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Nha Khanh’s designer on creating a fashion line—and a family

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#MotherlyMakers features the entrepreneurial women remaking our world. We chatted with Khanh Nguyen, the Creative Director and Designer of the Nha Khanh label, about her incredible collection—sold at stores like Saks, Rent the Runway and Anthropologie—how she decided to go into the fashion industry despite uncertainty, and how her daughter inspires her at work.



Your designs are all over the world from Neiman Marcus to Kim Kardashian's closet to Vogue. We'd love to hear—how did you get started in the fashion industry?

I grew up in an artistic family as my father was an art teacher and my mother was a great dress designer.

I remember falling deeply in love with designing and making dresses for my dolls at the tender age of 5 while watching my mother designing and running her own bridal salon in Vietnam.

My family immigrated to the states in 1993 and it was my parents dream for me to become a doctor.

To appease my parents wishes I studied biology and got accepted into The University of Texas's School of Pharmacy.

Almost four years into my major I knew this wasn't for me and I made the gut decision to switch to become a Fashion Design major.

I won several awards and scholarships to help pay for my last year of college.

One of the prestigious scholarships I won was the Fashion Group International of Dallas for Top Achievement Award, which afforded me a life-changing experience to further my fashion study in Paris under the teaching of world leading experts from Chanel, Christian Dior, Ann Valerie Hash, Jean Paul Gaultier, and Elie Saab.

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While I was in Paris the summer of 2008, my husband,then boyfriend decided to join me.

We visited several cities in Europe, then he surprised me with a engagement proposal in Venice, Italy.

Excited and already inspired by my experience in Europe, I couldn't wait to come back to start designing all my wedding attires.

Not only did I design my own wedding gown, I made all four dresses for myself, 5 bridesmaid dresses and 2 flowergirl dresses.

The last dress I wore at my wedding was a short ivory lace dress with adorable nude tulle petticoat really stole the show.

Every girl at my wedding fell in love with it.

A year later, I made the dress in a black version to attend an event.

People were stopping me left and right to ask about the dress.

I decided to name the dress, Milace (short for Mi(ni) Lace).

Special custom requests for the Milace dress started to roll in.

Then my husband and I decided that it was time to take the business to the next level.

Soon after, we met many of my staff, most who are still with us today.

What was it like when you first decided to start Nha Khanh?

“Uncertain, uplifted, inspired and going above" and beyond are some of the things and feelings I had to dealt with when started out.

Uncertain of what the future would hold, uplifted because I finally had the strength to follow my dreams, inspired by those I surrounded myself with, going above and beyond in everything I do and I still and continue to do that.

Was there a moment that you knew this was what you needed to do?

When I had a gut instinct and changed my major in school. I knew fashion design was something in me and I couldn't let that go to waste.

Can you give us a little glimpse into a day-in-the-life of a renowned designer, owner, and creative director, not to mention 3 yr old mama like yourself?

At 6: 30 am. . .

Wake up. Prepare breakfast for both my daughter and me.

My husband usually leaves for work before 7am, so he'd just grab something quick to munch on on his way out.

But I like to make sure my daughter is fed before I drop her off at school.

Then wake my daughter up.

Get her ready.

At 7:45 am. . .

I'd go get ready while my daughter is having her breakfast. After I'm done getting ready, I take my daughter to school on my way to the studio.

At 10:00 am. . .

every morning, I either have meetings with my staff as a team, individually or I have custom fittings with my clients.

At 1:00 pm. . .

I have lunch with my husband while discussing new plans and upcoming tasks (we work together).

After lunch, I check and answer emails.

I walk around the studio, checking up on everyone.

At this time, questions from my staff are being thrown at me.

If it's something urgent (which always seems to be the case) I'd deal with them right then and there.

At 3:00 pm. . .

troubleshooting and decision making. Finalizing patterns, sewing techniques, and design details.

At 5:00 pm. . .

While everyone is getting ready to go home, I usually stay back to finish as much work as I can until 6:30pm.

At 9:00 pm. . .

This is usually my daughter's bedtime.

I read to her and cuddle her to sleep.

After she falls asleep, I check and answer my emails again.

Do research on new projects.

Then fall asleep around 11pm to midnight.

What's the best piece of advice you've been given?

My mother always tells me, “ Your health is your wealth. Take care of yourself."

Do you have a mentor or someone you look up to that's helped to shape you as a woman and a mother?

Yes, my own mother.

Tell us about Nhavy. How has she changed your career?

