Motherly Stories
Motherhood changes us. Celebrate the ups and downs with these honest, insightful essays about becoming—and being—a mom.

How to deal with a toddler tantrum on a plane
In the short term, I wanted the embarrassment and shame to stop for me. However, in the long run, I want my child to grow up using her voice and embracing all of her feelings, not repressing them.

I wasn’t prepared for my kids’ flu days this year
I felt pulled in every direction.

My mental health as a parent of a child with a disability
I am a work in progress, just like everyone else.

I wasn’t prepared for the loneliness of empty nesting
I was surprised to be surprised by the emotional and physical pain of this transition.

Optimistic kids have parents who do these 6 things
The real magic isn’t in your perfection, but in your humanness.

I became a first-time mother at 46 after a lifetime of being told I couldn’t have kids
It’s the miracle of my story, and the unlikelihood of my family, that stands out.

I was a struggling new mom—until I remembered this Navy organizational hack
"I remembered a hack I learned during my time in the Navy: the power of the daily orders method, which is the primary method of communicating."

Christmas magic is still important no matter how old your kids are
As parents, we are the keeper of childhood memories.

My New Year’s home resolution? To stop stressing about cleaning before having people over
I am choosing to stray away from the ailing need for perfection that often plagues me—and many other moms.

To the mama in the hospital this holiday season
I am sending you love as you unwrap medical diagnoses instead of gifts.

I’m a nonbinary mom. This is what I want people to know
While I may not feel comfortable wearing the label of “woman”, I possess no greater title than “mother".

The Marshall Fire forever changed the way I parent
Blindsided by the effects of a natural disaster, my son walked away with an unshakeable fear of the unknown—and I’ve spent months working with therapists on how to help him feel safe in this world again.

Holidays are a recipe for tears and tantrums—here’s 4 ways to minimize the crash and burn
“If you can develop a sense of the patterns that are more likely to trigger tantrums for your child, you can play a little defense!"

8 things not to say to a formula-feeding mom—and 4 things you can
Being a formula-feeding mom is challenging in a society that heavily promotes, and sometimes even glamorizes, the breastfeeding journey.

My 11-year-old still sleeps with me—I love it, but my husband hates it
I’m sure that some day she will grow out of it, but I hope it isn’t soon.

Sorry, but I don’t miss the birthday party insanity from my kids’ early childhood
I paid my dues, and I’m glad my time is over.

Moms, don’t let another Christmas pass without YOU in the photos
Because what a gift for them to be able to see mom in their memories.

6 things I wish I’d known when my child was diagnosed with autism
I only wish someone could have told me that we would find our place, we would be supported and my child would thrive.

The unexpected grief triggers I encountered after my pregnancy loss
Although I knew losing a baby would be emotional, I don’t think I realized just how many triggers I would encounter in the months that followed my pregnancy loss.
