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There's just something magical about summer in the city. With a plethora of cultural opportunities like museums and theaters and an abundance of restaurants to please every palate (not to mention a coffee shop on every corner to fuel you, mama!), big cities often have something for everyone—making them ideal family vacation destinations.

Which isn't to say there can't be pitfalls. Busier sidewalks and longer days out can spell disaster for fussy infants and toddlers, but with a little prep, everyone can enjoy the best of what the city has to offer.

Whether you are staying for a day or a week, here are eight tips for making your urban family vacation a success.

1. Invest in a lightweight stroller.

We took the Joolz Hub stroller for a test drive in Miami with Ana Ortuño Aravena—a founder, stylist, and experienced urban mama—to track down some of the best new spots for families visiting the Magic City.


Cities often mean public transportation and crowded sidewalks. And whether you're schlepping your family up or down a staircase to the train or piling everyone in a cab, you need a stroller that can go the distance. A compact stroller, like new the Joolz Hub, is the perfect option.

The Hub, which stands for Hello Urban Beauty, also has plenty of undercarriage to store your daily necessities, meaning less for you to carry. Plus, with it's bigger back wheels, it will glide over uneven terrain and help you conquer your to-do list long after vacation ends. Learn more or shop the Joolz Hub here.

2. Embrace a sturdy baby carrier.

If baby wearing isn't a part of your every day, you might want to reconsider it for your next trip (especially if you're traveling with multiple children). Double strollers can often be too bulky for crowds, so pop the older child in your compact stroller and wear infants for maximum maneuverability.

Plus, strolling through a museum while wearing your baby can be a great way to soothe them into an afternoon nap even while on the go. For bigger kids, mini scooters or kickboards on the back of strollers can be a great way to keep everyone moving together.

3. Pack a sound machine for the hotel.

The better you can recreate your kids' sleeping environment while traveling, the more likely you all are to get a good night's sleep. Many hotels can provide cots and pack-n-plays for children to sleep on, but your best bet for stopping an early wakeup call in its tracks is to pack your sound machine. (Take that, neighbors who like to visit the ice machine at four in the morning!) And, fortunately, most hotel rooms already offer light-blocking drapes to keep the room as dark as possible.

4. Opt for side streets if your kids are getting overwhelmed.

A perfect stop to shop? Stroll through the Brickell City Centre—Miami's brand new three story shopping center located in the heart of the city.


Yes, the main drag is exciting, but when everything is already so new, it can sometimes be too much stimulation for those little eyes. When traveling in between tourist spots, take the opportunity to explore the path less taken by strolling down side streets and less heavily populated areas. It's also the best way to discover your favorite city's lesser known gems.

5. Plan your day around the parks.

Need coffee, mama? Caffeinate at the hip local coffee spot, Panther Coffee. We recommend their store in Wynwood.


Virtually every major city has an incredible park system for kids. As you plan your itinerary, check out your destination's parks and rec website for locations and offerings. That way, if (and when) your kids need a break, you'll know exactly where to go to let them burn off some steam.

6. Speaking of which...under-schedule your days.

An absolute must when coming to Miami? Visit Wynwood, the city's arts district known for it's brilliant murals. Stop at Wynwood Walls—a free outdoor museum that allows your kids to take in urban graffiti and street art art up close. Let your kids roam and work out their wiggles while you snap pictures.


Yes, it can be tempting to pack every hour of the day with activities (especially if the city you're visiting offers a lot to do!), but you will be much happier if you plan the day with your child in mind. Getting around a city is rarely as convenient as the suburbs, which means you need to factor in extra time for public transportation.

Plus, remember that just being in a new environment can be fascinating for little ones, so plan your day in a way that you'll be able to stop to take in surprises—like playing in a great water fountain at a park or simply watching the big machines work at a construction site.

7. Dress for your environment(s).

For health conscious parents, Dr. Smood is a beautiful shop with a very European feel, offering coffee, tea, juice and bites for the whole family.


Hoofing it through your favorite city? Wear (or at least pack) an awesome pair of comfortable walking shoes. Spending a summer week outdoors? Stash a change of clothes for your kids so you don't have to worry about letting them play in a fountain or getting dirty at the playground. City vacations often mean long days away from your hotel, so make sure everyone has what they need to stay comfortable all day.

