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As these nurses continue caring for expectant mothers, they’re also preparing to become new moms themselves.
But just because moms can stretch to this extent, does not mean we should long-term.
Why it's so important to text your best friend right now, mama.
The truth is, no matter how old my children are, no matter how independent the big ones get, no matter how "put together" I may appear, I humbly share that I am not always managing this very well all on my own. Please know I still need you.
The power of having a village is real.
Where was everyone now?
You can feel their spoken and unspoken judgments, and it's really putting you on edge, but you don't want to have uncomfortable conversations or tension. So what do you do, mama?
What if we all admitted that motherhood can be so, so hard sometimes? What if, after we did that, then we asked for help from the people we love? Or what if we just took it when it was offered to us? Without fear or guilt or inadequacy or feeling like we owe them or beating ourselves up over it?
It is physically horrible, emotionally draining, mentally unbearable, and turns your world upside down. But other mamas in my life (including my own mother) who opened up to me and told me about their experiences demonstrated a breathtaking sense of bravery and resilience.
Our arrangement goes beyond that of roommates. We're genuinely leaning on each other; when one of us has more capacity than the other, she tags in.
Five people who can offer wisdom. Five people who know their dreams and struggles.
You, and your staff, have become an invaluable part of our village.
I sobbed. Because I wanted this baby. Because my body hurt. Because I went through two months of pregnancy for nothing.
Thank you for being there for me, listening to me whine, and loving me no matter what.
“Whether we are school leavers, teachers, support staff or parents we are all in this together,” The Duchess said.
“Back in the day you would have your aunts and cousins and everyone would help you raise your kids. It still takes a village.”
Because none of us can do this alone.
You offer me a space to be vulnerable and to feel safe. A place to be a mother, but also a full person outside of motherhood.
It’s one thing to have mom friends. It’s another to have mom friends who truly love your own children.