I eventually found there's no magic solution to aid in this season of parenting. It helps to find a community of women going through the same struggles. Prioritizing self-care and spending time connecting with your significant other are also healthy ways of dealing.
Newborn time is soft and doughy. It's not quite moldable yet. It's sticky.
The truth is, your definition of "myself" will change during this time.
It's totally normal to feel like you don't know what you're doing at first.
All of the elements of "self" came into question: my body had changed. Relationships were changing. I questioned my place in society, my work, contributions, decisions and balance.
Be confident in your abilities and instincts. I wish I had been more confident.
"All I ever wanted was to be a mom, but when you're actually experiencing that, it's a shock," shares Bündchen.
Each mama is different, but we guarantee she'll love having these gifts on hand in the weeks and months postpartum.
Maybe it's letting them know that whether you do or don't fully understand, that you admire them and love them—No. Matter. What.
I started feeling stressed out every time he cried, which was often.
I want to make the time to not only do things for myself (self-care and all), but I want to make others feel special, too.
I was told time and time again about the incredible love I would feel for this little baby I had yet to meet.
I see in her the same beauty that I see in every woman who has just done the work of bringing a child into the world.
Pretending everything was okay wasn’t working for us.
Being a mother is the most challenging, heartening, strengthening and humbling role I have ever had.
Did you ever imagine that having everything you ever wanted would make you cry this much?
5. You have taught me it’s okay to not be ‘okay.’
19. Babies grunt a lot! And loudly. They make lots of tiny noises. And they are really adorable.
Motherhood is nothing if not an amazing, complicated mess of mixed emotions.
When we see a fellow mama in that place, we need to remember to step up, step in, step out of our comfort zone… and be that mom.