor of love— but sometimes we wonder why it doesn't come with more recognition...or even a paycheck.

But Jennifer Garner's son has something to say about that. The actress posted an Instagram shot featuring the image of a check from her son, Sam. The check is made out to "Mama" and was processed by a very special bank (the Piggy Bank, natch). The amount in question? $168.42, which was made out for "being my mama."

How cute is that?

Jennifer's caption reads "Apparently, birthing and raising someone is valued at $168.42. I guess I should keep my day job. 😂"

Baby Yoda is coming to a Build-A-Bear near you


Parents have been wishing for a soft and cuddly version of The Child, also known as "Baby Yoda" from the Disney+ hit The Mandalorian and soon we'll be able to get one at Build-A-Bear.

This week Build-A-Bear CEO Sharon Price John made the announcement at an investment conference, telling the crowd: "I'm excited to share that we'll be one of the first companies to be able provide the new digital and internet phenomenon who is trending higher than all of the presidential candidates combined," she said. "We now will have The Child, also known as Baby Yoda."

Just like Baby Yoda's real name on the show, the release date for the Build-A-Bear version is still a mystery. No word yet on the price, either.

14 outdoor toys your kids will want to play with beyond summer

They transition seamlessly for indoor play.

With Labor day weekend in the rearview and back-to-school in full swing, most parents are fresh out of boxes to check on their "Fun Concierge" hit list. It's also the point of diminishing returns on investing in summer-only toys. So with that in mind, we've rounded up some of our favorite toys that are not only built to last but will easily make the transition from outdoor to indoor play. Even better, they're Montessori-friendly and largely open-ended so your kids can get a ton of use out of them.

From sunny backyard afternoons to rainy mornings stuck inside, these toys are sure to keep little ones engaged and entertained.

Meadow ring toss game

Plan Toys meadow ring toss game

Besides offering a fantastic opportunity to hone focus, coordination, determination and taking turns, lawn games are just plain fun. Set them up close together for the littles and spread them out when Mom and Dad get in on the action. With their low profile and rope rings, they're great for indoors as well.


Balance board

Plan Toys balance board

Balance boards are a fabulous way to get the wiggles out. This one comes with a rope attachment, making it suitable for even the youngest wigglers. From practicing their balance and building core strength to working on skills that translate to skateboarding and snowboarding, it's a year-round physical activity that's easy to bring inside and use between Zoom classes, too!


Detective set

Plan Toys detective setDetective Set

This set has everything your little detective needs to solve whatever mystery they might encounter: an eye glasses, walkie-talkie, camera, a red lens, a periscope and a bag. Neighborhood watch? Watch out.


Wooden doll stroller

Janod wooden doll strollerWooden Doll Stroller

Take their charges on a stroll around the block with this classic doll stroller. With the same versatility they're used to in their own ride, this heirloom quality carriage allows their doll or stuffy to face them or face the world.


Sand play set

Plan Toys sand set

Whether you're hitting the beach or the backyard sandbox, this adorable wooden sand set is ready for action. Each scoop has an embossed pattern that's perfect for sand stamping. They're also totally suitable for water play in the wild or the bathtub.


Water play set

Plan Toys water play set

Filled with sand or water, this tabletop sized activity set keeps little ones busy, quiet and happy. (A mama's ideal trifecta 😉). It's big enough to satisfy their play needs but not so big it's going to flood your floors if you bring the fun inside on a rainy day.


Mini golf set

Plan Toys mini golf set

Fore! This mini golf set is lawn and living room ready. Set up a backyard competition or incorporate into homeschooling brain breaks that shift focus and build concentration.


Vintage scooter balance bike

Janod retro scooter balance bike

Pedals are so 2010. Balance bikes are the way to go for learning to ride a bike while skipping the training wheels stage altogether. This impossibly cool retro scooter-style is built to cruise the neighborhood or open indoor space as they're learning.


Wooden rocking pegasus

plan toys wooden rocking pegasus

Your little will be ready to take flight on this fun pegasus. It gently rocks back and forth, but doesn't skimp on safety—its winged saddle, footrests and backrest ensure kids won't fall off whether they're rocking inside or outside.


Croquet set

Plan Toys croquet set

The cutest croquet set we've ever seen! With adorable animal face wooden balls and a canvas bag for easy clean up, it's also crafted to stick around awhile. Round after round, it's great for teaching kiddos math and problem-solving skills as well.


