You may have spent your college years drinking suspect punch out of red Solo cups until the wee hours of the morning–but times have changed and now that single cocktail you had with dinner has you wondering if you’ve woken up with your head sewn to the pillow.

Or maybe you’re pregnant and that glass of wine that helped you unwind at the end of the day is quite literally not on the table.

Whether you’re drinking in moderation or abstaining completely, it’s a personal decision that comes without the need for explanation–but sometimes you just miss the ritual.

Related: 10 unexpected changes that happened after I quit drinking

Are non-alcoholic drinks actually good?

Luckily, over the past few years non-alcoholic drinks and mocktails have come to rival the taste and sophistication of any beer, wine or spirits. Gone are the days of sickeningly sweet Shirley Temple-esque concoctions that even a colorful umbrella can’t help. Instead, there’s now an endless stream of actually delicious (and sometimes even healthy!) non-alcoholic drinks that offer everything but the hangover. (And let’s be real. Is there anyone on the planet with less time for a hangover than a mom? I think not.) Many include mood-enhancing ingredients like hemp and L-theanine or adaptogenic herbs like ashwaganda which can contribute to helping you find that calm, relaxed feeling you’re looking for.

While it’s definitely worth celebrating the fact there’s a wide array of options, it can also be tricky to find the best non-alcoholic drinks. (Trust me, I’ve tried more than a few not-so-great ones.) Life’s too short for bad drinks, so here’s where I can put my very important research to good use.

Whether you’re looking for something to pair with dinner, a drink to toast the next amazing thing worth toasting, or a picnic-ready can that will make you ditch the spiked seltzer with one sip, these booze-free beverages will make worthy additions to any bar cart.

If you’re pregnant or nursing, be sure to consult with your doctor before imbibing. While these picks are non-alcoholic, some include herbs and botanicals that may not be suitable for you at the moment.

The best non-alcoholic drinks you need to try!

Ghia Le Spritz

Ghia Le Spritz (12-Pack)

$60

Ghia’s stylish non-alcoholic apéritif has become a bar cart must-have, but in my opinion it’s their sparkly Le Spritz cans that really shine. Made from a blend of botanical extracts and herbs, each flavor (Ginger, Lime & Salt, and their signature Ghia) is refreshingly bitter and bitey without being overly sweet. As an apéritif, they’re meant to be enjoyed before dinner, but they’re lovely after dinner or even as a night cap. I prefer to drink them straight up, ice cold in a fancy cocktail glass but others have pointed out that they make a great mixer as well.

Kally Curiosity Collection

Kally

$30

I’ve tried dozens of non-alcoholic drinks but none have delighted me the way Kally does. Whereas other wine stand-ins often lack the complexity that makes it enjoyable in the first place, Kally is just the opposite. The sophisticated blends of verjus (a juice pressed from young tart chardonnay grapes), decaffeinated tea extracts and botanicals create layered flavors that are unlike anything I’ve ever tasted. Even more impressively, they linger in your mouth, making each one a total experience.

In the line up you’ll find three sparkling varieties (Golden Sparkler, Rosé Sparkler, and Verjus Sparkler), as well as three classics (Orchard Sage, Berry Fennel and Verjus). They’re sweet, but not too sweet, and in all honesty, I love every single one. But if I had to choose a favorite it would be the Golden Sparkler. It’s light, but complex with bright citrus notes and a twinge of jasmine floral. It’s a Champagne toast without the crushing headache! (Prices start at $30).

 

Recess Zero Proof Craft Cocktails

Recess Zero-Proof Craft Mocktails (12-Pack)

$41.99

With their ‘grammable matte cans and buzzy ingredient list, you’ve likely stumbled upon Recess already. The sparkling waters (which have become a beach day staple of mine), are enhanced with adaptogens like L-theanine, ginseng and lemon balm to promote calm and focus as well as a tiny bit of natural caffeine from guayusa (an Amazon holly, actually). There’s a whole collection of fruity flavors like paloma, mojito and mule but it’s the classic Margarita that you can’t miss out on. The delightfully limey fizz hits the spot on its own, but you could always add a splash of your favorite non-alcoholic tequila for the perfect Taco Tuesday cocktail.

