This is Motherhood: Life coach and blogger Bernetta Knighten on starting her own nonprofit organization supporting foster youth

Bernetta Knighten

"The main purpose of The Knighten Project was to make dreams come true for everyday people."

By Motherly September 13, 2022

Bernetta Knighten

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In this episode of “This is Motherhood“, host Joyce Brewer talks with life coach, author and podcast host Bernetta Knighten about her nonprofit supporting foster youth and how her approach to motherhood has changed over time.

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