8. Pack a phone charger or extra battery.

On hot, sunny days when kids need extra hydration, stop by 1-800-LUCKY to cool down with the unicorn dessert of their dreams. (Afternoon pit stops are the most family friendly time to visit.)


While you'll most likely be able to find a place to plug in when you stop for coffee or snacks, remember that you'll probably be using your phone more often to take pictures and navigate through your new environment. Start your day with a fully charged phone and pack a spare battery or travel charger to make sure you've got enough juice to get through the evening.

From the Miami Children's Museum to a visit to Jungle Island for true outdoor adventures to a Hub stroller ride through the streets—Miami is a city with art, culture and plenty for kiddos.


Here's to a memorable vacation and safe city travels, mama! You've got this!


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It was a historical moment for the world and a scary moment for a woman who had just become a mother for the first time. When the Duchess of Cambridge stepped out of the Lindo Wing at St. Mary's Hospital on July 22, 2013, with her new baby in her arms she was happy—but understandably scared, too.

Kate Middleton recently appeared on Giovanna Fletcher's Happy Mum, Happy Baby podcast and when Fletcher asked her about her postpartum debut Kate said she felt a little freaked out when she stepped out with her newborn.

"Yeah, slightly terrifying, slightly terrifying, I'm not going to lie," Kate said.

During the podcast the Duchess opened up about her pregnancy and birth experiences, explaining how much hypnobirthing helped her and that she didn't know whether she was delivering a prince or princess until Prince George was born as she'd opted to be surprised.

She was surprised and thrilled when she met her son, and looked forward to post-pregnancy life after spending her pregnancy quite ill with hyperemesis gravidarum (a seriously debilitating form of extreme morning sickness). She was happy, but was also (very understandably) overwhelmed. In addition to all the pressure new moms feel, Kate had an army of photographers waiting outside the hospital for her.

"Everything goes in a bit of a blur. I think, yeah I did stay in hospital overnight, I remember it was one of the hottest days and night with huge thunderstorms so I didn't get a huge amount of sleep, but George did, which was really great," she explained. "I was keen to get home because, for me, being in hospital, I had all the memories of being in hospital because of being sick [with acute morning sickness] so it wasn't a place I wanted to hang around in. So, I was really desperate to get home and get back to normality."

Kate wanted to get home, but she also did want to share her baby boy with the public who had been so supportive of her young family, she explains.

"Everyone had been so supportive and both William and I were really conscious that this was something that everyone was excited about and you know we're hugely grateful for the support that the public had shown us, and actually for us to be able to share that joy and appreciation with the public, I felt was really important," she shared, adding that "Equally it was coupled with a newborn baby, and inexperienced parents, and the uncertainty of what that held, so there were all sorts of mixed emotions."

"All sorts of mixed emotions."

The now-iconic images of The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge exiting the hospital with their firstborn have gone down in history, but so has Kate's bravery that day.

There's been a lot written about whether those pictures put pressure on other moms who might not feel ready for heels and blowouts right after giving birth, but one thing critics of the photos often miss is the positive impact it had on other young women.

Yes, Kate looked beautiful, but she also looked like a woman whose body had just given birth—and the iconic images of her in that polka-dot dress taught a generation of women that the female body isn't an elastic band and that recovering from birth takes time.

"I, myself remember being really surprised when Kate Middleton came out of the hospital holding Prince George," Tina, now a mom herself and a model of postpartum realness in Mothercare's "Body Proud Mums campaign" explained last year.

Tina recalls how Kate's postpartum appearance showed her a reality society hadn't: "She had the baby bump, and I remember being surprised that your belly doesn't just go down after giving birth. I also thought how stupid I was to have ever thought it would. I guess pre-children you just have unrealistic expectations."

Tina wasn't stupid, she just hadn't been shown the truth.

So thank you, Kate, for stepping out of that hospital in 2013, despite being terrified, and showing the world your beautiful baby and your bump.


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Despite the encouraging growth of free or subsidized preschools in some American cities, the fact remains that preschool and daycare cost about as much as rent in many areas.

