Welcome to Club Mom! Here’s your goodie bag. It’s filled with under-eye circles, a few fine lines you never noticed before, and a sticker for your back that says “Tell me I look tired. I love that!”

OK, I’m kidding.

Kids have nothing to do with it. That’s just part of adulthood, I guess.

It’s OK, my friend. There’s comfort in numbers, and no part of motherhood is more universal than exhaustion. (When does parenting get less exhausting? If you find out, let us know.) Luckily, there are plenty of products out there to help.

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But before I even get to products to look awake, let’s talk about hydration. No amount of skincare or makeup can make up for being dehydrated. If your body is a dried up corn husk on the inside, it’s going to start to look like that on the outside. (Note that if you’re already hydrated, drinking extra water doesn’t offer more skin effects, however.) Getting enough water helps keep skin hydrated and hydrated skin is the key to looking fresh and well rested.

I’ve scoured the internet for the best beauty products that will help you look like you actually got a full night’s sleep—even if you were awake nursing a baby or staring at the ceiling flipping through your “what to worry about” Rolodex.

From tubing mascaras that don’t flake or smudge to soothing eye masks that banish the blue in less than ten minutes, tired mamas need these beauty products in their bathroom STAT.

The best beauty products to look awake

YSE Beauty Wide Awake Brightening Eye Cream

YSE Beauty

$68

Wide Awake Brightening Eye Cream

As an elder Millennial, I’ve recently come to terms with the fact that “covering up” under-eye circles often looks worse than simply letting them fly free. Concealer settles into fine lines and piling it on doesn’t help. The fresher, more effective option? The hydrating Wide Awake Brightening Eye Cream from YSE Beauty. A little bit skincare, a little bit make-up, it works both instantly and over time to help improve the look of dark circles and wrinkles. The formula itself is creamy without being too heavy and is a universal peachy shade that’s designed to balance out bluish tones. The oh-so-luxe applicator allows you to glide it on without tugging at delicate skin–just finish it off with a few taps of the ring finger. Some days I find it allows me to skip concealer completely, but even when I feel like I want more coverage, the extra hydration ensures my make-up isn’t working against me.

Wander Beauty Baggage Claim Eye Masks

Wander Beauty

$26

Baggage Claim Eye Masks

Are they the most ‘grammable eye masks on the market? Yes. Are they some of the most effective? Also yes. Less slippy than others we’ve tried, these paper masks are drenched in hydrating and smoothing glycerin, panthenol, aloe leaf juice, and calendula extract to do battle against tired eyes. The gold foil fabric helps trap the serum so it sinks in thoroughly leaving you refreshed and ready for the day ahead.

Shiseido Eyelash Curler

Shiseido

$24

Eyelash Curler

Curled lashes are also a super easy way to open up the eye and in turn look more awake. Give them a quick squeeze before applying mascara and voila! Bright eyed and bushy-tailed.

Milani Highly Rated Lash Extensions Tubing Mascara

Milani

$13.99

Highly Rated Lash Extensions Tubing Mascara

Speaking of mascara, you’re going to want to apply one of those too. My baby lashes make black mascara a non-negotiable in my makeup routine–without it I’m rocking some serious sick day vibes. No thank you. While I’ve tried many, this one currently ranks as my favorite. The tubing formula doesn’t leave a single flake or smudge (a situation that only adds to the raccoon effect) and comes off with just a bit of warm water and gentle pressure. And bonus! It’s also one of the least expensive I’ve tested, too.

Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez Brow Harmony Shape & Fill Duo

Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

$27

Brow Harmony Shape & Fill Duo

Don’t forget the brows! A defined and sculpted brow instantly opens up the eye area and gives the appearance of a good night’s sleep. I’m a big fan of this waterproof brow putty which even the most novice makeup wearers can use. First, use the spoolie end of the cute little brush (which conveniently slides right into the compact) to comb out your brows and get them all headed in the right direction. Then, with the angled brush, fill them in as light or dark as you prefer. Expensive professional brow tint? Never heard of her.