Wooden digital camera

fathers factory wooden digital camera

Kids get the chance to assemble the camera on their own then can adventure anywhere to capture the best moments. With two detachable magnetic lenses, four built-in filters and video recorder, your little photographer can tap into their creativity from summertime to the holidays.


Wooden bulldozer toy

plan toys wooden bulldozer toy

Whether they're digging up sand in the backyad or picking up toys inside, kids can get as creative as they want picking up and moving things around. Even better? Its wooden structure means it's not an eye sore to look at wherever your digger drops it.


Pull-along hippo

janod toys pull along hippo toy

There's just something so fun about a classic pull-along toy and we love that they seamlessly transition between indoor and outdoor play. Crafted from solid cherry and beechwood, it's tough enough to endure outdoor spaces your toddler takes it on.


Baby forest fox ride-on

janod toys baby fox ride on

Toddlers will love zooming around on this fox ride-on, and it's a great transition toy into traditional balance bikes. If you take it for a driveway adventure, simply use a damp cloth to wipe down the wheels before bringing back inside.


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I never wanted to be a mom. It wasn't something I ever thought would happen until I fell madly in love with my husband—who knew very well he wanted children. While he was a natural at entertaining our nephews or our friends' kids, I would awkwardly try to interact with them, not really knowing what to say or do.

Our first pregnancy was a surprise, a much-wanted one but also a unicorn, "first try" kind of pregnancy. As my belly grew bigger, so did my insecurities. How do you even mom when you never saw motherhood in your future? I focused all my uncertainties on coming up with a plan for the delivery of my baby—which proved to be a terrible idea when my dreamed-of unmedicated vaginal birth turned into an emergency C-section. I couldn't even start motherhood the way I wanted, I thought. And that feeling happened again when I couldn't breastfeed and instead had to pump and bottle-feed. And once more, when all the stress from things not going my way turned into debilitating postpartum anxiety that left me not really enjoying my brand new baby.

As my baby grew, slowly so did my confidence that I could do this. When he would tumble to the ground while learning how to walk and only my hugs could calm him, I felt invincible. But on the nights he wouldn't sleep—whether because he was going through a regression, a leap, a teeth eruption or just a full moon—I would break down in tears to my husband telling him that he was a better parent than me.

Then I found out I was pregnant again, and that this time it was twins. I panicked. I really cannot do two babies at the same time. I kept repeating that to myself (and to my poor husband) at every single appointment we had because I was just terrified. He, of course, thought I could absolutely do it, and he got me through a very hard pregnancy.

When the twins were born at full term and just as big as singleton babies, I still felt inadequate, despite the monumental effort I had made to grow these healthy babies and go through a repeat C-section to make sure they were both okay. I still felt my skin crawl when they cried and thought, What if I can't calm them down? I still turned to my husband for diaper changes because I wasn't a good enough mom for twins.

My husband reminded me (and still does) that I am exactly what my babies need. That I am enough. A phrase that has now become my mantra, both in motherhood and beyond, because as my husband likes to say, I'm the queen of selling myself short on everything.

So when my babies start crying, I tell myself that I am enough to calm them down.

When my toddler has a tantrum, I remind myself that I am enough to get through to him.

When I go out with the three kids by myself and start sweating about everything that could go wrong (poop explosions times three), I remind myself that I am enough to handle it all, even with a little humor.

And then one day I found this bracelet. Initially, I thought how cheesy it'd be to wear a reminder like this on my wrist, but I bought it anyway because something about it was calling my name. I'm so glad I did because since day one I haven't stopped wearing it.

Every time I look down, there it is, shining back at me. I am enough.

I Am Enough bracelet 

SONTAKEY  I Am Enough Bracelet

May this Oath Bracelet be your reminder that you are perfect just the way you are. That you are enough for your children, you are enough for your friends & family, you are enough for everything that you do. You are enough, mama <3


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It's science: Why your baby stops crying when you stand up

A fascinating study explains why.

When your baby is crying, it feels nearly instinctual to stand up to rock, sway and soothe them. That's because standing up to calm babies is instinctual—driven by centuries of positive feedback from calmed babies, researchers have found.

"Infants under 6 months of age carried by a walking mother immediately stopped voluntary movement and crying and exhibited a rapid heart rate decrease, compared with holding by a sitting mother," say authors of a 2013 study published in Current Biology.

Even more striking: This coordinated set of actions—the mother standing and the baby calming—is observed in other mammal species, too. Using pharmacologic and genetic interventions with mice, the authors say, "We identified strikingly similar responses in mouse pups as defined by immobility and diminished ultrasonic vocalizations and heart rate."

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