One of our main goals as mothers is to encourage our children to learn, grow and play. They start out as our tiny, adorable babies who need us for everything , and somehow, before you know it, they grow into toddlers with ideas and opinions and desires of their own. You may be hearing a lot more of “I do it!” or maybe they’re pushing your hand away as a signal to let you know, I don’t need your help, Mama . That’s okay. Your toddler is just telling you they’re ready for more independence. They want to be in charge of their bodies, and any little bit of control their lives and abilities allow.

So, instead of challenging your toddler’s desire for autonomy, we found six of our favorite products to help encourage independence—and eliminate frustration in the process.

EKOBO Bamboo 4-piece kid set

EKOBO bamboo 4-piece kid set This colorful set includes a plate, cup, bowl and spoon and is just right for your child’s meal experience. Keep them in an easy-to-reach cabinet so they’ll feel encouraged (and excited!) to get their own place setting each time they eat.

Puj PhillUp hangable kids cups

Puj PhillUp hangable kids cups Before you know it, your little one will be asking (okay, maybe demanding) to fill their own water cups. This amazing 4-pack of cups attaches directly to the fridge (or any glass, metal, tile or fiberglass surface) making it easier for your child to grab a cup themselves. Just be sure a water pitcher or dispenser is nearby, and—boom!—one task off your plate.

Wise Elk puzzle tower blocks

Wise Elk puzzle tower blocks These beautiful blocks, made from sustainably-sourced wood and water-based, non-toxic, lead-free paint, will keep your little one focused on their creation while they’re also busy working on their fine-motor skills. The puzzle design will encourage patience as your kiddo creates their own building, fitting one block in after the next.

Lorena Canals basket

Lorena Canals zoco basket This *gorgeous* braided cotton basket is the perfect, accessible home for their blocks (and whatever else you want to hide away!) so your kiddo can grab them (and clean them up) whenever their heart desires.

BABYBJÖRN step stool

BABYBJu00d6RN Step Stool Your kiddo might be ready to take on the world, but they might need an extra boost to do so—cue, a step stool! An easy-to-move lightweight stool is the must-have confidence-boosting tool you need in your home so your growing tot can reach, well… the world.

Play cleaning set

Janod cleaning set Pitching in to help comes naturally to little ones. These kid-sized toys are a great way to get them involved in cleaning up after themselves.

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