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Motherhood Understood

Motherly acquired Motherhood Understood, continuing our mission of providing a woman-centered and supportive community for mothers. We are leaning into telling personal essays from mothers as a way that we learn, connect and feel less alone. Centered on the perspectives of maternal mental health, these stories are intended to help moms feel validated and seen.

family newborn photo of mom and dad holding newborn daughter - essay on getting help for postpartum depression

Jeanette on getting help for postpartum depression, anxiety and intrusive thoughts

"My husband did the majority of the childcare and while it killed me to see the exhaustion and worry in his eyes, I just didn’t care enough to help."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
blurry image of a mom holding her baby - essay on husband's postpartum depression

Olivia on taking care of a baby while dealing with her husband’s postpartum depression

"I had to do all of these things because shortly after the birth, my husband vanished."

Updated Dec. 12, 2022
women holding newborn baby

Erica on being afraid to be left alone to take care of her baby

"I stopped eating. I cried. I had a constant pit of anxiety that sat in my stomach. The only time it would go away was when I was asleep."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
women looking down at newborn baby - essay on struggling to find joy in motherhood

Karina on postpartum depression and struggling to find joy in motherhood

"I love my baby…I think... I don’t have all this motherhood stuff figured out yet..."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
mom kissing her baby in the NICU - essay on anxiety after giving birth

Nicole on having PTSD, postpartum depression and anxiety after giving birth

"I went to my room and looked at my empty bed, and the empty bassinet and realized this was the first time I had been alone since my delivery. This isn’t how it was supposed to be, and so the first breakdown happened."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
baby sleeping - essay on motherhood during covid

Sarah on her first four months of motherhood–not easy, but worth it

"This hasn’t gone the way I expected it to. But she makes every second worth it."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
baby swaddled in a hospital - essay about giving birth during a pandemic

Kayleigh on her anxiety about giving birth during a pandemic

"My anxiety levels were already high, but not knowing what could happen was making it worse."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
mom sitting at the pool with her baby-essay on coronavirus helped postpartum anxiety

Tamara on how Coronavirus actually helped her postpartum anxiety

"Coronavirus did something for me that it probably didn’t do for a lot of other mothers. It helped."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
family selfie with mom, dad and toddler son sitting on the couch - essay on pregnancy during Covid-19

Kelly on having to go to prenatal appointments alone because of Covid-19 restrictions

"I again had to go to this appointment alone, which didn't seem like a big deal because baby was healthy, right?"

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
family picture of a mom holding her daughter and dad - essay on postpartum depression and covid

Courtney on Covid, colic, and the postpartum depression and anxiety they caused

"I desperately needed that break, but I couldn't call anyone. My husband and I had to tough it out alone."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
selfie of a woman - essay on prenatal anxiety

Karina, a mental health professional, on not recognizing her own prenatal anxiety

"Working from home, homeschooling a five-year old who didn’t understand the idea of not leaving the house or seeing other siblings, and coping with the daily changes of pregnancy was beginning to make me feel anxious."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
mom holding a baby in a pool - essay on becoming a first time parent during Covid-19

Morgan on postpartum depression, anxiety and mom rage as a first time parent during Covid-19

"Every night when the baby would wake up and cry, I would cry too—and every time I felt like I was losing control."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
picture of a mom holding her baby in her arms - essay on raising a baby during a global pandemic

Sanyya on health anxiety while raising a baby during a global pandemic

"My baby should be in a park under the sun, on the swings, walking on grass, befriending other kids, but instead, he is at home all day every day, pacing from one room to the other, playing with the same toys each day, seeing no new faces apart from his parents."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
picture of a little girl - essay on feeling like a failure as a mother

Jane on feeling like a failure as a mother because her baby had to go to the NICU

"No one told me I could change my clothes. No one told me I could bathe. I needed a caregiver. I needed an advocate. I needed someone to take care of me."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
a toddler and a baby laying on a bed - essay on mothering and working with postpartum depression during covid-19

Grace on mothering and working with anxiety and depression during Covid-19

"I feel like I have been alone with two babies since I had the baby—cooking, cleaning, changing diapers, feedings, and bleeding."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
family laying on the beach sand - essay on how to confront past traumas

Krystal on postpartum depression leading her to confront her past traumas

“PTSD?” I asked. “Yes, from childhood trauma. You may think you’ve only been dealing with PPD but this is just a little tip of the iceberg. I’m glad you came in today.” 

Updated Feb. 24, 2023
mom taking a selfie in a nursery - essay on recovering from postpartum depression

Megan on recovering from postpartum depression and learning to put herself first

"Mama bears, I know some of you have walked a similar road or are walking it now. I send you love and give you permission to turn that radio up a little louder."

Updated Oct. 20, 2022
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