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When you had a blowout diaper while we were on the go and I had to not only change you in the car but I also only had two wipes to use? And didn't have a clean outfit in your size to put you in so your 7-month-old self wore your sister's 2T pants and went topless for our ride home? That was me winging the whole "multiple kid" thing.
Your children are loved, and you’re doing one heck of a job, mama.
You will wake up every day a little bit braver than the day before. You’ve got this, mama.
One of the most important lessons I have learned as a mother is that our children do not need us to be perfect. They need us to love them and to love ourselves.
I ventured into over 50 Boston-based families' homes and lives to document their typical breastfeeding routines.
I already know I am efficient, capable, strong and fierce. But, I am also fatigued, sometimes overworked and underappreciated, and worst of all expected to be the one that keeps it together for everyone else.
This beautiful journey is full of setbacks, regressions and frustrating stalls along the way.
My love for my them is as unique as they are from one another.
Even if our mom guilt tells us otherwise.
But not in the way you’d think.
This “new normal” is going to feel more “new” than “normal” for a little while—and that’s okay.
Being a mother is the most challenging, heartening, strengthening and humbling role I have ever had.