Algenist GENIUS Liquid Collagen Serum

Algenist

$115

GENIUS Liquid Collagen Serum

I learned about this holy grail product from my personal shopping guru (and host of Gee Thanks, Just Bought It) Caroline Moss who calls it “my you-can-only-bring-one-thing skincare item.” Its vegan collagen and patented alguronic acid plumps and hydrates to give your skin a bouncy, fresh look that can be paired with an additional moisturizer. Granted the results aren’t instant but many report seeing a visible difference in about a week or so.

Clarins Total Eye Lift Anti-Aging Eye Cream

Clarins

$92

Total Eye Lift Anti-Aging Eye Cream

While most skincare is formulated for the long game, nothing’s more satisfying than instant results. Case in point? The Total Eye Lift Anti-Aging Eye Cream from Clarins. According to one Motherly staffer, “If you’re going to spend money on skincare, spend it here. I’ve tried everything from cheap to pricey and this is the only eye cream that really does what it says (and does it all!). Gets rid of puffiness, fine lines, adds brightness—plus you can use it on your lids which is ideal for puffy eyes/hooded lids AND it also works as an eyelash and eyebrow growth serum. Bottom line: Pry this one from my cold, dead hands—never going back!”

IT Cosmetics Bye Bye Under Eye Full Coverage Anti-Aging Waterproof Concealer

IT Cosmetics

$29

Bye Bye Under Eye Full Coverage Anti-Aging Waterproof Concealer

I can’t even begin to estimate how many concealers I’ve tried in my decades-long quest to banish my under eye circles. Even before kids they were the bane of my existence and now that I’m in my 40s, my list of product requirements is even longer. A few months ago I finally decided to bring in the big guns and move on up to the raved about IT Cosmetics Bye Bye Under Eye Concealer. I figured if it’s hard working enough to cover tattoos (!) it should be able to tackle my raccoon face. And my oh my does it deliver. The thick and creamy formula somehow manages to work like spackle but not look like spackle. (Beware. A little goes a long way.) Just warm up a tiny amount with your finger and gently tap your dark circles away.

Westman Atelier Blush

Westman Atelier

$48

Baby Cheeks Lip + Cheek Cream Blush Stick

As someone who often wakes up looking like death warmed over, it should be hard to say which potions, lotions and makeup products to credit with making me look alive. However, I can say without a doubt this is one of them. The highly pigmented Baby Cheeks Lip + Cheek Cream Blush Stick from Westman Atelier in Poppet gets full credit for bringing a healthy flush to my face from morning to night. Unlike powder blush, the creamy stick formula offers a hydrating glow and blends perfectly with just my fingertips. And yes, it’s definitely on the spendy side, but in my experience, I’ve used it daily for almost two years and it’s nowhere near used up! (Should I be concerned about this? Only time will tell.)

Winky Lux Rainbow pH Tinted Lip Balm

Winky Lux

$18

Rainbow pH Tinted Lip Balm

Yes, brightening your eyes definitely help you look more fresh faced, but the truth is, bringing some color to your lips goes a long way as well. If lipstick feels too fussy (or you’re like me and never want to wear it), the Rainbow pH Tinted Lip Balm from Winky Lux uses your own pH to give a “your lips but better” flush. I’ve made all my friends try it to prove its magic and it hasn’t failed yet!

 

NEWGO Cooling eye mask

Newgo

$7.99

Cooling Eye Mask

Struggling with puffy eyes? Same, sister, same. On the days I wake up looking like I slept in a cloud of pollen, this makes all the difference. Pop it into the freezer for about 15 minutes (just long enough for it to get crispy cold but not frozen solid) and then strap it to your head for as long as you have time. The icy chill is surprisingly relaxing and helps keep my pufferfish vibe to a minimum. Personally, I always use it with the plush side against my face, but you can also opt to wear it gel bead side in for a deeper chill.