But there's some good news, which is that parents who pay for preschool or daycare while they're at work may qualify for a credit that can help you save money on taxes this year. Here's what all parents should know before filing their returns.

Is preschool tuition tax-deductible?

The sum of your child's entire preschool tuition is not tax deductible, but you may be able to get something better than a deduction: a credit called the Child and Dependent Care Credit, worth up to $1,050 for one child and up to $2,100 for two or more kids.

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How do I know if I'm eligible for the Child Dependent Care Tax Credit?

There are a few criteria to be eligible for the Child and Dependent Care Credit:

  • If you have someone take care of your child so you can work or look for work
  • Your child is under the age of 13 at the end of the tax year (no age limit if they are disabled)
  • You must be able to claim your child as a dependent
  • Your filing status must be single, head of household, qualifying widow or widower with a qualifying child, or married filing jointly.

Does preschool tuition count as dependent care?

Yes, it does count if you are paying someone to take care of your child so you can work or look for work. Day camps, such as summer camps and sports camps, count as well, but overnight camps don't.

How much could I potentially get back on taxes for preschool tuition?

If you are able to claim the Child and Dependent Care Credit, you may be able to claim up to $1,050 for one child and up to $2,100 for two or more children.

The great thing about credits is they are a dollar for dollar reduction of your taxes. So if you owe taxes of $1,050 and have one child, you may qualify for a credit of up to $1,050 and wipe out the taxes you owe.

The credit is based on a sliding scale: Depending on your income, your credit is 20%-35% of your childcare expenses up to $3,000 (or $1,050), and 20%-35% of childcare expenses up to $6,000 (or $2,100) for two or more kids.

The bottom line: While this tax credit is unlikely to completely cover your child's preschool tuition for the year, don't miss out on this tax credit if you're paying for preschool or daycare for your child so that you can work. And remember to check your eligibility for other tax credits and deductions for families, including the Child Tax Credit and the Earned Income Credit.
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Celestial baby names are flying high right now, and the brightest star of them all? Well, it's actually Luna, the name of the Roman goddess of the moon, and the Latin word for "moon."

At #23 in the US in 2019, Luna's rise has been, well, astronomical ever since it re-entered the Top 1000 in 2003, for the first time in almost a century. That was the year that Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix was first published, featuring the kooky but courageous Luna Lovegood.

The once-unique baby name has since been picked up by stylish celebrity parents such as Penelope Cruz, Uma Thurman and John Legend, and now ranks in the Top 100 in at least 18 other countries, including Australia, Chile, Denmark, France, Italy, Norway and Slovenia.

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But if Luna's meteoric rise to the top of the baby name popularity charts puts you off, here are 100 more magical, moon-inspired baby names to consider.

Baby names that mean moon

Girls' names that mean "moon" include a multitude of attractive Turkish names containing the element ay, meaning (you guessed it!) "moon." These range from rising international star Ayla to popular picks like Miray, Belinay and Aysima, which are all in the current Turkish Top 50 for girls.

Boy names that mean "moon" include dozens of dynamic Japanese names like Michika, Reito and Tsukio, which can all be formed from different kanji combinations to give various moon-related meanings.

Moon-inspired girl names

  1. Aruna: This pretty Japanese name, which can mean "moon love" (depending on the kanji characters used), is a perfect underused alternative to popular A-sandwich choices like Aria and Aurora.
  2. Esmeray: A beautiful Turkish name with the evocative meaning of "dark moon", which might appeal to lovers of rapid riser Esme.
  3. Lusine: Also spelled Lucine or Lusineh, this sophisticated Armenian choice could make for an unexpected route to Lucy or Lou.
  4. Mahina: A moon goddess in Hawaiian mythology, whose attractive name literally means "moon" in the Hawaiian language.
  5. Sasithorn: This poetic word for the moon is also used as a name in its native Thailand, pronounced "sah-see-TAWN". Sweet short form Sasi also means "moon".

