Having kids can boost your happiness, help you find meaning in life

Science proves what we already know, mamas.

Having kids can boost your happiness, help you find meaning in life
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We know that our children bring us joy and can help center us, even in the craziest, most hectic moments.

Now there's scientific research that confirms it.

Dr. S. Katherine Nelson-Coffey studies happiness, particularly how it relates to parenthood and to relationships.

When it comes to parenthood, Nelson-Coffey's research shows that parents report feeling happier and more satisfied with their lives than their non-parent counterparts.

Across several studies, parents also reported thinking about and finding meaning in their lives, thanks to their children.


"Parenthood is associated with greater well-being to the extent that it provides opportunities to pursue meaningful goals and enhanced life purpose, greater fulfillment of human needs, more positive emotions, and enhanced social roles," says Nelson-Coffey.

To be fair, her research has found that parents' well-being suffers most when they experience financial stress, sleep disturbance, and strained partner relationships.

But on the whole, parents report feeling happier.

Consider this: Nelson-Coffey's research also suggests that happy parents lead to happy kids.

Positive parent experiences that include factors like warmth, involvement, and emotional expression "have been associated with positive outcomes for kids."

As 2020 comes to a close, snuggle your little ones tight, mama. Give them a kiss on the head and thank them for helping you find meaning in life.

It's been a crazy year and we need to find happiness where we can get it. Sometimes, that starts right at home.

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Jamie Orsini is an Emmy Award-winning journalist, military spouse, and a mom to two busy toddlers. In her spare time, Jamie volunteers with the Solar System Ambassador program with NASA/JPL and reads anything she can get her hands on. She’s currently working on her first novel.