Motherhood changes us. Celebrate the ups and downs with these honest, insightful essays about becoming—and being—a mom.

She was his mama's hero, too.

Never in my life have I felt so much fear as I jumped in and pulled him out. He immediately started crying, thank God. I held him close to me and didn't want to let him go.

Oh mama, tonight is a very special night.

This life is wonderful. So wonderful in fact that I would go back and live it again and again, which is why it is with bittersweet envy that I celebrate expecting moms and the amazing moments ahead of them.

We enjoy the moments with our little ones and let them develop on their own time.

5. "Who is the real mom?"

It's time to take motherhood seriously.

Everyone needs a life buoy to breathe easier. For some it's wine, for others melatonin—for me it's the first rush of air I inhale in a new city.

You are relentless. You are inspiring. You are shaping an empathetic, open-minded and diverse generation. You make our lives as parents so much better.

Once I could see his struggles from a lens of empathy, I was able to respond in love.

One mama tells us how she coped when her birth didn’t go as planned.

It's going to be really hard.

We wanted to run away—not from her, but from everyone else.

Of course I remember some things—where I lived, what I did most days, what I hoped for in motherhood. But I cannot remember what it FEELS like to be me-before-kids.

Because of multitasking we can cook dinner while unloading the dishwasher, settling an argument and finally texting our friend back. (We might be three days late on that text, but look—we remembered! See? Our brains are fine.)

There are a million things that change and take on new meanings and shapes. There are a million words that suddenly don't seem so nice anymore. There are a million faces that don't bring comfort like they used to.

I dropped the "shoulds" and started doing what worked best for us.

I love my snuggles and I love being the antidote to their fear and sadness. But occasionally, I do wish they understood that they could easily wake their dad for help, or that he is equally capable of putting socks on the correct way.

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