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When your children are close in age, motherhood feels like fast-forward—and it’s bittersweet

Everything is on fast-forward as you are asked to survive and thrive in such a short space of time. You watch them grow up one right after the other.

Updated Nov. 25, 2024

Confession: I’m totally winging this whole motherhood thing

When you had a blowout diaper while we were on the go and I had to not only change you in the car but I also only had two wipes to use? And didn't have a clean outfit in your size to put you in so your 7-month-old self wore your sister's 2T pants and went topless for our ride home? That was me winging the whole "multiple kid" thing.

Updated Oct. 14, 2021

The relentless exhaustion of motherhood is real—and temporary

Your children are loved, and you’re doing one heck of a job, mama.

Updated Jan. 02, 2019

Motherhood is: Being brave even when you’re terrified

You will wake up every day a little bit braver than the day before. You’ve got this, mama.

Updated Dec. 13, 2018

I’m only human—and it’s okay if my kids see that

One of the most important lessons I have learned as a mother is that our children do not need us to be perfect. They need us to love them and to love ourselves.

Updated Feb. 18, 2025

The realities of breastfeeding today—a photo essay

I ventured into over 50 Boston-based families' homes and lives to document their typical breastfeeding routines.

Updated Aug. 23, 2018

Nope, I’m not a superhero, but I am a mother—and that’s a lot

I already know I am efficient, capable, strong and fierce. But, I am also fatigued, sometimes overworked and underappreciated, and worst of all expected to be the one that keeps it together for everyone else.

Updated Feb. 18, 2025

‘Progress’ in parenting isn’t a straight line, mama

This beautiful journey is full of setbacks, regressions and frustrating stalls along the way.

Updated Jun. 05, 2018

True life: I don’t love my kids the same

My love for my them is as unique as they are from one another.

Updated Oct. 14, 2021

We’re all good parents

Even if our mom guilt tells us otherwise.

Updated Oct. 14, 2021

Hearing my 6-year-old say, ‘I don’t want you’ broke my heart

But not in the way you’d think.

Updated Oct. 14, 2021

A letter to myself in the middle of the 4th trimester fog

This “new normal” is going to feel more “new” than “normal” for a little while—and that’s okay.

Updated Sep. 30, 2022

True life: Somewhere along the way, I started feeling like a ‘real mom’

Being a mother is the most challenging, heartening, strengthening and humbling role I have ever had.

Updated Oct. 14, 2021

To the mama who thinks she did ‘nothing’ today

What seems to me like a walk around the block to get outside of the house, seems to my kids like a family expedition.

Updated Oct. 14, 2021

To the mama who wakes up exhausted

Plus the one change you should make that can help.

Updated Oct. 14, 2021

This is #momlife: Terrifying toys, lots of boogers and SO much love

The experts should really tell you about things like this. 

Updated Oct. 14, 2021
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