The mom’s guide to tween stink: 6 kid-friendly deodorants they’ll want to use
Middle school gives them enough to worry about.
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One day, it just happens. You pick your kid up from soccer practice and wonder how they managed to smuggle a hamburger into the mini van with them. Upon interrogation, you realize it’s not a hamburger at all. That’s just how they smell now. (Ok, that story is a little specific. It’s me. It’s my kid. But I’ve consulted other parents and similar stories abound.) As your kid becomes a tween, new body changes like increased sweat and odor can make deodorant a daily necessity. But not just any deodorant will do for their delicate–albeit pungent–developing bodies. Picking the right formula is key to keeping them feeling fresh and confident through those awkward puberty years. (And, let’s be honest. You don’t want them stinking up your house either.)
We’ve tapped the experts and scoured the latest research to find the top kids’ deodorant picks that’ll keep stink at bay without disrupting hormones or irritating sensitive skin. From all-natural nurturers to heavy-duty sweat fighters, these mom-approved odor busters have you covered.
Kids’ deodorant: The gentle early years
“Kids’ skin is usually more sensitive than grown-ups’, so it’s smart to start with a deodorant made just for sensitive skin,” advises Mary Berry, skincare formulator and owner of Cosmos Labs. “We’re starting with the gentle deodorants, and if it turns out the sensitive options aren’t cutting it, we can always level up and try something a bit stronger.”
Berry recommends going the natural deodorant route first rather than an antiperspirant. “For the initial trial, I’d suggest opting for a baking soda-free version, as baking soda can potentially cause irritation in some individuals,” she notes. Ones with plant-based powders like arrowroot can safely neutralize odor.
When do kids’ start wearing deodorant?
While there’s no definitive age to start using deodorant, Berry says it typically coincides with puberty’s onset. “Generally, kids start thinking about it when puberty hits, usually around 9 to 13. But everyone’s different – some might need it earlier or later. The key is to keep an eye (or nose) out for signs. If your kid’s starting to smell a bit ripe or sweating like they just ran a marathon, it might be time!”
Deodorant versus antiperspirants
Understanding the difference between deodorants and antiperspirants is important when choosing for kids, Berry explains: “Deodorant stops body odor by killing bacteria. It usually has a nice scent and doesn’t help with sweat, just the smell. Antiperspirant reduces sweat by blocking sweat ducts and occluding them with aluminum compounds. They usually also have a fragrance to help cover odor.”
For tweens, she advises starting with a deodorant to allow natural sweat release. “So deodorants fight the stink and antiperspirants fight the sweat! I’d recommend deodorants in the beginning since antiperspirant ingredients may be too harsh for delicate adolescent bodies.” That said, if the embarrassment of wet pits is getting them down, opt for an aluminum-free antiperspirant to keep moisture to a minimum.
Kid-friendly formats
No matter the formula, Berry emphasizes considering ease of application too. “For most kids starting out, I’d recommend a solid stick deodorant since it’s easy to swipe on. But spray, roll-on, and cream deodorants can work well for some too – it’s about finding what they’ll realistically use.”
Get them involved in picking their favorite scent, which can help make making deodorant an exciting new routine. “Just avoid pungent ‘grown-up’ fragrances which can be overpowering,” Berry notes. “Fruity or fun scents tend to appeal more to the tween crowd.”
Mom-to-mom pro tips:
- Don’t force it if they resist at first–give it time and keep encouraging the new routine. Remember how long it took to get them to willingly brush their teeth?
- Keep a few options at home for them to pick from–trying new scents/formulas can help them find their fave.
- Consider portable/travel sizes to keep in their backpack, sports bag, or locker for refreshing on-the-go.
- Celebrate this exciting milestone–it’s a sign they’re growing up! (Also, if it makes you tear up a little, join our club.)
As every body is different, you may need to do some trial-and-error to find the ideal deodorant match for your budding tween. But with a little guidance and patience, you can help make this whole new aspect of personal hygiene an empowering, positive experience as they navigate the road through puberty. We’ve rounded up some expert-recommended picks along with some that have worked for our own formerly stinky kids below!
The best deodorants for kids
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