Flowers are fabulous. Candy is cool too, but there are so many other things that can show a little love on Valentine’s Day. Whether you’re shopping for yourself, your partner, your BFF or simply looking for the right heavy-handed “hint” to send your other half, we’ve rounded up the gifts that make us feel loved, pampered and in the mood (some may even make Cupid blush, but hey, we’re ok with that.)

Shop our favorite Valentine’s Day gifts for her below!

Valentine's Day Gifts for Her

Snif Big Flirt Scented Candle



Big Flirt Scented Candle

Want to celebrate the holiday with a new flame? We’ve got the just the ticket. With its sultry chocolate and strawberry scent and alluring red glass vessel, the limited edition Big Flirt Scented Candle from Snif offers plenty of BVE. (That’s Big Valentine’s Energy.) It’s luxe, long-lasting and sexy AF–all the qualities you’d want in an, um, candle.

Maison Miru Heart Nap Earrings

Maison Miru


Heart Nap Earrings

A sweet pair of heart studs are always in style. And ones that don’t poke you in the neck? Well that’s just dreamy.

Kitsch Satin Pillow Case



Satin Pillow Case

There’s nothing we love more than solving problems in our sleep–and that’s just what you can expect from Kitsch’s cult-favorite satin pillowcase. The cool and frictionless fabric can help reduce hair frizz and breakage while also keeping skin happier as you snooze.

Papier Wellness Journal



Wonder Wellness Journal

Is she in the middle of an existential crisis (again)? Or, more likely, is she wondering who in the hell she is besides “The One Who Wipes Butts and Makes Snacks”? Journaling can help with that, but starting with a blank page is just too overwhelming. Instead, the Papier Wellness Journal gives her a guided page to start and end the day, setting intentions and reflecting. It’s a manageable way to develop a habit and she may even emerge a more brilliant badass than she was before. (If that’s even possible.)

Bubbeau Cuticle Oil Beads Box Set



Cuticle Oil Beads Box Set

Friends don’t let friends have raggedy cuticles. Ensure they’re in tip top shape with the most fun (and functional!) cuticle oil we’ve ever tried. The eco-friendly oil beads from Bubbeau are perfectly dosed dots of natural oils that offer instant non-greasy hydration that lasts. They’re super portable and won’t turn rancid before they get used up like typical oils do!

Avec x Yes Apples

AVEC x Yes! Apples


Fuji Apple and Cardamom Sparkling Beverage

Is she the apple of your eye? Tell her so with the tastiest non-alcoholic sparkler around. A collab between AVEC (the NYC-based masters of sparkling mixers) and Yes! Apples (growers of the finest New York apples), the Fuji apple and cardamom sparkling cider is just sweet enough with some sophisticated notes of cardamom and vanilla. It’s absolutely perfect on its own, but sources say it’s whiskey’s BFF. Price is for a pack of 12.

Drowsy Pillow Scrunchie



Pillow Scrunchie

Not all scrunchies are created equal. In fact, this one is basically fit for a queen–a glamorous, voluminously-locked queen. The oversized, pillowy design is made with 22 Momme silk which is ideal for keeping hair from getting tangled or pulled while you sleep and even better, creates the absolute best wake up hair. It even comes packaged in a luxury gift box ready to gift to your bougiest bestie.

Yoursy Love Pure Essential Oil Blend



Love Pure Essential Oil Blend

What better way to show your love than with the alchemy of scent? One deep inhale of Yoursy’s expertly-crafted Love blend will ground them in feelings of sensuality, connectedness, and relaxation that can completely shift their sense of wellbeing. It’s made with the highest quality essential oils including ylang ylang, petitgrain, marjoram, pachouli, and sandalwood and packaged in a convenient roll on so she can bring the experience anywhere, anytime.

