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6 Fairly Cool Things About Your Kid Going From Crib to Bed

Since my son transitioned from crib to bed four months ago, we’ve become nostalgic for our lost, but oh-so-blissful year and a half of uninterrupted sleep. The absence of wooden bars has meant startling midnight visits from a sometimes friendly, sometimes grumpy creature who needs to pee or wants to have a sleepover party in our room, which usually involves a lengthy discussion, at full volume, about his most recent dream.


It’s adorable and really, really exhausting. But I realized the other night that since this is an unavoidable part of growing up, the only way to cope is to dig up a bright side, shake the dirt off and squint until it vaguely resembles whatever a bright side looks like to you. In that spirit, here are six fairly cool things about your kid switching from crib to bed. Let’s all pretend to be excited together!

1 | It’s so much easier to change a wet bed! 

Even after potty training is complete, wetting the bed is sorta inevitable for toddlers and kids alike… which is why I keep reminding myself, at 2:30 am, how cool it is that five-foot tall me doesn’t have to bend over awkwardly and yank a mattress out of a rectangular pen. My son’s new bed saves me two to three minutes of teeth gritting as I wrangle a mattress pad and fitted sheet off of and then onto my kid’s big bed. Victory!

2 | There’s no need to sit up during story time! 

No longer must you nestle yourself into your child’s unsupportive beanbag chair or lean against the uneven spines of the books shoved onto his shelf. As bedtime approaches, you can now shrug off your long day, lie down under the adorable comforter you chose from that ridiculously overpriced kids’ company, crack open your toddler’s favorite book and read until you accidentally, but very comfortably, fall asleep.  

3 | Surprise middle of the night snuggles!  

There is no stopping a determined child from waking up right when you are fast asleep and stealthily climbing into bed with you. As disruptive as this can be to your sleep, it is pretty cute. And it’s pretty much a crib-to-bed guarantee!

4 | You can ditch that travel crib!

The days of boundaries are over and so are the days of jamming a pack and play into your trunk or on top of that stack of luggage you’re checking before your flight. Since your child can now escape any sleeping set-up you put her in, she can sleep wherever! Be it on a cot, in the middle of a hotel queen bed surrounded by pillows, or on a makeshift futon composed of couch cushions and suspiciously old fleece blankets, your child can sleep safely and will most likely still climb out of bed at least twice during the night.  

5 | Adorable cozy bedding!

There are, as heretofore mentioned, a lot of ridiculously expensive and/or ridiculously charming sorts of kids bedding and now is when you get to buy it! Or, now is the time when you get to deliberate for weeks about whether buying it is actually worth it! Crib bedding was cool, but all you needed was a sheet. Enjoy grinning and grimacing at every kind of pillow cover, comforter, and fitted twin sheet set under the sun!  

6 | IT IS THE ONLY WAY FORWARD

Soon, maybe in one to seven years, your kids will stay in bed all night, will not list frighteningly off said bed and onto the floor, and will pee in the bathroom at midnight quietly and on their own. The only way toward that hazy beacon out there on the horizon is to get out of the crib. May my unearned optimism stay with you for the journey!

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When you become a parent for the first time, there is an undeniably steep learning curve. Add to that the struggle of sorting through fact and fiction when it comes to advice and—whew—it's enough to make you more tired than you already are with that newborn in the house.

Just like those childhood games of telephone when one statement would get twisted by the time it was told a dozen times, there are many parenting misconceptions that still tend to get traction. This is especially true with myths about bottle-feeding—something that the majority of parents will do during their baby's infancy, either exclusively or occasionally.

Here's what you really need to know about bottle-feeding facts versus fiction.

1. Myth: Babies are fine taking any bottle

Not all bottles are created equally. Many parents experience anxiety when it seems their infant rejects all bottles, which is especially nerve wracking if a breastfeeding mom is preparing to return to work. However, it's often a matter of giving the baby some time to warm up to the new feeding method, says Katie Ferraro, a registered dietician, infant feeding specialist and associate professor of nutrition at the University of California San Francisco graduate School of Nursing.

"For mothers returning to work, if you're breastfeeding but trying to transition to bottle[s], try to give yourself a two- to four-week trial window to experiment with bottle feeding," says Ferraro.

2. Myth: You either use breast milk or formula

So often, the question of whether a parent is using formula or breastfeeding is presented exclusively as one or the other. In reality, many babies are combo-fed—meaning they have formula sometimes, breast milk other times.

