Are You Paying Your Babysitter Enough?

5 babysitting pay facts that might surprise you.

Are You Paying Your Babysitter Enough?

*We’ve partnered with UrbanSitter to help you get a much-needed break from your kiddos.

What’s the cost of freedom, you might ask yourself on a Friday afternoon after surviving yet another week with your kid(s). It’s whatever your babysitter charges, that’s what! So let’s look at the numbers to make sure you’re paying your babysitter enough, but you know, not too much.

After talking with more than 20,000 families around the country about childcare costs, UrbanSitter has just released tons of info about how much you can expect to pay for a few hours alone with a glass of bubbly and your favorite nail tech. We love UrbanSitter because it’s more than just an app -- it unlocks your personal network, connecting you with tried and true babysitters of friends and parents from your moms groups or kid's school. UrbanSitter makes it so easy to find, book and pay sitters. Easy? Yep, we can get down with that.

Before you settle on your babysitting rate, here’s 5 things you need to know.

1. An hour of freedom costs less than three lattes.

The national average babysitting rate is $16.43 an hour, which basically equals three venti cafe lattes from Starbucks. That doesn’t mean you need to buck up though; average rates vary from state to state (so make sure you check out yours here!).

2. If you wanna save money, move to Phoenix.

To get the most bang for your babysitting buck, head the Phoenix where the hourly rate is the lowest in the country. According to UrbanSitter, an hour of babysitting ranges $11.83 to $14.14. San Francisco, on the other hand, is a good place to be a babysitter! Parents are paying $17.34/hour for one child in the Bay area, which is the highest in the country.

3. Adding an extra kid is only a couple bucks more.

If you’re thinking of growing to your family with a little sib, don’t let the price of babysitting scare you away! Handing over an extra kid to the babysitter should only increase the hourly rate by about two dollars. Not bad considering the extra diapers, bottles and spit up you’re bequeathing.

4. Extra perks go a long way.

When it comes to paying babysitters, it’s not just the hourly rate you have to think about. More than 80 percent of parents surveyed by UrbanSitter offer perks like free food and tickets to museums. If you can’t pay top dollar, extra perks and incentives go a long way to make sure you don’t lose your great sitter to Joey’s generous mom over there.

5. To tip or not to tip? Parents are split.

As many as 55 percent of parents told UrbanSitter they tack on a tip. About 30 percent say they just round up, while about 5 percent say they add on an extra 20 percent or more to the final bill. A good rule of thumb: if the sitter did a great job, give a tip! It’ll make them feel even more valued.

Still not quite sure what to pay? Check out UrbanSitter’s Annual Childcare Rate Survey here!

Then get a $50 credit off your first UrbanSitter booking or membership here with the code SCHOOLYEAR. Must be redeemed by Sept. 30, 2018.

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14 outdoor toys your kids will want to play with beyond summer

They transition seamlessly for indoor play.

With Labor day weekend in the rearview and back-to-school in full swing, most parents are fresh out of boxes to check on their "Fun Concierge" hit list. It's also the point of diminishing returns on investing in summer-only toys. So with that in mind, we've rounded up some of our favorite toys that are not only built to last but will easily make the transition from outdoor to indoor play. Even better, they're Montessori-friendly and largely open-ended so your kids can get a ton of use out of them.

From sunny backyard afternoons to rainy mornings stuck inside, these toys are sure to keep little ones engaged and entertained.

Meadow ring toss game

Plan Toys meadow ring toss game

Besides offering a fantastic opportunity to hone focus, coordination, determination and taking turns, lawn games are just plain fun. Set them up close together for the littles and spread them out when Mom and Dad get in on the action. With their low profile and rope rings, they're great for indoors as well.


Balance board

Plan Toys balance board

Balance boards are a fabulous way to get the wiggles out. This one comes with a rope attachment, making it suitable for even the youngest wigglers. From practicing their balance and building core strength to working on skills that translate to skateboarding and snowboarding, it's a year-round physical activity that's easy to bring inside and use between Zoom classes, too!


Detective set

Plan Toys detective setDetective Set

This set has everything your little detective needs to solve whatever mystery they might encounter: an eye glasses, walkie-talkie, camera, a red lens, a periscope and a bag. Neighborhood watch? Watch out.


Wooden doll stroller

Janod wooden doll strollerWooden Doll Stroller

Take their charges on a stroll around the block with this classic doll stroller. With the same versatility they're used to in their own ride, this heirloom quality carriage allows their doll or stuffy to face them or face the world.


Sand play set

Plan Toys sand set

Whether you're hitting the beach or the backyard sandbox, this adorable wooden sand set is ready for action. Each scoop has an embossed pattern that's perfect for sand stamping. They're also totally suitable for water play in the wild or the bathtub.


Water play set

Plan Toys water play set

Filled with sand or water, this tabletop sized activity set keeps little ones busy, quiet and happy. (A mama's ideal trifecta 😉). It's big enough to satisfy their play needs but not so big it's going to flood your floors if you bring the fun inside on a rainy day.


Mini golf set

Plan Toys mini golf set

Fore! This mini golf set is lawn and living room ready. Set up a backyard competition or incorporate into homeschooling brain breaks that shift focus and build concentration.


Vintage scooter balance bike

Janod retro scooter balance bike

Pedals are so 2010. Balance bikes are the way to go for learning to ride a bike while skipping the training wheels stage altogether. This impossibly cool retro scooter-style is built to cruise the neighborhood or open indoor space as they're learning.


Wooden rocking pegasus

plan toys wooden rocking pegasus

Your little will be ready to take flight on this fun pegasus. It gently rocks back and forth, but doesn't skimp on safety—its winged saddle, footrests and backrest ensure kids won't fall off whether they're rocking inside or outside.


Croquet set

Plan Toys croquet set

The cutest croquet set we've ever seen! With adorable animal face wooden balls and a canvas bag for easy clean up, it's also crafted to stick around awhile. Round after round, it's great for teaching kiddos math and problem-solving skills as well.


Wooden digital camera

fathers factory wooden digital camera

Kids get the chance to assemble the camera on their own then can adventure anywhere to capture the best moments. With two detachable magnetic lenses, four built-in filters and video recorder, your little photographer can tap into their creativity from summertime to the holidays.


Wooden bulldozer toy

plan toys wooden bulldozer toy

Whether they're digging up sand in the backyad or picking up toys inside, kids can get as creative as they want picking up and moving things around. Even better? Its wooden structure means it's not an eye sore to look at wherever your digger drops it.


Pull-along hippo

janod toys pull along hippo toy

There's just something so fun about a classic pull-along toy and we love that they seamlessly transition between indoor and outdoor play. Crafted from solid cherry and beechwood, it's tough enough to endure outdoor spaces your toddler takes it on.


Baby forest fox ride-on

janod toys baby fox ride on

Toddlers will love zooming around on this fox ride-on, and it's a great transition toy into traditional balance bikes. If you take it for a driveway adventure, simply use a damp cloth to wipe down the wheels before bringing back inside.


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