Out of the Woods Insulated Wine & Spirits Valet

Out of the Woods


Insulated Wine & Spirits Valet

The convenient insulated wine totes from Out of the Woods are a thoughtful way to dress up a gifted bottle and it should be noted that they’re made from “Supernatural Paper.” It’s water-resistant, sustainable, and as durable as your friendship.

Awe Inspired Spiked Heart Necklace Set

Awe Inspired


Spiked Heart Necklace Set

I’m not exaggerating when I tell you I’m stone cold obsessed with all things Awe Inspired. Their edgy, eye-catching designs are like modern day amulets that tell the world you’re here to kick ass and take names. Each one has a story to tell and from the gorgeous detailing to the optional mirror-bedecked gift box they’re total stunners. (And, IMO look far more expensive than the price tag!) You seriously can’t go wrong with anything but for this particular occasion, I’d have to suggest the Spiked Heart necklace. With its femme fatale vibes it’s perfect for the friend who’s loving in that you-need-to-earn-it kind of way.

Boden Washed Raglan Sweatshirt



Washed Raglan Sweatshirt

Maybe it’s our inner romantic, but we can’t think of a better color combo than hot pink and cherry red–Valentine’s Day or not. That’s the first reason this Boden sweatshirt caught our eye, but it’s the soft cozy cotton and perfect vintage fit that has us hopelessly in love.

Cheerie Lane Popcorn Pods

Cheerie Lane


Popcorn Pods (Pack of 3)

Up your Galentine’s Day rom-com marathon snack game with the most delicious homemade popcorn ever. The small batch pods (which look like adorable little corn cobs) are made from heirloom kernels and cacao butter and pop to perfection in a pot on the stove top. The resulting bowlful is just the right amount of salty and buttery, with each piece equally coated. It’s popcorn sorcery if you ask me.


Someone who can now never bring themselves to eat microwave popcorn again.

Sugarfina Champagne Flight Candy Bento Box



Champagne Flight Candy Bento Box

She’s sophisticated, but she’ll still house a bag of Haribo’s when no one’s looking. This V-Day, give her the luxury sweetness she deserves with this almost to pretty to eat flight of champagne-flavored gummies from Sugarfina. The best part? She doesn’t even have to share them with her kids.

Poppy & Pout Lip Care Duo

Poppy & Pout


Lip Care Duo

Pamper her pout with a lip care duo from Poppy & Pout. The all natural formulas exfoliate, hydrate and protect her lips with a hint of mint and pink grapefruit and the sustainable packaging is almost too pretty to be lost to the bottom of her bag.

Apothékary Free Spirit Minis Set



Free Spirit Minis Set

Whether she’s trying to cut back on booze or simply looking for a more natural way to unwind, the herbal tinctures from Apothékary hit all the right marks. The Free Spirit Minis Set comes with three of their most popular formulas, Wine Down, Take the Edge Off, and Rosé Tinted Glasses which are all crafted with clinically studied medicinal herbs and designed to enhance her mocktail of choice. Personally, I love splashing a few dropperfuls into seltzer with a simple slice of lemon–in a fancy glass of course.

StickyBe Be Mine Grip Socks



Be Mine Grip Socks

Pilates girlies will agree-you can never have enough grip socks. And ones with a sweet reminder across the toes for when the going gets tough? Even better.

Rothy's The Lightweight Tote



The Lightweight Tote

Rothy’s Lightweight Tote has us jonesing for the warmer, sunnier days that are just around the corner. Made from their signature fabric that’s spun from plastic bottles it’s the perfect bag to carry on a romantic, oceanside picnic. (But will settle for schlepping kids to school or dashing to the grocery store because #momlife.)

Aviator Nation Heart Vintage Low Rise Trucker Hat

Aviator Nation


Heart Vintage Low Rise Trucker Hat

Even in the depths of winter, we’re obsessed with the surfer girl vibes of Aviator Nation. With their on-the-nose heart trucker hat bad hair days, beach days and every day in between she’ll look effortlessly cool (and feel

Birthdate Co. The Birthdate Book

Birthdate Co.


