15 candy-free classroom Valentine’s treats that won’t end up in a landfill

Swap the candy for stickers and make Valentines Day just as fun without the bellyaches.
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Look, we all know the drill: Halloween sugar rush, Christmas cookie avalanche, and just when you’ve finally pried the last candy cane from your kid’s sticky fingers—BAM. Valentine’s Day swoops in like Cupid’s sugar-coated revenge.
But here’s the thing: some of us parents (especially those of us who’ve witnessed the unholy alliance between a classroom full of third-graders and heart-shaped pixie sticks) are quietly staging a revolution. And honestly? The teachers are our secret allies in this. Because nobody—and I mean nobody—wants to manage 25 kids coming down from a candy heart high during afternoon math.
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Now, before you call me the Valentine Grinch, let me be clear: If your kid gets absolutely giddy about sharing something special with their classmates, I am HERE FOR IT. But maybe—just maybe—we can channel that giving spirit into something that won’t have other parents silently cursing our names as they fish broken plastic toys out of their washing machines.
What are some non-candy Valentine ideas?
Think seed packets that could turn into actual flowers (nature’s original valentine, if you ask me), or cool art supplies that might actually survive longer than a conversation heart. Even stickers—because show me a kid who doesn’t immediately slap those bad boys on their water bottle and wear it like a badge of honor.
The secret sauce here is picking stuff that kids will actually use instead of things that’ll end up in the trash faster than you can say “Be Mine.” A fresh pencil for all that homework they’re definitely excited about? Practical magic. A bookmark? Chef’s kiss.
At the end of the day, Valentine’s Day in elementary school should be about kids feeling the joy of friendship and giving—not about parents having an existential crisis while picking tiny pieces of glitter out of their carpet at midnight. And if we can teach our kids to spread love in a way that doesn’t involve a sugar crash or contributing to the Pacific garbage patch? That’s what I call a parenting win.
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Skip the sugar this year and try these non-candy Valentine ideas instead.
A version of this story was published December 31, 2022. It has been updated.