There are no words to describe the inexpressible feelings of having a newborn.
I never planned on being a mother of 10 kids, although I…
With that one comment, this stranger was telling me, in true mom code, the one thing all mothers need to hear: Motherhood is hard—for everyone.
How did you do it? I want to ask her. I am a stay at home mom, and some days I can't even deal. Seriously, how did you do this without missing a beat?
All the things that had made me an individual had faded away in the sleepless chaos of having young children. My home life was who I had become. My entire existence centered around taking care of my children, keeping the house and my husband.
My day-to-day is filled with micro failures that prevent me from achieving any semblance of "best mom ever" status.
I still don't feel completely steady on my feet, but I'm on auto-pilot now. I get up. I change him. I feed him. I put him back in bed. Wash, rinse, repeat.
These things probably don't gross you out now that you have kids.
Moms need to ‘fess up--we’re all doing these things
Sometimes it’s motherhood that actually helps you discover yourself.