Positive Parenting

A baby swaddle saved my motherhood
As long as I had it with me, I knew I could figure it out.

I refuse to raise a polite girl
I will not teach my daughter that she needs to morph into a watered-down version of herself to make other people more comfortable.

You need a break…before you break, mama
Put your feet up and relax. Please.

I don’t know who needs to hear this today but—you are enough
It is easy (entirely too easy) to look at ourselves as the lesser version of our reality. We can be our biggest critics and shamers. Our own worst enemies.

How hugging defuses a tantrum—almost every time
At first it was counterintuitive—why should my kid get a hug when they're screaming in my face? But connection was transformative in my child's behavior—and my own.

Why I’m letting my child choose their own clothes
Turns out there's more to style than matching your socks to your shirt.

11 soothing phrases to say when your child is crying
These calming phrases work a whole lot better than "don't cry."

Gentle parenting is hard—especially when everything else feels hard, too
But here are two good reasons to stay calm, even when you're struggling.

How to help your perfectionist child
It can be heartbreaking to hear a child say, "I can't do anything right."

After-school restraint collapse is real—here’s how to help your child
It's natural for kids to release their emotional, mental and physical energy as soon as the school day ends.

Dear firstborn—thanks for showing me the way
You are the incredible gift who gave me my cherished title of ‘mother.’

Aggression in toddlers: 5 common reasons for hitting + biting
They are full of energy—that energy can overcome them and they start acting kind of crazy.

7 delicious (and easy!) ice cream recipes to make with your toddler
BRB, making all of these now.

This is my secret weapon for dealing with mom rage
Sometimes we scream because we don't feel heard. Sometimes we scream because the stress inside feels like it has to come out. Sometimes we scream because the physical demands of motherhood are so heavy that we have to moan and find a way to give voice to the struggle.

Science confirms that ‘mom brain’ is real
How a woman's brain changes after having a baby.

Why is my potty-trained child regressing? Here’s what to do, mama
How to handle potty training regression, according to a Montessori teacher.

6 easy ways to foster anti-racism in babies + toddlers
No child is "too young" to be taught how to be an anti-racist.

What I wish we discussed about parenting before having kids
Here's what we actually talked about—and what we SHOULD have talked about.

