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losing a baby

To our friends: This is what we want you to know about our loss

The reality is, there is no perfect way to respond. It is tricky terrain. But here are some thoughts I encourage you to consider before sharing your words of support.

Updated Oct. 14, 2021

Miscarriage is lonely, but you are not alone

It is physically horrible, emotionally draining, mentally unbearable, and turns your world upside down. But other mamas in my life (including my own mother) who opened up to me and told me about their experiences demonstrated a breathtaking sense of bravery and resilience.

Updated Feb. 18, 2025

I realized I didn’t have to grieve my miscarriage alone

I sobbed. Because I wanted this baby. Because my body hurt. Because I went through two months of pregnancy for nothing.

Updated Feb. 18, 2025

Why I told more people about my miscarriage than my pregnancy

As many as one in four women trying to get pregnant will have a miscarriage—and yet I had no idea it was that common. You don't hear much about miscarriages until it happens to you or someone close enough who may share it with you.

Updated Feb. 18, 2025

True life: I’m postpartum—without a newborn

At 20 weeks of pregnancy, my baby didn't make it.

Updated May. 31, 2018

A letter to all the moms who have lost a baby

If you need someone to sit with you and your sadness, tell me. I will be there.

Updated Oct. 14, 2021
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