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Does Your Home Feel Imperfect? Congratulations, You’ve Mastered an Ancient Japanese Aesthetic

Kintsugi is the Japanese practice of honoring a treasured object's history by repairing cracks with gold or silver.

When my husband suggested we move the old, blocky, wood veneer table from his bachelor condo to our shared home, I agreed, mainly because I assumed we'd replace it soon enough. Eight years and two kids later, I find it hard to imagine our home without it.

The table is covered with nicks and scratches. It's orange-y brown, and the imperfections show up in light yellow. It comfortably seats the four of us, but we can easily squeeze a couple more chairs in when Grandma and Grandpa come for dinner. For special occasions, it expands to fit 12.

We can barely open the refrigerator door when all 12 seats are full, but that's okay. Limited fridge access has never interfered with the conversations and laughter we've shared with family and friends over Thanksgiving dinners, Passover seders, or birthday parties.

I've grown to love that table and the memories it holds.

Wabi-sabi is the Japanese art of finding beauty in imperfection. The ancient aesthetic acknowledges that objects are beautiful, not in spite of signs of wear and tear, but because of them. Wabi-sabi appreciates the way an object's aesthetic appeal develops over time and with repeated use, inextricably linking the concepts of beauty, utility, economy, austerity, and intimacy.

Though I never intended to embrace wabi-sabi (I've only recently become acquainted with the term), I've inadvertently adopted the aesthetic, not just in my kitchen, but throughout my home. I like how my favorite jeans have thinned at the inner thighs. I regularly toss things I don't use. I delight in watching my daughters play with the Cabbage Patch doll my grandmother stood in line for in 1985.

In short, you don't have to hire a decorator or scour the internet for ideas, products, or advice to create a wabi-sabi infused home.

Using the things in your home well, and being intentional with those that you let go of or choose never to have in the first place, will naturally create a home that you love.

Here's how you can put that intention into action.

Wabi-Sabi (わびさび) in Japanese kanji

Parent Co. partnered with Snuggle Me because they know there's beauty in simplicity.

Limit what comes in

According to wabi-sabi, the beauty of a thing is not in its shiny newness. Just the opposite, an object's radiance rests in the meaning and memories it holds, as well as its utility.

To avoid the temptation of filling your home with new and unnecessary items, follow the following steps:

Don't go overboard with your baby registry. Consider the things you really need: a cozy place to snuggle, clothes that fit, and a great carseat.

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