Posts by Alicia Keswani, Author at Motherly
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Alicia Keswani

Alicia is a wife, new mom, and writer living in Arizona.

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Mothers try to do the work of many, but one person does not make a village

“It takes a village to raise a child.” That’s right—an entire small town. Cut yourself a break—you’re just one woman.

Updated Jan. 17, 2019

My birth experience was traumatic—but I am slowly starting to heal

You would think almost dying would make me grateful for living—but it left me stunned and incredibly sad.

Updated Mar. 17, 2025

A letter to myself in the middle of the 4th trimester fog

This “new normal” is going to feel more “new” than “normal” for a little while—and that’s okay.

Updated Sep. 30, 2022

Relax, mama: Working mom balance is always a work-in-progress

When did guilt ever make you better at anything?

Updated Mar. 23, 2023
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The real family behind the perfect Christmas card

Is it *really* the most wonderful time of the year?

Updated Jan. 19, 2022

Motherhood transformed my marriage

Why was new parenthood so hard on me and my husband? Because we just didn’t know what we were doing.

Updated Jan. 13, 2023

A letter to my baby when the world seems scary

It is daunting to bring a little human heart into this world, knowing all this world can contain.

Updated Jan. 13, 2023

Stay at home? Go to work? Why it’s my career, my child—and my choice

“The question boils down to this: Which option will help me be the best mama I can be for my baby?”

Updated Jan. 13, 2023

What I want my friends without kids to know

Yes I’m exhausted. And yes, I’ve never been happier. 

Updated Jan. 13, 2023

From ‘happily ever after’ to after baby: How I stopped keeping score and started loving again

The problem with the scorecard game? I am really good at keeping my score but I don’t notice my husband’s efforts.

Updated Jan. 13, 2023
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