The Birthdate Book

To know her is to love her–but to really know her you may want to consult her astrological birth chart. This hyper-personalized book uses the map of the stars and planets at the exact moment of birth to give deep insight into who they are and what the future may hold.

Sofia Zakia Aphrodite Vessel Necklace

Sofia Zakia


Aphrodite Vessel Necklace

If a splurge is in order, check out this obsession-worthy piece from mystical Montreal  jewelry designer Sofia Zakia. Inspired by Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love and beauty, these tiny scalloped-shaped vessels are handmade from 14k gold. The dainty design is actually hollow–hold it to your ear and you just might hear the song of the sea.

Island to East Side Half Moon Clutch

Island to East Side


Half Moon Clutch

Is your Valentine an extra special fashionista? You know, one who’s never easy to wow? We’ve got you. The unforgettable beaded clutches from Island to East Side can be completely customized to create a one-of-kind accessory she’ll treasure for a lifetime. Choose everything from the bead colors and patterns to the font, strap style and even optional inside text. No matter what you decide, it’s guaranteed to be a total stunner!

Piecework P.S. I Love You Puzzle



P.S. I Love You Puzzle

With their kitschy imagery and quality presentation, Piecework puzzles are a go-to gift. This mini puzzle is the perfect way to tell her “I love you to pieces.” 70 pieces, in fact.

Quince Cashmere Gloves



Cashmere Gloves

Affordable luxury? Yes please. Like their cozy sweaters, Quince’s cashmere gloves are ethically made and will keep her warm and toasty while thinking how lucky she is to have you.

BFFS&BABES Ride or Die Stitch Embroidered Sweatshirt



Ride or Die Stitch Embroidered Sweatshirt

She’s your ride or die. Let her know.

Maude Tub Kit



Tub Kit

Toss the rubber ducks and floating boats out of the way and reimagine what the word “bathtime” can mean. This bath salt + bath milk duo is made with hand-harvested salts from the Southern Dead Sea which infuse the water with vitamins and minerals like magnesium, potassium and zinc to relax the body and mind as you soak. And because sexual wellness is at the forefront of every Maude product, they’re free of any icky, irritating ingredients that spell out something the opposite of sexy. No chemicals, additives or synthetic anything.

with co bouquet cocktail mixer

WIth Co


Bouquet Cocktail Mixer

Cocktails (or mocktails) on your Valentine’s Day menu? The awesome mixes from WithCo make shaking up a signature drink a simple as possible. Simply mix with your alchohol or base of choice (gin is the perfect pair for Bouquet, but it’s equally at home with soda water) and the evening is instantly more fancy.

Poketo Groovy Cup



Groovy Cup

Make her afternoon matcha aesthetic AF with the Groovy Cup from Poketo. (Even a plain old seltzer feels special in these funky glasses!) The double-walled design is hand-blown from Borosilicate glass making each one one-of-a-kind and more resistant to breakage.

Rifle Paper Co. Umbrella

Rifle Paper Co.


Strawberry Fields Umbrella

What’s more romantic than keeping someone dry in the rain? And while we do love a gentlemanly offer of a jacket to hold over our heads, a pretty umbrella is even better. Like this floral beauty from Rifle Paper Co. which not only makes a dreary day more colorful, but is compact enough to carry around just in case.

LAOLAO Taupe Ribbed Beanie



Taupe Ribbed Beanie

Knit with love by grandmother artisans, the heirloom quality LaoLao cashmere beanies  are like a hug in hat form. They’re dreamy soft, incredibly cozy, and finished with impeccable details like a removable pom pom and the sweetest tiny heart. Trust us when we say it’s bound to become a true treasure.

