A toddler-approved Trader Joe's shopping list, from a registered dietician

As if we needed more of a reason to love TJ's!

Karell Roxas

This morning, my daughter had an epic meltdown because we were out of Trader Joe's "Fig Walks Into a Bar" bars. I acknowledge that I had a pantry full of other choices and I should not give in to the tantrums of a threenager.

However, on this particular morning, my patience was already thin, and I just needed her freak-out to stop. I buckled her in the car and took her to the local TJs (that is 30 minutes away from our home BTW) and told her to tell me what she would eat. Our home has been through almost every food item in that store, so she is basically a TJ's connoisseur at this point.


Here is what she came up with. Everything is mom and dietitian-approved, and for the record, most choices are the only vegetable that enters her body without being immediately spat out.

1. This Fig Walks Into a Bar bars.

This is number one on the list. No other brand would do, and I am not that upset about that. Although I don't tend to LOVE cereal bars, this one is trans-fat free, and that is surprisingly hard to find.

2. Freeze-dried Strawberries.

These berries are freeze-dried with no added sugar. I love these because I can keep them in my mom-bag and don't have to worry about then getting rotten. My daughter loves them because they are crunchy…and to a 3-year-old crunchy is hilarious.

3. Cauliflower pizza crust.

As a dietitian, I see many clients overindulge on cauliflower pizza crust because they think it is a vegetable and don't realize it also contains cornstarch and potato starch (and it isn't calorie free!). For a 3-year-old who refuses to eat vegetables, using this crust sneaks in some cauliflower without a protest. I also love how she can help make her own pizza and choose which toppings she wants. The crust is also trans-fat free which is a definite plus

4. Contemplates Inner Peas.

Girlfriend can go to town on these, and I am totally okay with that. They are super-cheap and provide 5 gm plant-based protein and 4 gm fiber per serving. I am always looking for snacks that contain protein to help keep everyone more satisfied.

5. Crispy Crunchy Okra.

For me, I am not a lover of these snacks. At 14 gm fat per bag (3 gm being saturated) I think that is a hefty price for a vegetable. Considering that this is likely the only thing that is naturally green that my daughter will consume, I'll give this a hall pass for her. She gets 11 gm fiber and a ton of vitamins and minerals per serving, so it is definitely better than a bag of Oreos!

6. Pistachio nutmeats.

I love pistachios for the magnesium, manganese, and other nutrients, but don't enjoy the process of shelling. Shelling under the pressure of having a hangry 3-year-old hover over you makes the process even more undesirable. Cue the pistachio nutmeats to the rescue. They are shelled pistachios! Genius!

7. Fish sticks.

I'm not sure why this is the only brand of fish sticks that my daughter will eat. I don't question it…I just buy it.

8. Uncured turkey bacon.

This is such an easy protein source that isn't fried fast-food chicken nuggets. I love how it is uncured and nitrate free. It is super easy to make, and my daughter is happy to eat it!

9. Cage-free, hard-cooked, peeled eggs.

I know I know…how hard is it to boil an egg, right? Sometimes mama needs to take some shortcuts, and if that means paying a premium for eggs that are already boiled and peeled so be it.

10. Apple and carrot fruit sauce crusher.

It has the word "carrot" in there, and my daughter doesn't gag when she eats this. That is good enough for me!

11. Mac and Cheese.

Need I say more?

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I never wanted to be a mom. It wasn't something I ever thought would happen until I fell madly in love with my husband—who knew very well he wanted children. While he was a natural at entertaining our nephews or our friends' kids, I would awkwardly try to interact with them, not really knowing what to say or do.

Our first pregnancy was a surprise, a much-wanted one but also a unicorn, "first try" kind of pregnancy. As my belly grew bigger, so did my insecurities. How do you even mom when you never saw motherhood in your future? I focused all my uncertainties on coming up with a plan for the delivery of my baby—which proved to be a terrible idea when my dreamed-of unmedicated vaginal birth turned into an emergency C-section. I couldn't even start motherhood the way I wanted, I thought. And that feeling happened again when I couldn't breastfeed and instead had to pump and bottle-feed. And once more, when all the stress from things not going my way turned into debilitating postpartum anxiety that left me not really enjoying my brand new baby.

As my baby grew, slowly so did my confidence that I could do this. When he would tumble to the ground while learning how to walk and only my hugs could calm him, I felt invincible. But on the nights he wouldn't sleep—whether because he was going through a regression, a leap, a teeth eruption or just a full moon—I would break down in tears to my husband telling him that he was a better parent than me.

Then I found out I was pregnant again, and that this time it was twins. I panicked. I really cannot do two babies at the same time. I kept repeating that to myself (and to my poor husband) at every single appointment we had because I was just terrified. He, of course, thought I could absolutely do it, and he got me through a very hard pregnancy.

When the twins were born at full term and just as big as singleton babies, I still felt inadequate, despite the monumental effort I had made to grow these healthy babies and go through a repeat C-section to make sure they were both okay. I still felt my skin crawl when they cried and thought, What if I can't calm them down? I still turned to my husband for diaper changes because I wasn't a good enough mom for twins.

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When I go out with the three kids by myself and start sweating about everything that could go wrong (poop explosions times three), I remind myself that I am enough to handle it all, even with a little humor.

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Every time I look down, there it is, shining back at me. I am enough.

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