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Marriage & Partnerships

Having kids can bring big changes to marriages and partnerships. Motherly’s got you covered with support and advice from real mamas.

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5 Tips to babyproof your relationship

Baby's arrival can change your relationship for the better, not worse!

Updated Sep. 01, 2022
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Watching you be a dad is more amazing than I ever thought it would be

I'm so proud of you, and I'm proud of what we're building together every day.

Updated May. 19, 2022
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Marriage is: Choosing each other again and again (and again)

When it's beautiful and inspiring, when it's hard and tiring, when it's fun and adventurous, when it's mundane and monotonous.

Updated May. 24, 2024
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Want a great marriage? Don’t compromise—try this instead

We need to find another way of being in a relationship that does not involve abandoning our needs.

Updated Jul. 19, 2023
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Dear husband: You often get the worst of me, but I still love you first

Because motherhood can sometimes be this all-consuming thing that leaves me with next to nothing left to give anyone else.

Updated Aug. 26, 2022
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Dear husband: When it was hard to love you

On a good day, love can be challenging. In a good month, even more so. But what about if we are talking longer?

Updated Mar. 27, 2023

8 steps to the best date night in

Just because you don't feel like a night out on the town doesn't mean you can't still celebrate with the one you love.

Updated Feb. 09, 2018

Motherhood overwhelmed me—and my marriage

It’s not a fairy tale, and this isn’t the end, but it feels pretty happy after all.

Updated Apr. 25, 2022
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7 tips for communicating with your partner—without being defensive

For most of us, listening without getting defensive is a hard skill to master—especially when we're overwhelmed.

Updated Feb. 03, 2022
Dad plays with child - It’s OK to let your partner be their own parent

It’s OK to let your partner be their own parent

The longer I parent, the more I see that there is seldom a right and wrong way of doing things.

Updated Apr. 26, 2023
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No, you’re not the woman I married—you’re so much more

I love you today for who you are and I’ll love you tomorrow for the woman you will be. ❤️

Updated Dec. 18, 2021

You don’t have to split everything evenly to be equal partners in your marriage

Be clear about both when you need help and what you need help with.

Updated Oct. 14, 2021
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Use the holidays to boost your relationship—not stress it out

5. Give each other some leeway... and tenderness

Updated Jan. 15, 2022
husband and wife looking at newborn baby

To my husband: I may not always say it, but—I need you and I’m so grateful for you

I need your long, warm hug after a draining day of messes and meltdowns, dirty diapers and dishes.

Updated Feb. 16, 2023
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Guide your children with these 10 healthy marriage habits

Role modeling is one of the most powerful tools you have in guiding your child.

Updated Jan. 27, 2023
touched out: mother holding and kissing baby at home

Why some moms feel ‘touched out’—and how to fix it

I couldn’t take a single second more of anyone being in physical contact with me. I was touched out.

Updated Feb. 08, 2022
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