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Embracing a career downshift in your late thirties

In reality, true success is being able to find balance and prioritize what truly matters to you.

Updated Dec. 12, 2023
mom and child walking outside- letting go of fear

Snakes, elevators and a life-threatening illness—letting go of fear for the sake of my son

As my son writes his own chapters, he should be free of my scars.

Updated Dec. 13, 2023
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Operation rainbow elf: An oversize gesture to affirm my transgender son at Christmas

Even for a Christmas fanatic like me, this was over the top.

Updated Dec. 09, 2024
mom and toddler smiling at Christmas tree star making Christmas unforgettable

Making Christmas unforgettable: Beyond the lights and gifts

This heartwarming experience was a powerful reminder that often, the most cherished moments stem from life's simplest pleasures.

Updated Dec. 20, 2023
working mom holding baby - balancing a newborn and working

Balancing a newborn and working full-time

Perhaps with my fresh and recent experience on my motherhood resume, I can provide solace or understanding to other mothers experiencing this, too.

Updated Dec. 20, 2023
grandma visiting new baby family - the things my parents saved

The things my parents saved in the attic

Today my husband and I will set up the tent that my whole family once camped in.

Updated Dec. 20, 2023
family holding hands around dinner table breaking cultural traditions

Facing opposing family values this holiday season

I hope to teach my boys the importance of breaking norms, of participating in traditions while also shaping them. 

Updated Dec. 19, 2023
pregnant mom holding belly

To the moms who gave my kids their hand-me-downs—thank you

I swear, I just brought up the 18-month clothes, but now I need to get the 24-month size clothes out.

Updated Dec. 15, 2023
mom holding baby and scooping formula into a bottle

Dear formula mom—I see you

Don’t let anyone make you feel less than because you have chosen (or like many of us, life chose for you) the formula route.

Updated Dec. 15, 2023
sad woman looking at phone - watching a war through social media

Watching a war through social media reels

Where is the line between trauma exploitation and bearing witness to history?

Updated Dec. 14, 2023
sad woman in hospital bed stillbirth

The day I lost my daughter—a story of stillbirth

I just wanted to understand what the hell was going on and why this was happening.

Updated Dec. 13, 2023
mom looking at her baby in nicu mama friend

10 ways to support a new NICU mama

While you may not have experienced being a NICU mama yourself, being a good friend is universal and consistent.

Updated Dec. 13, 2023
woman giving herself shots - the solo path of trying to conceive

Riding the waves of emotion on the solo path of trying to conceive

Here are a few strategies I used to navigate the emotional rollercoaster.

Updated Dec. 12, 2023
back to work after maternity leave- woman working at desk looking at papers

From postpartum pajamas to corporate pants: A guide to sanity

I have found a balance that works for me and may work for you too.

Updated Dec. 13, 2023
group of women on a couch laughing moms need good friends girls trip

Moms don’t need a nap—we need time with good friends

Our shared experiences from years past are what will always keep us together, regardless of what the future holds.

Updated Dec. 11, 2023
woman working from laptop working mother mom

A few words for this working mother

Whether it's praise or judgment, why do a few words from someone make me rethink my value as a working mom?

Updated Dec. 11, 2023
Mom relaxing on Christmas Day

Not going anywhere on Christmas Day is the best gift I ever gave myself as a mom

Because making other people happy while making yourself miserable is NOT what Christmas is all about.

Updated Dec. 08, 2023
pregnant woman standing near window at home thinking about having a third child

I wanted a third child, so why am I feeling conflicted?

I was just starting to see myself as more than a mom.

Updated Dec. 01, 2023
woman laying face down- what to do when everything goes wrong

What to do when everything goes wrong—all at the same time

What if we put more energy into thinking about all the ways in which things could go right?

Updated Dec. 07, 2023
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