And here are a few more of our favorite lunar names for girls from around the globe:

  1. Adzumi
  2. Aysel
  3. Channary
  4. Hala
  5. Indu
  6. Livana
  7. Lua
  8. Mahrukh
  9. Miray
  10. Neoma
  11. Orana
  12. Quilla
  13. Runa
  14. Saran
  15. Sihana
  16. Tsuki
  17. Vinterny
  18. Volana
  19. Zira
  20. Zulay

Moon-inspired boy names

  1. Ainar: This strong-sounding Kazakh name is actually unisex, meaning "male moon", "fire moon" or "pomegranate moon" (what a great image!).
  2. Isildur: A literary lunar name from J.R.R. Tolkien's legendarium, in which it belongs to a heroic king.
  3. Jerah: A rare Biblical boys' name with a contemporary sound, which could make for a great underused alternative to the likes of Noah and Jeremiah.
  4. Mani: Properly spelled Máni, this energetic mini name belongs to the personification of the moon in Norse mythology.
  5. Vikesh: A strong and striking Hindu name which is fairly common in India, but virtually unknown elsewhere.

And here's a selection of other great moon names for boys from around the globe:

  1. Asaki
  2. Aydemir
  3. Badar
  4. Chanchai
  5. Dal
  6. Ehaan
  7. Hilal
  8. Iyar
  9. Kamer
  10. Koray
  11. Luan
  12. Mahan
  13. Maziar
  14. Naito
  15. Nantu
  16. Qamar
  17. Rakesh
  18. Rua
  19. Zoro
  20. Zunair

Galactic moon names

We recently reported on the rise of planetary baby names, as well as of mythological names relating to the heavens, like Apollo and Zephyr: Greek gods of the sun and the west wind, respectively.

But how about the names of other moons? There are some stellar options out there, mostly drawn from myth, legend and literature—right on trend, but rarely used.

Galactic moon-inspired girl names

  1. Amalthea: A moon of Jupiter, named for the goat (or goat-keeper) who raised the infant Zeus. It would make a lovely longer form for the fashionable mini-name Thea.
  2. Calypso: A fun-filled name with a lively rhythm and musical links to the West Indies. Callie and Cleo could make for great nicknames.
  3. Leda: The name of the beautiful mother of Helen of Troy in Greek mythology is surprisingly underused, despite its simple, international appeal: it was given to just 17 baby girls in 2018.
  4. Thebe: Far rarer than Phoebe, but with the same light and simple sound, Thebe is another moon of Jupiter.
  5. Skathi: This tiny moon of Saturn is named for Skaði, the Norse goddess of winter and archery.

And here are a few more appealing faraway moon names for girls:

  1. Anthe
  2. Belinda
  3. Bianca
  4. Carme
  5. Cressida
  6. Despina
  7. Elara
  8. Galatea
  9. Helene
  10. Io
  11. Larissa
  12. Mab
  13. Miranda
  14. Ophelia
  15. Pandora
  16. Perdita
  17. Rhea
  18. Rosalind
  19. Thalassa
  20. Titania

Galactic moon-inspired boy names

  1. Ariel: This handsome Hebrew name may have become far more popular for girls in the US, thanks to a certain Little Mermaid, but it's a truly unisex choice in Israel: #4 for boys and #23 for girls in the last year on record (2016).
  2. Fenrir: The name of a monstrous wolf in Norse mythology, and of an evil werewolf in the Harry Potter books—but if Wolf itself can catch on…
  3. Hyperion: One of the Titans in Greek mythology, Hyperion lends his majestic name to another of Saturn's moons.
  4. Narvi: Also spelled Narfi, this quirky Norse mythology name belongs to the father of Nótt, the personification of the night.
  5. Umbriel: A moon of Uranus, named (along with Ariel and Belinda) for a character from Alexander Pope's The Rape of the Lock. The name was probably inspired by Latin umbra "shadow."

And here are more magical moon names for boys from myth and legend:

  1. Aegir
  2. Atlas
  3. Caliban
  4. Ferdinand
  5. Francisco
  6. Janus
  7. Loge
  8. Neso
  9. Nix
  10. Oberon
  11. Pan
  12. Prospero
  13. Proteus
  14. Puck
  15. Sao
  16. Stephano
  17. Surtur
  18. Titan
  19. Trinculo
  20. Ymir

This post by Emma Waterhouse was first published on Nameberry

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