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Natalie is wearing Storq mini dress, Sophie Monet petal earrings, Garrett Leight x Clare V. sunglasses Name: Natalie Alcala Neighborhood: Silver Lake, Los Angeles, California Occupation: Founder & CEO, Fashion Mamas Baby’s Sex: Girl How would you describe your pregnant style? Lots of black, which isn't very different from my pre-preg style. However, I'm wearing much more form-fitting/body-conscious pieces right now because I'm loving the curves! Natalie is wearing Storq mini dress, Ben Taverniti Unravel bomber jacket, Supreme beanie, Nike Flyknit Air Force 1s (Photo by Vlad Galyuz). Have you had any challenges learning to dress your body during this pregnancy? I learned my preg style early on when I was expecting my now three-year-old son, Diego, so it's just more of the same. Lots of tight knit dresses! So far, what has surprised you most during your pregnancy? I'm most surprised by house different this pregnancy is from my last pregnancy. I was very sick during my first trimester this time, and I'm still going through tons of hormone changes. Instead of feeling euphoric like I did with Diego, I've been really emotional and quite introverted — which is very unlike me! I also didn't have this demanding (in a great way!) business when I was pregnant with Diggy (I created FM when he was a newborn), so I'm much more busy and tire easily. This little lady inside me is definitely putting me to work! I'm grateful for it all. Natalie is wearing Topshop dress, Sophie Monet petal earrings, Garrett Leight x Clare V. sunglasses (Photo by Gabriela Gandara) What are you most looking forward to sharing with your baby? I've always felt like such a "Boy Mom" so it's going to be interesting to nurture a girl. I'm most looking forward to raising a dynamic and compassionate female. And yes, coming from the fashion industry, I'm very excited to dress her. My real-like mini me! What’s your top 5 registry essentials? 1. White soft onesies 2. Lots of diapers 3. A super cozy glider for those marathon breastfeeding sessions 4. A stylish and chic baby carrier 5. A stroller with a hoverboard so Diggy can ride along with us (a must for all the second-time mamas out there!) Natalie is wearing Reformation Skirt and top, Garrett Leight x Clare V. sunglasses (photo credit: Vlad Galyuz)

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Motherhood is a practice in learning, growing and loving more than you ever thought possible. Even as a "veteran" mama of four young sons and one newly adopted teenager, Jalyssa Richardson enthusiastically adapts to whatever any given day has in store—a skill she says she's refined through the years.

Here's what just one day in her life looks like:


Jalyssa says she learned to embrace agility throughout her motherhood journey. Here's more from this incredible mama of five boys.

What is the most challenging part of your day as a mom of five?

Time management! I want to meet each of the boys' individual needs—plus show up for myself—but I often feel like someone gets overlooked.

What's the best part of being a mom of five?

The little moments of love. The hugs, the kisses, the cuddles, the smiles... they all serve as little reminders that I am blessed and I'm doing okay.

Are there misconceptions about raising boys?

There are so many misconceptions about raising boys. I think the biggest one is that boys don't have many emotions and they're just so active all the time. My boys display many emotions and they also love to be sweet and cuddly a lot of the time.

What do you think would surprise people the most about being a mom of five?

How much I enjoy it. I never knew I wanted to be a mom until I was pregnant with my first. My desire only grew and the numbers did! I am surprised with every single baby as my capacity to love and nurture grows. It's incredible.

How do you create balance and make time for yourself?

Balance for me looks like intentional planning and scheduling because I never want my boys to feel like they aren't my first priority, but it is extremely difficult. What I try to do is not fit it all into one day. I have work days because motherhood is my first priority. I fit in segments of self-care after the kids' bedtime so I don't grow weary.

What's the biggest lesson you have learned from motherhood?

I have learned that sacrifice is actually beautiful. I was terrified of the selflessness motherhood would require, but I've grown so much through the sacrifice. There is nothing better than living for something bigger than myself.

When did you first feel like a mom? How has your motherhood evolved?

I first felt like a mom when I was pregnant with my first son and I intentionally chose to change my eating habits so my body could be strong and healthy for him. I didn't have to think twice—I just did what I thought would be best for him. That decision being so effortless made me realize I was made for motherhood.

My perspective has changed with each baby as I've realized motherhood doesn't have to be one-size-fits-all. With my first son, I was a by-the-book mama and it was so stressful. With each baby, I have felt more freedom and it has made motherhood so much more beautiful. I have evolved into the mother that they need, I am perfect for these boys.

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