In Good Taste Wine

In Good Taste


Wine Flight

If you’re more of a wine person, check out the almost-too-pretty-to-drink (but so delicious you absolutely have to) wine sampler from In Good Taste. Their mini bottle flights feature wines from around the world, presented in the most fun and approachable way. Explore new flavors and varieties and maybe even discover a new favorite! They also offer virtual tastings which can make an at-home date night or Galentine’s party a little bit extra.

Foria The Quickie Kit



The Quickie Kit

Speaking of a gift for both of you, let me introduce the Quickie Kit from the intimacy experts at Foria. Packed with mini versions of their best-selling essentials, it’s the ideal way to explore using CBD in the bedroom. The inclusion of CBD helps to relax and enhance arousal, and some even report that it helps make sex less painful when battling things like endometriosis and other pelvic and genital pain conditions. (What’s sexier than that?) From relieving tension to increasing blood flow, their Sex Oil, Awaken Arousal Oil and Intimacy suppositories can enliven and electrify your time together–even if you’re squeezing it in during naptime.



Jimmy Jane Form 2 Pro

Jimmy Jane


Form Pro 2

Ok, maybe this is sexier than that. Meet the best selling Form Pro 2 from luxury sex toy brand JimmyJane. Ideal for anyone who craves external stimulation, this compact little friend is small but mighty. The three inch tall vibe packs a powerful duo motor that allows each “ear” to vary the vibration and intensity independently which tickles and teases in a way that’s erotic not robotic. There are five vibration patterns and five intensity levels to choose from which are easy to switch between without busting your groove. Since it’s so small, it’s great for partner play but given its prowess, you’re totally going to reach for it solo.

vspot oh orgasm arousal serum



Oh Orgasm Arousal Serum

Sure there are 8,000 nerves down there, but sometimes that big finish is as elusive as your chance to shower in peace. If you’re looking for a way to kick things into gear, the medical grade arousal serum from VSpot may be just the ticket. Developed by gynecologists and scientists, VSPOT OH increases circulation and sensitivity when applied morning and night for two weeks. The result? Those fireworks you’ve been missing. It’s just a tiny bit tingly, but not overly so and makes a great addition in the moment as well.


Esther Perel


Where Should We Begin–A Game of Stories

Infuse date nights with excitement and fresh energy with this fun and beautiful game designed by relationship and intimacy guru Esther Perel. Through prompt cards that set the mood and direction (ex. “Share something crazy”) and story cards that provide the first line of an answer (ex. “A phone number I need to delete…”) you’re guaranteed to learn something new and thrilling no matter how many times you’ve heard their best stories. Get ready for instant memories and enhanced connection.

The Bouqs The Juliet

The Bouqs


The Juliet

A rose-filled bouquet is the most V-Day appropriate gift ever, and none are more special than this one. Made solely of 15 iconic David Austin Juliet roses which have been bred to perfection from their abundant petals to their gorgeous peach ombre hue, it’s a romantic and sophisticated stunner.

real fun wow partnership print

Real Fun Wow


Partnership Print

Minimal but meaningful artwork is a gift everyone gets to enjoy. With a nod to your connection, this simple piece is easy to integrate into almost any decor.

kinn petite heart signet ring

Kinn Studio


Heart Signet Ring

Inspired by traditional Irish Claddagh rings—which symbolize love and friendship–this piece is the perfect gift for a bestie, or yourself. The lay-flat profile means it’s easy to wear even when you’ve got your hands in, well, everything.

Lure Deluxe Intimacy Oil



Intimacy Oil

Sexual pleasure is about all the sensations, and the Lure Deluxe Intimacy Oil can help to heighten them. The silky soft formula is made with just Organic MCT coconut oil and organically grown, full spectrum CBD which is scent-free and flavorless to use with abandon. It’s perfect for loving (or spicy!) massages and when used in your most intimate areas, it can help keep things lubricated which, let’s be honest, is totally key. The best part? Unlike regular lube which is cold, wet and sticky this is the exact opposite. In fact, the softness it leaves behind rivals any fancy moisturizer!