It’s a story of resilience, family bonds, and a teen rising to the challenge in the most critical of moments.
I realize now, firsthand, more facets of my mother's love for me. I viscerally understand the sleepless nights, the aches and pains, worries and unrelenting devotion even in the face of great challenge.
Yes, we should celebrate Mother's Day this year. Without a doubt. In fact, we should go all out—whatever that means to you.
These women, open and generous, were unaware that their input was shaping my views on what it meant to be a mother. Their example, their work schedules, their parenting styles and reflections, helped me develop my own expectations and desires around motherhood. I listened to their advice and tucked it away, hoping that one day I would have the experience to understand what being someone's mom really felt like.
I want my mom to know that I am okay. Because things look a lot different for me since the last time I saw her.
She is an individual. Beautiful, adventurous, creative, lovable her. And it's our job to raise this person with the tools to discover and cultivate whoever it is she wants to be.