My life took a sharp turn since the day I found out I was pregnant.

I've decided, my health, my marriage, and my pregnancy come above all else.

Everything else would fall into place as it should and it did.

I know when I'm healthy, my pregnancy would be easy.

When pregnancy is easy, my daughter would turn out to be healthy, which in turn would make my life easier to juggle between family and work life.

Luckily, my daughter was very healthy and was such a good girl when she was born.

She even slept through the night after 5 weeks.

I was able to breastfeed her for almost a year.

I made sure this was one of my priorities.

My husband was very hands-on with my daughter and that allowed me to get back to work early and smoothly.

Positive attitudes also really help me get through many tough times and attract many great things as well. I've never had the patience that I have now, children really teach you how to be patient and the way you look at life.

Your style?

Polished with aromatic edge.

Being a mother and a successful entrepreneur is no easy feat, and you do it with such grace and style. We love that you bring your daughter to work with you, and create an environment that welcomes other mothers on your team to do the same. What are your secrets for integrating work and family?

Ever since my daughter was born, I was able to have her around at the studio until she turned 18-months.

She got to interact with everyone, familiar faces to strangers.

She grew to love my staff and loves being at the studio any chance she gets. I work in an opened-yet-intimate environment.

I love getting to know each and everyone on my team and having their kids in the office as well.

I want to take care of them like they've been taking care of my business and myself.

Most of my staff are woman with family and kids.

I can definitely relate to their roles as working mothers.

I want my staff to be happy when they come to work, so I often openly share my ups and downs with them as well as lending them an words of advice.

I want to be their leader, not their boss.

I don't mind getting down and dirty when crisis falls upon us.

I also try to keep an open-mind to let them explore their creativities and learn from them as we grow our company.

We love seeing Nhavy pop up in our Instagram feed—she is the most adorable, and best dressed, little girl! What are your tips for styling her and choosing her wardrobe?

On weekdays , I set aside two outfits I want her to wear to school each morning.

She only has 2 options. She can pick whichever outfit she wants.

On weekends, I let her choose whatever her heart desires.

This means she would pull everything and I mean everything that is pink to put on her body from head to toe.

What gets you out of bed in the morning and keeps you inspired and excited about life?

My husband, my daughter and my job.

We'd love to hear—what would you tell other mamas who want to turn their passions into their professions?

Do it wholeheartedly and have a clear plan.

What are your big dreams for Nha Khanh?

To continue to expand my business as a whole start a children's line.

What about for Nhavy?

I hope to raise her in a loving and creative environment, to fully use her God given talents, to know herself and follow her heart.

What do you hope she learns from your career?

Talents are nothing if you don't know how to use them right.

Have patience, a lot of patience.

Nothing good comes easily.

Stop and smell the roses.

Do not take shortcuts, you'll never know what you're missing out. Last but not least, take care of your staff, they are your business...without them, there is no business.

What does it mean to you to be “Motherly"?

Motherly is to be a woman with compassion and passion to take care of others, to nurture young minds while nurturing the inner child in you.


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As mamas, we naturally become the magic-makers for our families. We sing the songs that make the waits seem shorter, dispense the kisses that help boo-boos hurt less, carry the seemingly bottomless bags of treasures, and find ways to turn even the most hum-drum days into something memorable.

Sometimes it's on a family vacation or when exploring a new locale, but often it's in our own backyards or living rooms. Here are 12 ways to create magical moments with kids no matter where your adventures take you.


1. Keep it simple

Mary Poppins may be practically perfect in every way, but―trust us―your most magical memories don't require perfection. Spend the morning building blanket forts or break out the cookie cutters to serve their sandwich in a fun shape and you'll quickly learn that, for kids, the most magical moments are often the simplest.

2. Get on their level

Sometimes creating a memorable moment can be as easy as getting down on the floor and playing with your children. So don't be afraid to get on your hands and knees, to swing from the monkey bars, or turn watching your favorite movie into an ultimate snuggle sesh.

3. Reimagine the ordinary

As Mary says, "the cover is not the book." Teach your child to see the world beyond initial impressions by encouraging them to imagine a whole new world as you play―a world where the laundry basket can be a pirate ship or a pile of blankets can be a castle.

4. Get a little messy

Stomp in muddy puddles. Break out the finger paint. Bake a cake and don't worry about frosting drips on the counter. The messes will wait, mama. For now, let your children―and yourself―live in these moments that will all too soon become favorite memories.

