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mom trying to console an upset toddler- why does my child only act out with me

If your kids act worse around you, there might be a (very good) reason why

For every moment at her worst, she always makes it up to me with a thousand of her at her very, very best.

Updated Aug. 01, 2024
toddler boy hugging his mom airplane mode tantrums

Airplane mode can soothe toddler tantrums—yes, really

He doesn’t need to yell so much now that he knows I'm there. Ready and present.

Updated Mar. 13, 2024
mom and frustrated toddler at home

Family therapist shares game-changing tip to help diffuse frustrated toddlers

The technique from Big Little Feelings’ Deena Margolin is helpful for parents, too.

Updated Feb. 20, 2024
mom comforting sad young daughter how to reduce tantrums

Yes, you can train your toddler to have fewer tantrums—all through play

Here’s how to develop the 5 social-emotional skills your child needs to tame tantrums.

Updated Jun. 02, 2025
mom kissing toddler sitting in a shopping cart- public tantrum

 A letter to the mom dealing with a public tantrum

The next time you think a parent has it all together, this is a refreshing reminder that no one does. 

Updated Jun. 14, 2023
young mother flying with a toddler holding son and looking through aircraft window

How to deal with a toddler tantrum on a plane

In the short term, I wanted the embarrassment and shame to stop for me. However, in the long run, I want my child to grow up using her voice and embracing all of her feelings, not repressing them.

Updated Jan. 09, 2023
mom showing how to minimize tantrums by calming her daughter down during christmas

Holidays are a recipe for tears and tantrums—here’s 4 ways to minimize the crash and burn

“If you can develop a sense of the patterns that are more likely to trigger tantrums for your child, you can play a little defense!"

Updated Jan. 27, 2023
girl throwing tantrum at store

How to deal with toddler tantrums in public

Reduce the frequency, duration and intensity of tantrums.

Updated Aug. 02, 2022
mother with upset child

If your kids act differently with you than dad, you’re not imagining it

In your presence, your child feels an emotional security that allows them to be vulnerable, unguarded and exposed.

Updated Sep. 07, 2022
child coloring on the floor

9 phrases that help kids express big emotions

Sometimes we all need a little help putting feelings into words.

Updated Oct. 02, 2024
Tired mom sitting at table

Time-lapse shows the many roles that moms juggle in a day

Mamas really don't get enough credit.

Updated Jun. 07, 2022
toddler behavior: toddler boys screaming

Is your child suddenly acting out? This may explain why

There is a fundamental disconnect between parents and their little ones when…

Updated Sep. 07, 2022
toddler crying and holding fake baby- how to help an angry child calm down

26 phrases to calm your angry child

18. "You are having a tough time. Let's figure this out together."

Updated Aug. 10, 2023

No one cares about your child’s tantrum more than you do

Now that my kids are far beyond the toddler stage, I want to say from the other side, that tantrum isn't a reflection on you.

Updated Oct. 14, 2021
mom playing with little girl

Am I raising a little jerk?

What a clinical psychologist wants you to know about kids who "act out."

Updated Feb. 07, 2022
child crying on a bed

How I finally learned to deal with—and accept—my child’s tantrums

This simple realization made dealing with my son's tantrums so much easier.

Updated Jan. 21, 2022
after-school restraint collapse: girl wearing backpack

After-school restraint collapse is real—here’s how to help your child

It's natural for kids to release their emotional, mental and physical energy as soon as the school day ends.

Updated Jul. 09, 2024
mom playing with little girl

8 calming techniques you and your kids can do together

Anxious about the news? Try these stress-reducing exercises you and the kids can do together.

Updated Mar. 23, 2023
little kids playing with Slumberkins

These snuggly toys help little kids handle big feelings

Designed by a therapist and educator, each creature is part of a collection that focuses on helping little ones deal with difficult emotions.

Updated Feb. 07, 2022
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