20+ thoughtful Valentine’s day gifts for him

Meet the most versatile blanket ever. Seriously. It’s the perfect companion for everything—from lounging on the couch to camping (or glamping) in any season. (Think of it like your love in blanket form.) The puffy design packs down for easy transport and a DWR coating makes it water, odor and stain-resistant.

This is not just a gift for him, it’s also a gift for you! (Sneaky. I like it.) Give him one notebook and keep the other for yourself. The gratitude prompts give you a place to capture all the small (and big!) appreciations you have for one another each day over the course of 20 weeks. And hey, go easy on yourselves. You’ve been living through a pandemic for three years. If some of those days are filled in with things like “you only left SIX dishes in the sink today,” we still call that a win.

Adventurers and travelers will find endless utility in the weatherproof PackStack from Hillsound. The crescent shape is ideal for backpacks to help maximize space and keep things organized, whether he’s off rock climbing, shooting photos or simply enjoying the great outdoors. Throw in an IOU for a camping adventure and he’ll wonder how he ever got so lucky.

Show me a dude that doesn’t appreciate a big ol’ box of snacks–especially ones this good. The “Sweet and Spicy” box from Eastern Standard Provisions covers all the bases (well, the two bases that matter–sweet and spicy) with a stellar selection of their signature pretzels and delicious Belgian waffles. Paired with the included variety of sauces, salts and sprinkles it’s the tastiest way to celebrate.

Perfect for the whiskey-loving adventurer, this handsome leather flask can be customized with a topographic map of any mountain he holds near and dear.

From the golf course to the elementary school soccer field, a tough umbrella can be a total lifesaver. The ones that turn inside out with a strong gust? Not so much. This bad boy is designed to withstand 55 mph winds and is guaranteed to make Al Roker jealous.

Perhaps the most thoughtful keychain a dad could have, this leather beauty nests the photo of your choice safely inside. It’s printed on high-quality stainless steel, making it a durable heirloom he’ll treasure for decades.

Even if he doesn’t think he’s a slipper guy, Olukai is bound to convince him otherwise. Designed with their signature fold-down heel, these leather indoor/outdoor slip ons are lined with sheepskin to keep his feet warm and toasty without getting sweaty. Apologies in advance if he starts wearing them out of the house.

These star maps feature the constellations as they were at an exact date and time. You can personalize with up to three maps on a single panel and choose from three different fonts to make it truly one of a kind.

Keep him warm and toasty whether he’s building snow forts with the kiddos or cruising down the mountain with the best base layer on the market. Made from breathable 100% Merino wool (that’s impressively soft against the skin), the 250 Base Layer Crew from Smartwool is made to add warmth without bulk. And even though it’s a base, we think it looks pretty smart all on its own.

Display his watch collection like the works of art they are! This minimalist wooden stand is a gorgeous addition to the top of his dresser and can be personalized with any phrase or name you’d like. Need suggestions?

“We love you ’til the end of time.”

“Dad time is the best time.”

“You’re late again.” (Keepin’ it real.)

You love him, but maybe don’t love helping locate his keys every morning. Pressure’s off! Apple AirTag helps keep track of all the important things. One-tap set up pairs them with his iPhone or iPad so he can track their whereabouts no matter where they wander off to. There’s also a ton of cool accessories designed to accommodate them, like wallets, airpod cases and keychains.

Who says cards have to be a snooze fest? The fun and colorful pop up cards from Love Pop feature well-known characters and dad-approved themes to send well wishes he’ll keep (and display!) forever.

Remember when you all were wild and crazy and stayed up all night partying and getting your groove on? Now you’ve got kids and well, there’s excitement in things like finding the just the right pillow. #facts

If he’s a side sleeper, the dreamy Scrumptious side pillow from Honeydew Sleep is the gift he never knew he needed. Designed to support a side sleeper’s spine alignment, the uniquely-shaped pillow is filled with copper infused foam that can be customized to exactly the fill level he desires for the most perfect sleep imaginable.

With its self-sharpening steel blade, 20 built-in length settings and an integrated vacuum system that corrals the mess, this highly-rated beard trimmer is a favorite among beard-havers and bathroom-sharers alike.

Sunday pancakes call for something that looks profesh. The hard-working Larkspur from Rendall covers enough clothing to keep it from getting stained, plus it has deep enough pockets that can hold a dishtowel or a phone. Even better, the small LA-based brand sources and manufactures everything right in the heart of the city.

Treat your dude to an at-home spa sesh (and maybe even convince him that skincare isn’t only for the ladies) with these man-friendly masks from Jaxon Lane. The larger size is designed to fit his mug and the hydrogel material works better against beards than the more papery sheet masks out there.

Woe is the fella who still hangs a car wash vending machine tree freshener from their rearview mirror. Step his game up with the sophisticated wooden car fresheners from Drift. The starter set comes with a metal clip that slides on to the car visor and a scented bar with a magnet on the back. Choose from a variety of elevated (and natural!) scents like amber, teak and coffee that linger for about a month.

Nothing makes a desk look happier than a plant. Except perhaps one with heart-shaped leaves that reminds him you’re thinking of him. And he doesn’t need a green thumb to keep it alive! After all, philodendrons are pretty forgiving. Another parallel? Maybe.

For the coffee aficionado who takes his joe on the go, the Fellow Carter Move Mug is key. It’s the only travel mug that gives you the full coffee-drinking experience with all the aromas and tastes without compromise. The unique design features a snap-in splash guard to keep it from making mess while the inside ceramic coating keeps it hot without that dreaded metallic taste of stainless steel. And if you really want to make it special, you can personalize it with their initials or a favorite phrase like “I made coffee for you.”

As a 5′ 2″ woman, I have to admit I never really thought about the throw blanket struggles tall people suffer from. However, I do take snuggling VERY seriously, so when I learned about Big Blanket Co. they had all of my attention. At 10 x 10 their best-selling signature blankets are 50% bigger than a king size quilt–a must-have for movie night but double as the ultimate fort builder. (Because you’re never too old for that.)