De Soi Can Variety Pack

De Soi Can Variety Pack (12-Pack)

$70

One look at De Soi and you know you’re in for a full sensory experience. First of all, the entire brand aesthetic is perfection. (A can of Truly could never.) But obviously, it’s what’s inside that really counts–and that’s where the party starts. The trio of flavors, which include Golden Hour (L-theanine, citrus and leafy herbs), Champignon Dreams (reishi mushroom, passion flower, strawberries and bitter grapefruit), and my personal favorite, Purple Lune (ashwagandha, tart cherry, vanilla oak, and rose petals) are bubbly and botanical with notes that will surprise even the most adventurous palates. Each sip is worth savoring and while my preference is to drink them ice cold and straight up, they’ve got some fun recipe ideas to try as well.

Figlia Fiore

Figlia Fiore

$43

The combination of floral and sweet spices is totally unique—especially when it comes to the mocktail category. Made from a blend of rose, bitter orange and clove it’s an ideal campari stand-in and looks just as gorg on your bar cart. Perfect for a sophisticated drink during a special night, this elegant option is best served with seltzer and in your favorite glassware!

Hiyo Variety Pack

Hiyo

$44.99

Light but layered and absolutely perfect for hangs with friends, Hiyo’s “sparkling social tonics” are a sensorial delight. Along with palate-pleasing fruits like blackberry and lemon, watermelon and lime, and peach and mango, each of the flavors contain adaptogens, nootropics and botanicals which can contribute to a feeling of calm relaxation. (A feeling they refer to as “the float.”) They’re not overly sweet at all with tasty fruity notes and not a hint of bitterness or metallic flavor that you can sometimes expect with similar drinks. Consider it your happiest Happy Hour!

Kin Euphorics Kin Spritz

Kin Euphorics Kin Spritz

$35 (8-Pack)

With a dash of caffeine, L-theanine, and rhodiola rosea (an adaptogen that can help balance cortisol) this blissful bev delivers on its promise to give you a boost without the jitters. In fact, the first time I sipped one, I actually noticed how mellow and calm I felt an hour later. It took me a minute to remember I hadn’t actually had a glass of wine! The citrusy flavor is bright and fresh and the hint of ginger is just enough to sense through a bit of warmth as it goes down. And with only five grams of sugar, you don’t have to worry about having one a night!

Betty Buzz Premium Sparkling Soda

Betty Buzz Premium Sparkling Soda

$34.99 (12-Pack)

If you’d rather skip the botanicals and go for something a little simpler, we love the sparkly, clean sodas from Betty Buzz. They’re lightly sweetened with agave syrup, with fresh citrusy flavors that make great mocktail (or cocktail) mixers or stand on their own. (The grapefruit is our number one. It’s like Fresca’s bougier, classier cousin.) Also, the old-timey glass bottles are perfect for parties and even upcycling for backyard flower arrangements!

De La Calle Tepache

De La Calle Tepache

$46.99

Despite the fact its existence dates back to oh, pre-Colombian Mexico, I’ve only recently discovered the deliciousness that is Tepache. Specifically, De La Calle’s colorful collection of cans. Made from fermented pineapple rinds and spices, it’s fresh without being funky and seriously a taste explosion. Each of the 12 varieties are inspired by Mexican flavors, from the Cactus Prickly Pear to Watermelon Jalapeno and while I’ve only tried half of what they offer, every single one has been a winner. I’m not the biggest spice person and yet, the Pineapple Spice is the hot summer day drink of my dreams. For winter, I’m turning more toward Mango Chili which has a cozy heat that’s perfect for taking the chill off. They’re bubbly, just sweet enough and totally addicting in the good way.

Proxies Wine

Proxies

$94

Unlike de-alcoholized wine which tends to lack complexity and depth, Proxies offers all the things I love about wine by creating something completely new and different. Proxies, which are actually layered blends of juices, teas, spices, and bitters have acidity, tannins and textures that mean they hit all the same notes. They look, feel and drink like wine and pair perfectly with all the go-tos like oysters, cheeses, and fancy meals. I love how each variety includes unexpected flavors like rhubarb, yuzu and peppercorn which tickle the palate and evolve as you sip. And it’s not just what’s inside that counts–the gorgeous bottles make a perfect hostess gift or dinner party contribution. Best of all, you get to be the one who brought the non-alcoholic wine which makes even your snobbiest wannabe sommelier pals say, “Wait, what is this? It’s delicious.” (True story.)

Best seller sets of four start at $94.