5. Throw out the plan

The best-laid plans...are rarely the most exciting. And often the most magical moments happen by accident. So let go of the plan, embrace the unexpected, and remember that your child doesn't care if the day goes according to the schedule.

6. Take it outside

There's never a wrong time of year to make magic outside. Take a stroll through a spring rainstorm, catch the first winter snowflakes on your tongue, or camp out under a meteor shower this summer. Mother Nature is a natural at creating experiences you'll both remember forever.

7. Share your childhood memories

Chances are if you found it magical as a child, then your kids will too. Introduce your favorite books and movies (pro tip: Plan a double feature with an original like Mary Poppins followed with the sequel, Mary Poppins Returns!) or book a trip to your favorite family vacation spot from the past. You could even try to recreate photos from your old childhood with your kids so you can hang on to the memory forever.

8. Just add music

Even when you're doing something as humdrum as prepping dinner or tidying up the living room, a little music has a way of upping the fun factor. Tell Alexa to cue up your favorite station for a spontaneous family dance party or use your child's favorite movie soundtrack for a quick game of "Clean and Freeze" to pick up toys at the end of the day.

9. Say "yes"

Sometimes it can feel like you're constantly telling your child "no." While it's not possible to grant every request (sorry, kiddo, still can't let you drive the car!), plan a "yes" day for a little extra magic. That means every (reasonable) request gets an affirmative response for 24 hours. Trust us―they'll never forget it.

10. Let them take the lead

A day planned by your kid―can you imagine that? Instead of trying to plan what you think will lead to the best memories, put your kid in the driver's seat by letting them make the itinerary. If you have more than one child, break up the planning so one gets to pick the activity while the other chooses your lunch menu. You just might end up with a day you never expected.

11. Ask more questions

Odds are, your child might not remember every activity you plan―but they will remember the moments you made them feel special. By focusing the conversation on your little one―their likes, dislikes, goals, or even just craziest dreams―you teach them that their perspective matters and that you are their biggest fan.

12. Turn a bad day around

Not every magical moment will start from something good. But the days where things don't go to plan can often turn out to be the greatest memories, especially when you find a way to turn even a negative experience into a positive memory. So don't get discouraged if you wake up to rain clouds on your beach day or drop the eggs on the floor before breakfast―take a cue from Mary Poppins and find a way to turn the whole day a little "turtle."

Mary Poppins Returns available now on Digital & out on Blue-ray March 19! Let the magic begin in your house with a night where everything is possible—even the impossible ✨

Pregnancy has taught me so much—about myself, my body and my marriage.

It has proven that I can handle much more than I've ever given myself credit for—mentally, physically and emotionally.

It has shown me that I am brave. The thought of getting a human out of your body in any way, shape or form can be...well, terrifying. But it must be done. And I did it. Twice.

It helped me discover how strong and capable my body is. What our bodies do to accommodate these little humans growing inside of us is totally wild and impressive—to say the least.

It deepened my love for my husband, the father of my children, in unimaginable ways. (I guess creating a baby together can do that to you.)

Pregnancy has given me two of the most precious gifts of my life.

And I'll deliver one more this fall.

My daughters are my heart and my world. They are these wonderful, awe-inspiring, creative, strong, intelligent humans. I don't know how we did it, my husband and I, but we made some good ones. And I thank my lucky stars every single day for these children.

Pregnancy and I have had our ups and downs, but (luckily) mostly ups.

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I've experienced pregnancy by surprise (twice!) and I've experienced it in a planned, scheduled manner (once!). Both are exciting and nerve-wracking. Seeing those two little pink lines or the word 'pregnant' appear (because, let's be honest, I've taken about 5,729 different types of pregnancy tests at this point) is a mind-blowing experience.

Pregnancy has given me migraines, exhaustion, nausea, gestational diabetes and backaches. It's shown me that I can survive without spicy crunchy tuna rolls and red wine for 40 weeks. And that I can still sleep (...kinda) without my favorite stomach-sleeping-position.

But oh! What wonderful, miraculous experiences pregnancy has also given me.

Sure—there are challenges with pregnancy. 100%. Some women experience extreme nausea throughout their entire pregnancy, some women have to go on bed rest, some women have preeclampsia, some women have bleeding scares, all pregnant women watch their bodies grow and change, and handle it in different ways—there are lots of ups and downs.

Pregnancy isn't for the weak.

But even with the challenges and the 'rules'—there has been nothing like experiencing the miracle of creating and growing another human inside my body.

It will never, ever cease to amaze me.

