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I was subconsciously labeling my kids and it was a big a mistake

My children aren’t, after all, 2-dimensional objects.

My darling baby, when did you grow up?

You became a child in the moments I wasn’t looking, and I have loved every minute of your second year on earth. 

You’re doing a great job, mama—5 ways today’s parents are getting it right

We can dissect the negatives, or we can focus on the positive—and build upon those.

It’s Science: How mamas comfort crying babies is universal

A mother’s instincts are her most valuable skill.

To the mama questioning herself—your instincts are right on, according to science

You do, in fact, know just what you’re doing.

New report: The pressures on moms are stronger than ever

“Motherhood has never been easy, but a lot of the pressures are new and growing more suffuse every day.”

Your independent child is evidence of a healthy parental attachment 

When children can take us for granted, they can leap into new surroundings of their own making.

Montessori at home: Kids need to learn self-care, too

It will show him that you see him as a capable person who can participate in household activities and help take care of himself.

I’m raising a funny daughter—and wouldn’t want it any other way

Her sense of humor is a huge reason why she’s a confident, self-assured little girl.

Fear can make you stronger, my darling daughter

If you can harness fear to serve your ethic instead of your pride, it can be an unparalleled force for all that is good in you. It can break you or it can make you fierce.

Prevent a toddler power struggle with these key phrases

Avoid tripping their “You’re not the boss of me” alarm.

Screen time vs. play time: Why I’m raising unplugged kids

We have plenty of technology in our house. We’ve just added boundaries.

I lost my temper, but gained some wisdom

I’m imperfect, and there’s a lesson in that for both of us.

My husband and I parent *very* differently—here’s how I feel about that

At first I was worried this meant disaster (#momguilt).

I gave my toddler choices—instead of just telling him what to do

I pick my battles (and set both of us up for success)

Tech for kids isn’t ‘bad’—it just needs to be used carefully

Technology is a necessary component of modern life, but nothing replaces one-on-one interaction with a human.

Small kids are spending 10x more time in front of small screens

The good news: TV time is down for the littlest of kiddos versus 2011. ?

8 simple ways to develop + encourage speech in your toddler’s daily routine

Hint: It’s so fun!

I pledge to raise a peaceful child

I pledge to read books and listen to music and admire art from all different cultures with my son.

Millennials are moving to surprising places to start their families

Lower costs of living seem to trump city lifestyles.