7. Yoga, working out & meditation
After my son was born, all I wanted was sleep. But I was scared of closing my eyes for fear of something happening to him during that time. I couldn’t shut my mind off from all the irrational thoughts running through it.
Postpartum depression and anxiety is a common thread in motherhood. In fact…
After my son was born, all I wanted was sleep. But I was scared of closing my eyes for fear of something happening to him during that time. I couldn’t shut my mind off from all the irrational thoughts running through it.
If I could tell you anything about struggling with this, it is this: PPA is real, it is not normal, and getting help is okay. Do not feel ashamed, do not feel embarrassed, and don't for one second think you owe anyone an explanation.
I was seriously stressed in my own home.
Because when mama gets help, the whole family benefits.
I walked out the door after dropping her off and immediately burst into tears.
"Can I just sleep with you?"
3. Dive headfirst into empathy.
Here's the reality: anxious behavior in children is not uniform.
"I took on the identity of a strong person, who, despite having had an unstable childhood, was well-adjusted and thriving. I knew everyone had their own painful experiences and dysfunctional families. I wasn’t going to drown myself in mine."
I was treading water with my head above the surface because typically it's fine as long as it's fine... until one day it's not.
You'd gotten the best of me again, stealing time I should have spent doing anything other than obsessing over the multitude of awful things that could have (but didn't!) happen to my family.
When my oldest son would fall asleep in my arms, I wouldn't grab my phone for a picture. Instead, I would start Googling. How long should newborns sleep? Should you wake a sleeping baby? Can you spoil an infant? From the moment he shut his eyes, I would worry about what I was doing wrong.
"How does a 30-year old mom of two with no previous history of mental illness get admitted to the psych ward? This is where my memory fails me, but the diagnosis: Postpartum Psychosis."
Some anxiety in motherhood is expected, but when does it become too much?
But I promise you’ll get through it.
2. “I can’t take any medication until I’m no longer pregnant/nursing.”
Depression can mean days of extreme insecurity and feelings of being unlovable. But remember, mama, you are neither.