Feeling those first kicks is absolute magic. ✨

Celebrating the first sign of your baby bump is so, so exciting.

Wearing those first few maternity outfits is...interesting.

Talking about potential names is wild and let's be honest—also challenging. I mean...agreeing on a name is really hard!

Hearing your baby's heartbeat for the first time just about makes yours explode.

Seeing your future son or daughter at each sonogram is truly humbling.

Prepping the nursery and nesting is satisfying. ✔️

Letting go of fears and getting ready to welcome your baby into the world is e v e r y t h i n g.

And knowing when your family is complete is...a bit...confusing.

My husband and I have talked about this baby being our last. That once she is here, our family will be complete. It feels right to us. But it also feels final. It feels like I am 100% ready for this to be my last pregnancy. But it also feels crazy thinking about never being pregnant again.

I've been feeling so many big emotions accepting that this really could be it for me. It's strange, but I have this unexplainable feeling in my heart that three is the right amount of children for our family.

I am sad and happy and relieved and confused and excited and scared—all in one jumbled mix of emotions. (WARNING: Motherhood involves ALL the feels.)

I'm trying to appreciate every moment of this pregnancy all while mourning the inevitable closing of this chapter in my life.

These feelings are hard to process, but I know I will be at peace with it soon. I'm looking toward my future with my heart wide open, ready to welcome our third baby into our family and focus on what I do have, not what I may never have again.

One year ago, a video brought parents around the world to tears on World Down Syndrome Day. It's been viewed almost 5.5 million times since then, and the message behind it is still gaining momentum today. The Carpool Karaoke style video was produced by a parent-led Down Syndrome awareness organization called Wouldn't Change a Thing as a way to show people that families dealing with Down syndrome are just families like any family raising children.

In the video 50 moms from the UK and their 4-year-old kids sing along to 'A Thousand Years' by Christina Perri (aka the Twilight theme). It's a song about love, and it couldn't be a more perfect soundtrack for this group of mamas, who use a simplified form of sign language, Makaton, to amplify their message in the video.

Regardless, the 50 moms were a little shocked (but happy) to see their video go as viral as it did. "We definitely wanted everyone to see it," one of the mothers, Rebecca Carless told the BBC. "The idea is, we are just normal mums, we love our kids, they love us, and they are just like other 4-year-olds, we wouldn't change them."


This year, Wouldn't Change a Thing created another musical number to raise awareness about the lives of kids with Down syndrome.

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This one is set to Queen's "Don't Stop Me Now" and shows the kids just being kids and having fun. It has already racked up nearly 40,000 views as of this writing.

These kids are clearly so very loved, and the parents behind these videos want the world to know it every day, but especially on World Down Syndrome Day.

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Many families travel for vacations and family events, especially in the summer months. Taking trips with children has many variables to consider, but one that many parents worry about is their little one's nap schedule while on vacation.

You certainly don't want to resort to staying home and give up all of those potential memories to be made. Instead, devise a plan ahead of time and then be open to going with the flow once you arrive at your destination. You can always get back on track when you get home.

Here are a few questions to consider before leaving for vacation:

Does your child sleep well in the car?

If they do, then you should plan your travel time so they can nap for part of the car, train or plane ride. Or, some families decide to travel late at night so their child sleeps for the majority of the trip. However, if your child does not usually sleep well in the car then don't fool yourself into thinking this trip will be different. In that case, travel right after they wake up, dress them comfortably, and plan to keep them entertained if they won't sleep.

Can you break your journey into segments with stops along the way?

The longer your child is in that car seat, the more likely they are to become upset and struggle to fall asleep when you need them to. Planning a few breaks can give them the exercise and exploring they need to be able to nap later. If you are traveling on an airplane or a train, you can plan to use the aisles for walks occasionally.

When they have trouble sleeping in an unfamiliar place

Once again, preparation is so important when it comes to getting your child to nap in an unfamiliar place. You will not be able to use the exact routines that work for you at home, but try to follow much of your usual routine to create a similar sleep environment for your child.

If your little one sleeps in a crib at home, bring along a portable folding crib.

You can even let your child sleep in that portable crib at home ahead of time so that it becomes familiar. Pack your child's usual blankets, pillows, stuffed animals, white noise, lullaby music, and night lights.

If your little one sleeps with you, create a safe sleeping place for your child in the new location.

Check out the room where you will be sleeping and rearrange as needed. Check to see if you can push the bed against the wall or replace heavy bedding to make things safer. (Always move things back the way that they were before you leave.) If you are staying at a hotel, many are understanding and accommodating. And they may even help with these type of arrangements.

