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5 ways working mamas can make + keep more money

You value your time, your money, and most of all your children.

5 ways working mamas can make + keep more money

I remember dropping my son off at daycare on the very first day. He was three months old, and my mind was flooded with fear and guilt. What if he’s scared and doesn’t know where I am? What if he needs me? What if he cries and is inconsolable and they don’t know what to do? What if? What if? What if?


That was the first of many days I have left, now that my two children are in the care of someone else. Carter (2) and Conley (6 months) have since stayed in daycare. They’ve stayed with nannies, babysitters, and family members. It seems when it comes to childcare, my husband and I have sampled almost every option available!

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Certainly, leaving your children (translation: your whole world!) in the care of someone else is one of the most significant and difficult decisions you’ll make in your life. But you don’t have to choose the most expensive option. You can have quality child care while saving money.

And in many cases, you can maximize your efforts at work and make even more money. Here are five ways to do that—

1. Consider all your options.

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Daycare is the traditional choice for many families.

But when you look at all your options, you might find a better solution for your family and situation.

For example, can you work from home part-time and put your kids in a Mother’s Day Out program? Is there a childcare program at your church? Is there a reliable homeschooled student in your community who is available to watch your kids a couple of days a week? When you get creative and explore other solutions, you might find something that is not only better, but cheaper too!

2. Look at your total cost.

Many people assume that having a family nanny is more expensive than paying for daycare, so they don’t even consider it. When my first son was in daycare, it was $400 per week. Two children, with the 10% second child discount, would have been $760 per week. That comes out to be $19 per hour. Most nannies in Nashville charge between $10-20 per hour, so it was actually more affordable to hire a family nanny for our two boys.

Consider your total cost to choose the best and most affordable option for you.

3. Value your time.

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In addition to cost, you also need to consider your time.

For example, let’s say daycare is $200 per week, and you find a nanny-share situation with another family who will bring their child to your house. Your part would be $225 per week. Your first reaction might be to go with daycare, but think about your time involved. In order to get your kids ready for daycare, you’ve got to pack, drive them there, park, sign them in, and put their things away. Later you have to drive back, park, go in and gather their things, drive them back home, unpack their things—and do the whole thing again the next day.

When you value your time, you might realize that the time you’ll save is worth an extra $5 per day!

4. Find ways to make more money.

When you find a dependable and affordable childcare situation, you can make even more money by starting a side business.

We live in a side-gig economy where turning your hobby into a business is easier than ever before.

That’s exactly why I wrote my book, Business Boutique: A Woman’s Guide for Making Money Doing What She Loves. If you want to make extra money on the side and turn your ideas into income, you can! No need to push off that Disney vacation to next year, because when you’ve got the cash, things can happen fast!

5. Shake the guilt.

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As working moms, it’s easy to focus on what we are leaving behind instead of the importance of what we’re going to.

If we’re present in one place, we feel guilty for being absent in another.

But mom guilt will keep you from enjoying your kids, your work, and your life! That’s why regardless of the childcare or work choices you make, I want you to shake the guilt.

I love what my friend Tony says, “I’m always driving to somewhere that I love. When I’m driving to work, I’m driving to somewhere that I love. When I drive home, I am driving to somewhere that I love.”

It’s the difference of looking through the windshield of where you’re going instead of the rearview mirror of what you’re momentarily leaving behind. Wherever you are, be there. After all, you don’t have a work life and a home life. You just have one life. What matters is that you’re present for it!

By its very nature, motherhood requires some lifestyle adjustments: Instead of staying up late with friends, you get up early for snuggles with your baby. Instead of spontaneous date nights with your honey, you take afternoon family strolls with your little love. Instead of running out of the house with just your keys and phone, you only leave with a fully loaded diaper bag.

For breastfeeding or pumping mamas, there is an additional layer of consideration around when, how and how much your baby will eat. Thankfully, when it comes to effective solutions for nursing or bottle-feeding your baby, Dr. Brown's puts the considerations of mamas and their babies first with products that help with every step of the process—from comfortably adjusting to nursing your newborn to introducing a bottle to efficiently pumping.

With countless hours spent breastfeeding, pumping and bottle-feeding, the editors at Motherly know the secret to success is having dependable supplies that can help you feed your baby in a way that matches lifestyle.

Here are 9 breastfeeding and pumping products to help you no matter what the day holds.

Customflow™ Double Electric Breast Pump

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For efficient, productive pumping sessions, a double electric breast pump will help you get the job done as quickly as possible. Quiet for nighttime pumping sessions and compact for bringing along to work, this double pump puts you in control with fully adjustable settings.

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Hands-Free Pumping Bra

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Especially in the early days, feeding your baby can feel like a pretty consuming task. A hands-free pumping bra will help you reclaim some of your precious time while pumping—and all mamas will know just how valuable more time can be!

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Manual Breast Pump with SoftShape™ Silicone Shield

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If you live a life that sometimes takes you away from electrical outlets (that's most of us!), then you'll absolutely want a manual breast pump in your arsenal. With two pumping modes to promote efficient milk expression and a comfort-fitted shield, a manual pump is simply the most convenient pump to take along and use. Although it may not get as much glory as an electric pump, we really appreciate how quick and easy this manual pump is to use—and how liberating it is not to stress about finding a power supply.

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Nipple Shields and Sterilization Case

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There is a bit of a learning curve to breastfeeding—for both mamas and babies. Thankfully, even if there are some physical challenges (like inverted nipples or a baby's tongue tie) or nursing doesn't click right away, silicone nipple shields can be a huge help. With a convenient carry case that can be sterilized in the microwave, you don't have to worry about germs or bacteria either. 🙌

$9.99

Silicone One-Piece Breast Pump

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When you are feeding your baby on one breast, the other can still experience milk letdown—which means it's a golden opportunity to save some additional milk. With a silent, hands-free silicone pump, you can easily collect milk while nursing.

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Breast to Bottle Pump & Store Feeding Set

After a lifetime of nursing from the breast, introducing a bottle can be a bit of a strange experience for babies. Dr. Brown's Options+™ and slow flow bottle nipples were designed with this in mind to make the introduction to bottles smooth and pleasant for parents and babies. As a set that seamlessly works together from pumping to storing milk to bottle feeding, you don't have to stress about having everything you need to keep your baby fed and happy either.

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Washable Breast Pads

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Mamas' bodies are amazingly made to help breast milk flow when it's in demand—but occasionally also at other times. Especially as your supply is establishing or your breasts are fuller as the length between feeding sessions increase, it's helpful to use washable nursing pads to prevent breast milk from leaking through your bra.

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Breast Milk Storage Bags

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The essential for mamas who do any pumping, breast milk storage bags allow you to easily and safely seal expressed milk in the refrigerator or freezer. Dr. Brown's™ Breast Milk Storage Bags take it even further with extra thick walls that block out scents from other food items and feature an ultra secure lock to prevent leaking.

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Balance board

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Sand play set

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Wooden rocking pegasus

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Wooden bulldozer toy

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Pull-along hippo

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Baby forest fox ride-on

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