The advantage with mixed feeding is the babies still get the benefits of breast milk while parents can ensure the overall nutritional and caloric needs are met through formula, says Ferraro.

3. Myth: Cleaning bottles is a lot of work

For parents looking for simplification in their lives (meaning, all of us), cleaning bottles day after day can sound daunting. But, really, it doesn't require much more effort than you are already used to doing with the dishes each night: With bottles that are safe for the top rack of the dishwasher, cleaning them is as easy as letting the machine work for you.

For added confidence in the sanitization, Dr. Brown's offers an incredibly helpful microwavable steam sterilizer that effectively kills all household bacteria on up to four bottles at a time. (Not to mention it can also be used on pacifiers, sippy cups and more.)

4. Myth: Bottle-feeding causes colic

One of the leading theories on what causes colic is indigestion, which can be caused by baby getting air bubbles while bottle feeding. However, Dr. Brown's bottles are the only bottles in the market that are actually clinically proven to reduce colic thanks to an ingenious internal vent system that eliminates negative pressure and air bubbles.

5. Myth: Bottles are all you can use for the first year

By the time your baby is six months old (way to go!), they may be ready to begin using a sippy cup. Explains Ferraro, "Even though they don't need water or additional liquids at this point, it is a feeding milestone that helps promote independent eating and even speech development."

With a complete line of products to see you from newborn feeding to solo sippy cups, Dr. Brown's does its part to make these new transitions less daunting. And, for new parents, that truly is priceless.

This article was sponsored by Dr. Brown's. Thank you for supporting the brands that support Motherly and mamas.

Jessica Simpson celebrated her baby shower this weekend (after getting a cupping treatment for her very swollen pregnancy feet) and her theme and IG captions have fans thinking this was not just a shower, but a baby name announcement as well.

Simpson (who is expecting her third child with former NFL player Eric Johnson) captioned two photos of her shower as "💚 Birdie's Nest 💚". The photographs show Simpson and her family standing under a neon sign spelling out the same thing.

While Simpson didn't explicitly state that she was naming her child Birdie, the numerous references to the name in her shower photos and IG stories have the internet convinced that she's picking the same name Busy Philips chose for her now 10-year-old daughter.

The name Birdie isn't in the top 1000 baby names according to the Social Security Administration, but It has been seeing a resurgence in recent years, according to name nerds and trend watchers.

"Birdie feels like a sassy but sweet, down-to-earth yet unusual name," Pamela Redmond Satran of Nameberry told Town and Country back in 2017. "It's also just old enough to be right on time."

Simpson's older kids are called Maxwell and Ace, which both have a vintage feel, so if Birdie really is her choice, the three old-school names make a nice sibling set.

Whether Birdie is the official name or just a cute nickname Simpson is playing around with, we get the appeal and bet she can't wait for her little one to arrive (and her feet to go back to normal!)

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As if we needed another reason to shop at Target, our favorite store is offering some great deals for mamas who need products for baby. Mom life can be expensive and we love any chance at saving a few bucks. If you need to stock up on baby care items, like diapers and wipes, now is the time.

Right now, if you spend $100 on select diapers, wipes, formula, you'll get a $20 gift card with pickup or Target Restock. Other purchases will get you $5 gift cards during this promotion:

  • $20 gift card when you spend $100 or more on select diapers, wipes, formula, and food items using in store Order Pickup, Drive Up or Target Restock
  • $5 gift card when you buy 3 select beauty care items
  • $5 gift card when you buy 2 select household essentials items using in store Order Pickup, Drive Up or Target Restock
  • $5 gift card when you buy 2 select Iams, Pedigree, Crave & Nutro dog and cat food or Fresh Step cat litter items using in store Order Pickup
  • $5 gift card when you buy 3 select feminine care items using in store Order Pickup, Drive Up or Target Restock

All of these promotions will only run through 11:59 pm PT on Saturday, January 19, 2019 so make sure to stock up before they're gone!

Because the deals only apply to select products and certain colors, just be sure to read the fine print before checking out.

Target's website notes the "offer is valid using in store Order Pickup, Drive Up or Target Restock when available".

The gift cards will be delivered after you have picked up your order or your Target Restock order has shipped.

We won't tell anyone if you use those gift cards exclusively for yourself. 😉 So, get to shopping, mama!

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