We've experienced some trying times, mama. Whether you've been on the front lines or at home working while caring for your little ones, we know 2020 hasn't been easy. But through it all, we're finding small ways to reconnect with our partners—including this roundup of the best sex toys to upgrade your sex life if you're alone, with a partner or befriended masturbation.

Here are 10 must-try sex toys to help you stay connected with your partner and yourself:

Beginners toy: Je Joue G-Spot Bullet

Je Joue G-Spot Bullet

For those looking for their first toy the Je Joue G-Spot Bullet is ideal. It's small, discrete, yet packs a major punch. With its multiple speeds and vibration patterns, the G-Spot bullet is also curved at the tip for those looking to explore the realms of internal stimulation as well.

Rabbit: Lelo Ina Wave

Lelo Ina Wave

Blended orgasms are the new topic of conversation these days and the Ina Wave provides just that. While the clitoral arm rests gently and vibrates on the clitoris, the internal arm of the Ina Wave vibrates and moves in a come hither motion stimulating the G-spot in an orgasmic way. Providing optimal dual stimulation to the vulva, the Ina wave ensures a powerful blend orgasm for its users.


Anal: BVibe Anal Training Kit

BVibe Anal Training Kit

Anal sex can be awesome if you have the right tools, and this seven-piece set equips anyone looking to explore anal with techniques and products that ensure more pleasure for all involved. In it you'll find ananal enema, lube shooter, three plug sizes, as well as a complete guide to anal activity.

Ring: plusOne Vibrating Ring

plusOne Vibrating Ring

Looking for affordable options for a strong, yet comfortable ring? Look no further. plusOne offers a budget-friendly vibrating ring that keeps the penis harder longer while stimulating the partner who is being penetrated with its vibrating head. It fits at the base of the shaft with the vibrator facing up, which makes that adventurous cowgirl position even more fun. It's stimulating, comfortable and rechargeable—who could ask for more?


Couples: We-Vibe Chorus

We-Vibe Chorus

Considered one of the best couples toys in the market, the We-Vibe chorus is a hands-free vibrator that can be worn comfortably vaginally during intercourse. This unique c-shaped product vibrates on the clitoris and G-spot during sex creating more pressure and stimulation for each partner. What makes it even more fun is the touch-activated remote that lets your partner control the vibration of the toy based on how hard they squeeze the remote—there's even an app that lets you play and connect with your partner from anywhere in the world. Its design and innovation makes it a leader in the world of pleasure and sex tech.

Kegels: Elvie


While it doesn't vibrate, the Elvie is essential to any vulva owner's repertoire. The Elvie is an app controlled pelvic floor trainer that through biofeedback creates workouts designed for the user to reach optimal Kegel strength. No one likes to pee when they laugh, and stronger pelvic floor muscles can mean stronger orgasms. We all want that.

Kit: Objects of Desire

Objects of Desire

If diamonds are a girl's best friend, then a diamond-studded vibrator is her soulmate. High on Love collaborated with JOPEN and produced the Objects of Desire gift set, which includes a powerful millennial pink clit vibrator adorned with rose gold and crystals and a CBD-infused stimulating sensual oil. Use the oil to get the blood flow going and let the vibe take you to nirvana.

Clit: Womanizer Premium

Womanizer Premium

Research on the structure of the clitoris has greatly advanced and with that has come the advancement of products that stimulate the clit. The Womanizer Premium used Pleasure Air Technology to provide touchless stimulation through air pressure to the clitoris, allowing users to reach a whole new level of the "big O". Elegant design, waterproof and smart silence technology are just the added bonuses of this standout product.

Luxury: Lelo Olga


Not everyone can afford a $3,500 sex toy, but for those who want to experience the ultimate luxury, Lelo created the Olga, a 24k gold plated G-spot toy. The high-end toy is elegantly sculpted for deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation.


Wand: Le Wand Petit

Le Wand Petit

Wands have been a classic in the world of pleasure products, and Le Wand has taken this traditional massager and revolutionized it. The Le Wand Petit is a rechargeable wand with a flexible head, multiple speeds and different pulsations. It's also small enough to fit in your carry-on or purse, which means it's perfect for the on-the-go pleasure.

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