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Colleen Temple, M. Ed (she/her) is a freelance writer, author of the novel Summer Breakdown, and editor of This Is Motherhood. She lives in a coastal Massachusetts town with her husband Colin and their three lively, creative, and hilarious children. Summer Breakdown is her debut novel, and you can find more of her work online at @colltemple (IG) and @watchcollwrite (TikTok). www.colleentemple.com
Slowly but surely with time, everything will change.
I can handle some hair loss because, in a way, it gave me my children. I can handle some hair loss because it will grow back. I can handle some hair loss because, in the grand scheme of things, it is a very small issue.
I am with you—in the heaviness and the lightness. I just want you to know that. You're not alone, and I know I'm not either. And sometimes, that's what we need to know most of all.
The hug you give me after you walk through the door from work is something I wait for all day. It recharges me.
6. It has forced me to let go of some unnecessary control.
Being your mother has shown me the immense power of women.
What do we do now?
Today, our neighborhood was affected by the Columbia Gas explosions in Massachusetts—and I keep replaying the last few hours in my head over and over. Today was one of those unimaginable days that then become a reality.
If you're in a tough season right now, please let this be my reminder to you: You will catch a break. You will figure it out. You will find a way.
I'm just here to say, thank you for your vulnerability. And for your honesty. And for your poise.
It's hard to put into words what it feels like the first time you have to put real clothes on after having a baby. Well, actually the word (sound?) 'ughhhhhh' comes to mind.
I didn't realize that a perfect latch wasn't a given, that it was something the two of us would learn together.