Daily cues are another important factor when it comes to daily naps, and these are the things that often change while on vacation.

Try to serve meals of familiar foods at regular times, expose your child to normal daylight in the morning and dimly lit activities at night, avoid the pre-bed wrestling matches or ice cream treats. All of these small things can help keep nap-time and bedtime more regular and restful.

If you are traveling out of your time zone, you will need to be patient and aware of this transition.

It is a good idea to switch to the new time zone once you arrive at your destination because powerful biological cues also shift, such as the timing of meals & naps. Make sure that your child stays well-fed and well-hydrated and avoid letting them nap longer than they typically do. Don't over-schedule your first few days if at all possible.

It's important to be flexible! If your child naps well in a stroller or on a beach blanket, then let that happen. When away from home, always do what works best for everyone.

No matter what you do, it will take a few days to adjust to a new rhythm so it is important to be sensitive and flexible with these changes.

Originally posted on Elizabeth Pantley.

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My sweet child,

You wake up every morning with the same struggles as us all. Sometimes you're grumpy, sometimes you're just too tired to be happy, but you're always kind. That's just how you are. Even when you're sick, you're more worried about how others are feeling than yourself.

You see, you're tired in the morning because even though you were exhausted the night before, you stayed up talking to yourself about things and going over conversations in your head for the next day at school. I know because I hear you.

You told me you think about a lot of stuff before you fall asleep. You worry about others constantly, including what impression you'll make on others. You want to make sure that you'll say and do the right things, so no one gets upset with you. Because when someone is upset—especially with you—it hurts you deeply.

It stinks, baby, I know it stinks. It is so tiring to be so concerned with others and their feelings that you forget your own.

You're an old soul. You're caring and nurturing. You once gave weeds you had picked to a stranger outside of Walmart because "they looked sad," even though two minutes earlier you were having a meltdown. You quickly forgot that you were also upset because that man's sad face hurt you worse than melting down over a toy.

You let your cousins get the first pick of the prizes at Grandma's. You'd rather be last and get something you didn't want than to hurt someone's feelings. Because if they were sad, that would make you sadder.

I see you, sweet child.

In the front yard picking up shiny rocks from the driveway. They're for me, because you can tell I had a rough day. Your TV show can wait right now, you just want to make me feel better.

I feel you, sweet child.

When you see me laying on the couch and you cover me up and kiss my forehead. I'm not really asleep, you know—I'm watching you, studying you, listening to you—because it's the most beautiful thing I've ever encountered. Beautiful, yet dangerous in a way.

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Dangerous because I know what happens when a heart is too pure. When you care about the feelings of others more than your own. When you can read the emotions of others and feel them too. And I want you to know—although you should be loved and cared for because of your heart, not everyone has the same heart as you.

Not everyone is as loving and kind as you. Not everyone will give you the same love that you give them. Not everyone will appreciate you, and I never want you to be taken advantage of.

I wish I could protect you from anything bad, ever in the world—but the truth is, I can't. All I can do is show you that your deep empathy is a gift that can change the world. And you shouldn't be ashamed of it.

Recently, when I picked you up from school you told me a girl was saying ugly things to you, you said you just ignored her and you were okay, but I could tell you were sad about it. And that's okay.

I explained to you that everything and everyone doesn't deserve your energy (something that you taught me unknowingly), and if she is being unkind then it's because she doesn't feel very good about herself. You understood. You said maybe you can do something to make her feel better.

And that kills me.

It kills me because I'm helpless. I can't go everywhere with you and make sure no one is mean to you. I can't promise that you'll never be hurt or heartbroken. I can't save you from the world's coldness. But that kills me even more because you save me. Every day.

And I want to thank you for that. Thank you for saving me from… well, everything.

From depression. From anxiety. From my own mind attacking me. I get overwhelmed and you can tell. You know when I'm having an episode and I need a long tight hug. You can sense when something happened at work, so you make sure to tell me I'm "the best mom a girl could ever have." I want you to know that you're the reason I am here. You're the reason I keep pushing.

Your nurturing gives me what I need to cope and heal and move forward in life.

So… thank you, sweet girl.

For having a heart as pure as gold. For loving others and showing your empathy and kindness no matter what. For reading emotions and body language like a book. For always being there for me and others. For teaching me to be kind and see the beauty in all things. For showing me that I can get through this wild thing called life, as long as I have you.

I love you always,

Mom

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